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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/17/2006 10:52:35 AM

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Why the question?

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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/18/2006 4:02:07 AM

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i am 50 and Master is 35 and that's the way W/we both like it! He has always gone for older women, and i am finding out the benefits of a younger man! (My first hubby was 4 years older, my second the same age as me ... i'm going down LOL!). My Dominant side would still like a sub, I'm not being overly ageist in My search, but leaning more to younger rather than older ... not trying to hijack another thread, but as D/s and bdsm are about sex on some level for Me ... and I have a very healthy appetite ... younger might be able to keep up with Me ;-)

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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/18/2006 4:12:04 AM

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I am 28 and my boy is 23 today lol and for a while i was worried about him being younger but he has a better head oon his shoulders than most of the men i know who are over thirty. I dont think it matters and am thinking about takin on a maid who is 45 it amuses me that he is much older than me but i dont think it will be a problem age is just a number

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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/18/2006 4:24:15 AM

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When I have talked about arranging a session for chantel with a Dom, chantel has said that a younger Dom would be far more humilating. chantel says it is down to the 'lads out on the town arrogance' that some young men show.

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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/18/2006 4:30:06 AM

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Thank you Ponyseeker. First of all I have to submit what a wonderful level of respect I have found on this site so far. I love returning to what I know to be right and respecting those in authority above me as a sub (gosh, I already think of myself in that regard, lol). And my friend and I had playtime the other night and we fell into the roles during play with he as dom and me as a sub and it seems like it was just so natural. He gave directions and I never even questioned, and it just felt so right (and I'm very strong-willed). I have interacted with both older and younger, and the advantage, for me, of younger, is that they have more patience with my energy (TONS), and put it to good use, lol!! My friend and I have not consummated anything thus far and are both new to the lifestyle and I just want to let things play out and see how they go.

P.S. I love the arrogance of younger guys.

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I have found that I have prefered older woman all my life... it has its + & - but for the most part I love it.
I know on hear a lot of the subs have problems with younger doms...
Sunshine.... your "friend" (hopefully future dom) even though he might be younger than you dont knock it...LOL its hard enough to find someone you like let alone adding all kinds of crap of your own to interfear with it.

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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/18/2006 10:07:57 AM

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Master is 5 years younger than me. It makes no difference. I married a man 18 years older but only dated 1 male younger than me. I don't think I could sub to someone was say, 18-20 but that could be because I have an unmentionable who is nearly 18, so makes that age a bit of a no-no for me. When I was younger 18-30 I liked men 10-20 years older than me, now I'm nearly 40 I like men 30-40 <sighs>

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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/18/2006 2:03:14 PM

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I had a sub who was six years older than me. I never saw that as a problem.

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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/18/2006 2:09:55 PM

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Ive had pets younger than me, Angel is 22. Ive had pets as much as 15 years older than me. We have never had a problem in our dynamic becasue of our age.

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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/18/2006 2:22:22 PM

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Subbing to a Dom 10 yrs younger here.
But chronology doesnt play any part in our chemistry/dynamic. He feels the same age.

Daddy Doms though, i like them older, and father christmassy please lol
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RE: Just out of curiosity - 11/18/2006 5:39:36 PM

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