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Physical dominating activities - 11/15/2006 7:30:40 PM

cyber

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This is a question from mistresses. I would like to ask it particularly from professional mistresses and non professionals. The question is: How much physical dominating activities are erotic for a mistress? I know that as a man dominating a woman can be very erotic especially when it involves in physical actions and interactions like corporal punishment or bondage and at the same time it can be an erotic action for the submissive or slave. Is it true that physical dominating activities are not sexually attractive for women and they more enjoy mental interaction with their slave or submissive? Is it true that slaves enjoy more than their mistresses (sexually)? Important: I am not talking about the spiritual side of BDSM or Mental engagement. I understand that mental action and interaction has huge impact on the pleasure result of BDSM activities but I want to ask your idea just about pure physical actions.

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RE: Physical dominating activities - 11/15/2006 7:35:35 PM

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I enjoy both the mental activities with my boy, as well as the physical ones. There are certain physical activities (such as bodliy restraining him) that are extremely erotic, and others that really dont get me anywhere. I do believe that Angel finds more of our physical interaction erotic than I do sometimes, but then again his reactions can make even the unarousing activities a bit more interesting.

Hope that gives you the answer you want.
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RE: Physical dominating activities - 11/15/2006 7:41:12 PM

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Not all activities I do with My subby are erotic but mentally fun and challenging, but in the end Im sure that I am pleased

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RE: Physical dominating activities - 11/16/2006 1:49:42 AM

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Then the next question is which physical activities have more pleasure for mistresses generally. Are there some activities that are more enjoyable for women as a Mistresses?

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RE: Physical dominating activities - 11/16/2006 1:52:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I enjoy both the mental activities with my boy, as well as the physical ones. There are certain physical activities (such as bodliy restraining him) that are extremely erotic, and others that really dont get me anywhere. I do believe that Angel finds more of our physical interaction erotic than I do sometimes, but then again his reactions can make even the unarousing activities a bit more interesting.

Hope that gives you the answer you want.
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DiurnalVampire, thanks for your comment. Can I ask which one you enjoy more: Bondage, Corporal Punishment or Body Worship?

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RE: Physical dominating activities - 11/16/2006 4:26:36 AM

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I find any physical interaction with my male slave to be erotic -- be it CBT, punching, choking, caning, bondage....whatever. And the more corporal, the more arousing it is. It's the way I'm wired.

I'm trying to figure out why it would be more erotic for male doms than for femdoms?

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RE: Physical dominating activities - 11/16/2006 5:18:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

I find any physical interaction with my male slave to be erotic -- be it CBT, punching, choking, caning, bondage....whatever. And the more corporal, the more arousing it is. It's the way I'm wired.

I'm trying to figure out why it would be more erotic for male doms than for femdoms?

I'm trying to figure out that comment as well... ???

As for the physical... I enjoy it a great deal. I'm a physically powerful woman & really enjoy a good game of take-down. For over 6 yrs I had a partner who is a retired pro-wrestler & our rough house type of play was extremely enjoyable for both of us. I was able to "let my beast out" & not worry about my actions being misunderstood & he found a way to work past his tension & mental reservation of hurting a woman during rough intimate play/sexual encounters.

I have had other encounters with men who couldn't deal with my being physically aggressive even though they said they enjoyed a physically powerful woman. I think being faced with the reality that a woman was truly able to overpower them was far too humiliating & they were more comfortable with the fantasy.

As to the second question... the activities that I would find most enjoyable would depend on the reaction I would get from those I interact with. As much as I enjoyed the take-down play with the partner I mentioned above this same activity with someone else was rarely duplicated. Same thing goes with all forms of play mentioned so far in this thread. Spanking one person isn't like spanking another... & so on.

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RE: Physical dominating activities - 11/16/2006 5:25:40 AM

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I personally love tying him up and giving him a good spanking, followed by a good hard caning. Toss some CBT in there and alot of sexual teasing. When I'm good and ready I grab a handful of his hair, force him onto his knees and take him with the strapon. If thats what you mean by phyiscal, then yes, I am totally into it.

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RE: Physical dominating activities - 11/16/2006 5:16:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

As for the physical... I enjoy it a great deal. I'm a physically powerful woman & really enjoy a good game of take-down. For over 6 yrs I had a partner who is a retired pro-wrestler & our rough house type of play was extremely enjoyable for both of us. I was able to "let my beast out" & not worry about my actions being misunderstood & he found a way to work past his tension & mental reservation of hurting a woman during rough intimate play/sexual encounters.

I have two dents in my sheetrock from close encounters with one of my former Marines who I clocked so hard he banged into the wall -- twice! Those are honestly my favorite types....the ones who have enough meat and structure that I don't have to fear breaking something (or breaking my hand or cutting myself on one of their bones in the process!)

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