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Samwhiplash -> After your first play session (11/13/2006 2:52:41 PM)
Wondering if subs wld be so kind as to share their thoughts after their first play experience. Did it leave you confused, head spinning (in a good or bad way), questioning all that you have thought you are, or confirming everything you have always fantasised about? Ty in advance. Miss Sam

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: After your first play session (11/13/2006 3:00:56 PM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_581285/mpage_1/key_first/tm.htm#581289 First invitation to an event http://www.collarchat.com/m_576521/mpage_1/key_first/tm.htm#576524 First time Party http://www.collarchat.com/m_323269/mpage_1/key_first/tm.htm#323597 First Lifestyle Meeting http://www.collarchat.com/m_311113/mpage_1/key_first%252Cparty/tm.htm#311125 Your First Experience http://www.collarchat.com/m_291346/mpage_1/key_first%252Ctime%252Cclub%252Cplay/tm.htm#291346 1st Time at the Wet Spot http://www.collarchat.com/m_195507/mpage_1/key_first%252Ctime%252Cclub%252Cplay/tm.htm#195507 Behaviors and Reactions During Play http://www.collarchat.com/m_78610/mpage_1/key_first%252Ctime%252Cclub%252Cplay/tm.htm#78610 Question about First Time Scenes http://www.collarchat.com/m_249091/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#249091 My first real scene! http://www.collarchat.com/m_221923/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#221923 First Play party http://www.collarchat.com/m_202913/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#202913 Novice Reactions http://www.collarchat.com/m_95381/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#95381 "playing" on the first meet?

bbwcraves -> RE: After your first play session (11/13/2006 3:01:44 PM)
Miss Sam i was left finally knowing i had found myself...lol. Oh and my head was spinning but in a good way. my husband saw a change right after i came home and he commented as much. Have a great day. bbwcraves

dublinsub -> RE: After your first play session (11/13/2006 3:37:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash Wondering if subs wld be so kind as to share their thoughts after their first play experience. Did it leave you ..........confirming everything you have always fantasised about? Miss Sam It was over 20 years ago and definitely confirmed every thing that I fantasised about. Then and now. I adored her boots and the seemingly endless sting of her whip was just sheer ecstasy. dublinsub

diamonddreamlove -> RE: After your first play session (11/13/2006 6:24:52 PM)
I couldn't go back to who i was before. It brought out the real me.

littleone35 -> RE: After your first play session (11/13/2006 6:36:02 PM)
Well with my first Master it was like nice but is this all there is? The first time i played with Master Matt i said to myself ahh so this is what it is all about, my body was tingling and my head was spinning in a good way. It has been 9 months and he still has that effect on me. Matt's littleone

ownedgirlie -> RE: After your first play session (11/13/2006 7:01:13 PM)
It confirmed everything I thought I was and more. And yes, my world was spinning and oh so wonderfully. And even now, he still makes my world spin.

SirGordonslil -> RE: After your first play session (11/13/2006 11:20:53 PM)
*quote:* Wondering if subs wld be so kind as to share their thoughts after their first play experience. Did it leave you confused, head spinning (in a good or bad way), questioning all that you have thought you are, or confirming everything you have always fantasised about? [:)]Samwhiplash, it didnt leave me confuzed, i was just left wondering how to figure out a way to incorporate this new wonderful thing into my life. i spent 2 years asking questions, learning from people in chat and real life,and researching, that when i actually had my first scene it was all that i had imagined and left me wanting more. my head was buzzing, i loved every minute of the scene. guess your first encounter depends on who you have it with.[:D]

susie -> RE: After your first play session (11/13/2006 11:35:28 PM)
I will remember it always as if it were yesterday. It felt like I had come home at last. So much about myself fell into place. It also left me with the feeling that at last I had found someone that was going to be very special to me. I was right 2 and half years later we are still together and have bought a house and set up a business together. How glad I am that I said yes to that play session.

darksdesire -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 7:54:17 AM)
i will never forget! Even though he took it slow and easy because i'd never played before (and i was shaking uncontrollably from fear and excitement), it was incredible! Interestingly, i found sex and intimacy combined for the first time in my life, probably because i was finally able to be who i was in the presence of another. And it continues to be just as intimate and erotic years later.

LordVelvet -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 8:11:17 AM)
From a Dominant perspective, I still remember MY first to. Watching a submissive give over complete control, ME taking it and the affects it had on her, priceless.

RUpainsmith -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 8:26:10 AM)
When I first started off, I wasn't sure where I was. Luckily there was a very patient and considerate switch who let me find out what both sides of the crop. Putting on my bottom hat for the moment, I realized the utter relaxation in surrendering control, and freedom that comes with it. For some, submission brings a sense of electricity and fire; for me, bottoming brought a calming and peace. Style and personal elements I suppose.

Celeste43 -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 10:08:33 AM)
It was amazing and wonderful. However I had spoken with him several times a day for almost two months before we played. He knew me very well, he went out of his way to tailor the session to the things he knew I would enjoy. He wanted it to be a totally positive experience and it was. He's a very careful, methodical man and watched my reactions to make sure I didn't get panicky and he checked in with me frequently. He still does and play time with him is still awesome. And he's coming home tomorrow night!

babysburnin -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 6:35:36 PM)
Our first session was the most intense (or maybe I was just less famliar). I cried afterwards in his arms. I think I cried because he said ONE thing that triggered past hurt. I was prepared to feel some sock waves, but never did - I was fine.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 6:39:06 PM)
since this is the only way i will ever know the answer to your question, i, too, am interested in knowing the answer.

amuzingtoyou -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 6:47:17 PM)
my very first play session or scene or whatever you want to call it, was a long long time ago. I was young...in my early 20's and very much into experimentation. I remember during, feeling every fiber of my body come alive. It felt wonderful and like nothing else i had experienced before. It was better than any sex i had ever had. Afterwards i remember feeling very ashamed, and dealing with some pretty heavy duty emotions. I was dealing with the whole catholic upbringing and feeling very guilty and dirty about what i did. However that didn't stop me..lol. I worked through those feelings and began to really accept and appreciate all i was feeling.

slavejali -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 7:39:02 PM)
I can't really remember exactly...but I think I was conscious of thoughts and feelings like " There is no going back now"..."a feeling of crossing over to someplace from which there was no return.." At some point I felt fear .."I never wanted the feeling go away."

behindmirrors -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 10:30:03 PM)
My first play experience left me happy (and exhausted) beyond words. I never even imagined it could be so wonderful. behindmirrors.

BalletBob -> RE: After your first play session (11/14/2006 10:32:58 PM)
Hi Miss Sam. Well my first experience was a little strange at first. It was the first time I was naked in front of another woman, besides my wife. And yes, my head was spinning, in a GREAT WAY! I loved every minute of it...from the Plastic Wrap to the Ice Cubes. I relive it in my head all the time, and hope maybe to find someone, someday, as great as MADAM was. Now Bored, BalletBob

leatherzack -> RE: After your first play session (11/15/2006 12:51:53 AM)
Well, my first session is a very bad souvenir. It was with a so-called Dom who needed to break up the sub to reassure himself. At least, as even after such a bad experience i still wanted to learn more about the lifestyle, it showed me that i was made for that.

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