TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Dominate Male Difference? (2/8/2005 8:21:29 AM)
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ORIGINAL: knees2you Does being a Dominate Male to a Submissive Male feel Different then Male Dominance to a female Submissive??? Having topped both men and women, I have begun to realize that my BDSM impulses have little to do with gender attraction (or attraction in general). When I top, say in a wax scene, it matters little the gender or appearance of the bottom chained beneath my candle. I need not feel any sexual attraction to enjoy the sharp intake of air when a particularly sensitive spot is splashed wit a particularly hot drip of wax. I think training, and even service, work in much the same way for me. Teaching a ritual or positions does not depend on attraction. I enjoy the dedication shown and the enthusiasm to please. Currently, my partner and I are looking for both male and female slaves for ownership, training and play. When I think about owning a male slave, there is some difference to how I imagine using him then I would a female slave, however, I do think the desire to own comes from the same place and is satisfied in much the same way. I have never had a problem topping both men and women, having realized that my kink is not gender based. However, I do also enjoy a strong sexual attraction to women that plays little in my BDSM play... Taggard
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