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Public humiliation ideas? - 11/9/2006 12:06:30 PM

PiercedDaz

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Does A/anyone have any nice ideas about how to perform public humiliation with a sub? I'm not after seedy or nasty ideas (ie "Go and ask the man at that table if you can have their candle so as to insert in yourself!). I'm more interested in subtle and erotic mindgames (ie: removing panties or undoing a blouse one button too far).

I'd love to hear feedback from Dom/mes and subs so that I can get a broad and diverse feedback capturing the needs and desires of both sides of the D/s dynamic.

Thanks.

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RE: Public humiliation ideas? - 11/9/2006 12:09:34 PM

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RE: Public humiliation ideas? - 11/9/2006 5:51:36 PM

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while waiting in a line in a crowded home improvement store wear a bright red gstring and bend down to get something off the floor.

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RE: Public humiliation ideas? - 11/11/2006 12:27:58 PM

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Pierced,
Very Good question, i wish you got more responses but here are some ways that you can make it public humiliation without getting too much attention or way to play privately in public...

at a restaurant...
-Feed your girl entirely. She is not allowed to use knife and fork, you must feed her every mouthful
-Set her in a specific position, such as tie her hands behind her back the entire time.
-Have her walk through the restaurant with a smile passing by each of the patrons and asking "how is your dinner, I hope this evening is well for you..etc..) In other words have her be the manager type person just checking in..its humiliating for her, plus, makes other patrons happy that someone is acknowledging them

At work-
-Have her go to work with benwa balls inserted (just watch out..these little things sometimes have a tendency to fly out at an inappropriate time)
-have her memorize a specific greeting message that is job related and call her up to see if she is saying it in such a way, and be sure she has overenthusiam about it..
For example..if she works for an office..rather then her saying "hello you have reach such and such, ---- Speaking" You can have her do a complete respectful line..."Hello You have reached SUCH and SUCH inc, Where we are here for all your needs, This is ----Speaking on this fine afternoon, How may i help you???" its turning a little message into a warm bubbly greeting.
-Have her wear rope underwear, no underwear, or even have her wear mens briefs...(ever saw those things on a woman, hiddeous)

Walking in Public
-have her walk backwards when walking with you
-Put sunglasses on her but black out the inside so she cant see anything out of them
-Have her give money to every single homeless person she passes, and have her thank them for the opportunity to help them this day
-have her use crutches and wrap her leg in a cast/bandage must get around on crutches only

In general-
-Have her talk REALLY LOUD, she has to talk to everyone LOUDLY
-Have her talk with a one second space in between each word. OR only one word answers.

Ok, these are just a few of them i can probably go on and on...but you get the idea, humiliation doesnt have to be all about sex and exposing ones breast. These little torments can be just as humiliating as a popped button.
Good luck,
justina

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RE: Public humiliation ideas? - 11/12/2006 7:09:18 PM

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Get her to wear a diaper under her clothes even if she doesn't have to use it just wearing it can be humilating enough.

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RE: Public humiliation ideas? - 11/12/2006 7:54:33 PM

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The key with humiliation is what are the subs buttons? This should come first, humiliation play without understanding the subs triggers and reactions can be critical. In Midori's class on humiliation play (HIghly Recommended!), she stresses knowing where the pillars are and not knocking them out.

Is she body concious? Clothes that reveal or emphasise the body or the body part they are concious about?

Shy? Talking to strangers can mortify some. Especially if mixed with one of the other triggers.

Uptight about revealing sub status - Have them wear or do something in public that screams to them submissive without offending others or including them in the scene. This can be a collar, a plug, speach restrictions, dress,

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RE: Public humiliation ideas? - 11/12/2006 11:19:03 PM

MasterNdorei

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Have the submissive wear in public clothes (from a second hand store) that are not their style.

Have a female sub who wears make up go into public without her "face" on. (By contrast make a female sub who does not wear much make up wear tons of "hooker" type make up.)

Take the sub to a kareoki bar and make them sing dorky songs.

Make the sub sing to you in a semi public place, such as a parking lot.

Do not allow the sub to speak to anyone but you in public.

Stick a trail of toliet paper to the sub's shoe, and make her walk the mall as if she did not know.

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RE: Public humiliation ideas? - 11/12/2006 11:51:46 PM

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Take the sub to a kareoki bar and make them sing dorky songs.

Okay I would classify this with cruel and unusual punishment!!

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RE: Public humiliation ideas? - 11/13/2006 9:28:12 AM

MasterNdorei

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Well of course it is.... and sometimes it is additionally cruel to the audience. But then, that is the real reason they sell alcohol at those places, right?

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