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leatherzack -> Dominant side (11/13/2006 2:53:15 AM)

Greetings to All,

i would like to know how and when You have discovered Your Dominant side.

Thank you in advance for Your replies.



Lashra -> RE: Dominant side (11/13/2006 4:54:31 AM)

I've always been this way, it is just my nature. I was always competitive and a more aggressive than alot of my female friends. When I was 19 years old and with my very first boyfriend, I didn't hestitate to push him up against the wall and kiss him hard on the lips. I didn't care that he was bigger and stronger than I was, that didn't even come into my mind. I just knew I wanted  him and I wanted sex my way. Tearing off his shirt or otherwise being aggressive in the bedroom way was just natural to me. Then I started tying him up and it just progressed from there. As far as leading the relationship that was natural to me as well and I know that I couldn't have it any other way.

~Lashra



Mistrix -> RE: Dominant side (11/13/2006 4:57:41 AM)

I have been this way all My life too.  I am the oldest of all My siblings and lost a childhood into child care.  I babysat from an early age, learned to cook and clean and pay bills even from a young age.  Always was a leader in my life and relationships.  I have tried the sub side way and found I was extremly UNHAPPY. I prefer to wear the pants, panties and suit too.....



KaramelGoddess -> RE: Dominant side (11/13/2006 10:11:41 AM)

I discovered my Dominant side at a very young age.  I was always the leader with my girlfriends/playmates as a child.  During my teen years I lost a bit of that as along with puberty changing my body and mind, my self-esteem plummeted.  As I got older and let myself be a more sexual being I gained more confidence and found I had "alternative" interests in the bedroom.  I researched and found there is a whole alternative world out there to explore.  I examined myself and read and read and read a whole lot, then focused my attention on becoming a good Dominant.  Through both online and real time play I am still learning, and I am happiest in that role of Domina.



DianeB269 -> RE: Dominant side (11/13/2006 10:14:56 AM)

I knew I was Dominant at the age of 16 but, I didn't start to really show it 'til I
was about 40



rainn -> RE: Dominant side (11/13/2006 10:46:24 AM)

She looks she would be very good at it . Mistrix I am sure that you are very good at what you put  your hands on, and do a good job of it.



PsyVamp -> RE: Dominant side (11/13/2006 4:51:59 PM)

I think I was born that way.  I can't remember the exact moment, there was no revelation.  I did, however, try to deny my nature for a few years.  It did nothing but make everyone miserable and I forgot myself, like I was living in a permanent fog .  Then my boy used the "D" word and it hit me like a bolt of lightning.  I have been so much happier since that day.
Damn Vampyre



leatherzack -> RE: Dominant side (11/13/2006 11:08:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I knew I was Dominant at the age of 16 but, I didn't start to really show it 'til I
was about 40

Could You tell me why You have waited so long before showing it ?



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