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Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 10:55:11 PM   
SpoiledDomme4you


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Status: offline 		I apologize beforehand about this rant, but I am pissed at how rude this is.
I placed my ad on here seriously seeking a male to join me. I am in no way rude to anyone. Yes, my profile is blunt but it is what I am seeking. If it is not your cup of tea that is fine but there is no need to bash anyone.
I made the mistake of breaking my rule and sending an email to someone I thought was serious about his being a slave. All he had to do was say no he was not interested, or as in most cases (and the reason I began not sending first emails) just not reply at all. Instead this is what was in my mailbox today...


<email deleted>
 

I left off his name because I am not the ignorant b*tch he has portrayed me to be in his email.
If someone contacts you, and you need to be rude though they were not, give them the respect they have given you. If you are disrespected in their mail to you then I would understand your need to do the same if you feel it.
Thanks for listening, and again I apologize for the rant.
I wish you all luck in your search, or happiness in what you have found.

[Mod Note:  please don't paste received emails into forum posts]

< Message edited by ModeratorEleven -- 11/15/2006 6:51:54 AM >

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:00:50 PM   
Mikal


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Status: offline 		Perhaps it's just me, but I don't really see anything wrong with his answer... but then, I haven't looked at either of your profiles, and I don't know what you sent to him. I've gotten messages that were very ugly & profain (I didn't initiate the contact either *rolls eyes*), and this just isn't my idea of rude. C'est la vie.



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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:07:10 PM   
SpoiledDomme4you


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Status: offline 		All that I said in my email to him was that I had read his profile and thought that I may be offering what he was seeking. If he wasn't speaking to another dominant to take a look at my profile when he got a chance. If it interested him then I would look for his email in reply but if it didn't then I wished him luck in his search.
That was it, plain and simple.
 

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:11:49 PM   
SpoiledDomme4you


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Status: offline 		The good evening at the beginning, and the be well at the end must be throwing it off as not rude.
Maybe it's just me that is reading the rude comments in the body of it.

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:13:11 PM   
MasterKalif


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Status: offline 		I am sorry to say...but I don't see it as rude either...this sub seems like he was hurt before or something....he does sound sarcastic, but not mean. In short he is not available I suppose. What I consider rude was that someone once asked me that if my first language was not English (even though I write it better than many English speakers) she did not want to know me....now thats rude in my book, since all it takes is a simple "no thank you". Luckily Ive gotten more polite responses from submissives since.

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:20:29 PM   
Lordandmaster


Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline 		Ya think maybe this line in your profile coulda turned him off?

quote:

I am a married Female Supremacist, dominating the male pigs of this world.

 
Just wonderin'.

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:20:38 PM   
susie


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Joined: 11/21/2004
Status: offline 		I read this twice and actually can't see where he was rude. I read your profile and I would say that the type of male that would respond to you would be quite limited due to the way it is worded. I am suggesting that you change your profile if it is an accurate depiction of what you are looking for but that you be aware that just because someone is a male slave or submissive does not automatically mean they will be interested in what you have to offer.  It does not make them a "supposed slave"

< Message edited by susie -- 11/14/2006 11:22:38 PM >

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:23:22 PM   
Alixandria


Posts: 101
Joined: 2/27/2005
From: Edmonton, Alberta
Status: offline 		Actually I wish that the responses I got were as cogent and literate.  While he obviously didn't tell you what you wanted to hear, it is not considered rude to explain the reasons for thinking an offer is incompatible with one's own goals.

Perhaps next time you will take the time to read the person's profile and journal before making offers that are clearly incompatible.  That is, after all, something that Dommes here often advise aspiring male subs to do.

Alix

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:25:00 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline 		There was nothing remotely rude in his email to you.

This, from your profile, however, I find extremely rude:  "I'm not here for idle chat, be serious or F**K OFF!!!!"

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:25:40 PM   
SamKeithsslave


Posts: 322
Joined: 11/7/2006
From: Melbourne, Australia
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Mikal

Perhaps it's just me, but I don't really see anything wrong with his answer... but then, I haven't looked at either of your profiles, and I don't know what you sent to him. I've gotten messages that were very ugly & profain (I didn't initiate the contact either *rolls eyes*), and this just isn't my idea of rude. C'est la vie.




I tend to agree with you, I dont see where the rudeness is, in fact he even states his intention isnt to be rude or intimidating. However like you I havent read either of their profiles myself, nor as you state do we know what was sent to him. I will say though his question - "as a true female domme what is the total disdain and hatred towards physical pleasure?" comes across as being a little odd, to me at least. Odd, but not rude.
BTW, "spoileddomme4you" I dont believe anything he has said portrays you (well not to me at least) as an ignorant b*tch.

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:26:30 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		I dont see it as rude. Maybe a little off in the humor, yes. That I'l give you.
But with some of the truly rude and nasty emails that I have recieved, this one just sounds hurt.  Especaily if his journals do explress a similiar tone of disenchantment, he was just being open with you. Perhaps it was TMI, but it was far from rude.
I also fail to see where he makes you out to be an ignorant bitch at all. I dont see where he has made ANY comments against you specifically.
Give the guy a break, he sounds more like hes been kicked around a lot lately.  Its like the guy at a bar who aks why every woman wants to tear a mans ego down and stomp on his heart. Does the woman he asks this of take it seriously?  No, they wonder how many drinks he has had and who broke his heart recently.

Dv

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:28:29 PM   
SamKeithsslave


Posts: 322
Joined: 11/7/2006
From: Melbourne, Australia
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

There was nothing remotely rude in his email to you.

This, from your profile, however, I find extremely rude:  "I'm not here for idle chat, be serious or F**K OFF!!!!"


Wow! Well I agree THAT is rude. Direct, but rude - LOL. There are so many better ways to say the above.

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:29:49 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Did the OP disappear?  I cant even find the profile

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:31:04 PM   
LadyFrancesca


Posts: 411
Joined: 12/3/2005
Status: offline 		just my opinion, but I find his sarcasm rude.

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:33:19 PM   
TrueCalling


Posts: 97
Joined: 1/28/2005
Status: offline 		One word..hypocrite! Hmm, i seem to remember a saying...Treat others the way you wish to be treated. (and get a grip when it slaps ya in the face!)

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:34:13 PM   
Lordandmaster


Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline 		She must have taken it down the minute people starting posting little quotes from it.  I guess she realized it wasn't generating her very much sympathy.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Did the OP disappear?  I cant even find the profile

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/14/2006 11:41:58 PM   
jblack


Posts: 102
Joined: 10/18/2006
Status: offline 		Just my $.02: I didn't find him to be rude.

While I also can't find the OP's profile, if the snippets taken from that profile are accurate, I would say that his reply was, in fact, remarkably civil.

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/15/2006 12:23:53 AM   
RedSavageSlave


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Joined: 9/12/2006
Status: offline 		add me to the list of "he wasnt rude"..

must be that Spoiled thing she has going on.. being told no doesnt work for her??

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/15/2006 12:40:59 AM   
SamKeithsslave


Posts: 322
Joined: 11/7/2006
From: Melbourne, Australia
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyFrancesca

just my opinion, but I find his sarcasm rude.


A few people have mentioned sarcasm, I dont see that either - LOL. Maye I am not looking hard enough?

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RE: Supposed slaves searching... - 11/15/2006 5:02:11 AM   
princessrn


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Joined: 7/23/2006
Status: offline 		i find it interesting that some one who is totaly rude in her own profile finds time to complain about responses she gets .... shruggs  looking at his response would seem  her mail to him was like her profile , being pasted one side its hard to work out though..think he was direct in what his needs were  but rude i dont think so.

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