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LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/17/2006 3:25:12 PM)
Let's also remember comfort- you're going to be sitting and eating for a few hours. A brand new corset might not be the best in terms of practicality.

medievalwench -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/17/2006 3:37:21 PM)
i think its drinks only so that will be okay, thanks for the thought though, wench

sissifytoserve -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/17/2006 3:38:32 PM)
What first BDSM meet up? [8\|]

medievalwench -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/17/2006 3:43:30 PM)
i'm going to an informal meet up in the Midlands of the UK on Sunday with MasterKernow, my Master, wench

mnottertail -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/17/2006 3:43:57 PM)
Still and all, kiddo--- you don't want to shoot all your bullets, appreciation for an understated, yet slobbering fetid depraved dressed to the nines, outfit is the bomb, he will sit with a hard-on and you will in blissful ignorance be somewhat unaware of your allure. Thats how you set that cement. Ron

LuxNecronis -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/17/2006 4:02:49 PM)
My first BDSM meet-up, the person I was meeting couldn't believe their eyes. They had only seen what they wanted to (keep your minds out of the gutter for a moment, all she wanted was my eyes), and were unprepared for who I was. I wore black. And I mean black. Black steel-toed sneakers, socks, denim jeans, light cotton dress shirt. I also had my own set of black leather wrist and ankle cuffs, with two steel D-rings on either side of one another. I also wore a silver heavy-link choker under the collar of the shirt. I have very pale skin, so the effect, in my opinion, was rather striking... it doesn't hurt that I'm 6'2" tall and weigh 200 pounds. I also had, with me, a 6-foot ebony walking staff (we met in a public park and walked a bit). I have always worn what makes me comfortable, and what will put me in the mindset I need to be in.

dskittyn22 -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/18/2006 12:28:28 PM)
Well, now that Y/yall decided what you'll be wearing.... pictures? [:D] The fashion-conscious must know, lol. I personally have no idea what'd I'd wear, since I've never been out in the scene. I think I'd be to worried about making a poor impression to have a good time...

medievalwench -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/18/2006 1:35:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dskittyn22 Well, now that Y/yall decided what you'll be wearing.... pictures? [:D] The fashion-conscious must know, lol. I personally have no idea what'd I'd wear, since I've never been out in the scene. I think I'd be to worried about making a poor impression to have a good time... i'll ask Master to take some pics before W/we go out, i know i'll be taking some of Him too, i am nervous but its probably going to be okay. Thanks kittyn :0)

wandersalone -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/19/2006 4:18:22 AM)
How did the munch go and what did you wear???? Do tell! Did you and your Master have an enjoyable time? I went to a munch this weekend also and wore black jeans and a blue off the shoulder top. Some of the jewellry I wear could probably pass as a bit fetish-y (leather bands and a wrist cuff) however I wear those even at work and must admit that I probably look just like your average woman catching up with friends, which is exactly what the munch was like.... smiles.

medievalwench -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/19/2006 5:26:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Still and all, kiddo--- you don't want to shoot all your bullets, appreciation for an understated, yet slobbering fetid depraved dressed to the nines, outfit is the bomb, he will sit with a hard-on and you will in blissful ignorance be somewhat unaware of your allure. Thats how you set that cement. Ron <lol> sounds like fun :0) i love it when i know He practically wants to leave so He can 'get' me at home, naughty of my of course, but i think Master likes it when i'm a bit of a bad girl, it gives Him more reason to Dom me.

medievalwench -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/19/2006 5:28:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wandersalone How did the munch go and what did you wear???? Do tell! Did you and your Master have an enjoyable time? I went to a munch this weekend also and wore black jeans and a blue off the shoulder top. Some of the jewellry I wear could probably pass as a bit fetish-y (leather bands and a wrist cuff) however I wear those even at work and must admit that I probably look just like your average woman catching up with friends, which is exactly what the munch was like.... smiles. i haven't been yet, its tonght - i'm really nervous, i feel like its my first day at school or something <lol>. i'm glad you had a good time at your munch, your outfit sounds really nice too, i'm sure you looked gorgeous but then i think you're really lovely in yur profile picture too. thanks, wench

afeathr -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/19/2006 8:30:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: medievalwench i am going to meet other people in the lifestyle this weekend for the first time and the dress code is Goth/vanilla as its in an ordinary pub. i'm nervous and don't want to look stupid - i've only ever been out to non BDSM events with Master where i dressed very casually, and at home i am not to wear clothing. i do have Gothish gear but don't want to look like i'm trying to be a Domme, is there any clothing which would be considered inappropriate for a sub? (like certain types of boots or corsets for example?). Of course i will be in one of Master's collars and He will have to approve my outfit before we go but as He has never been to a BDSM meet up either He said i should ask here for advice on my clothing options. As far as His clothing, He always dresses smart Goth anyway and of course He can wear whatever He wants, Thanks, wench Is there anyone else, that you know, that is going to the event? Perhaps they could give you some advice.

medievalwench -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/19/2006 8:47:21 AM)
i don't know anyone at all in RL who is into the lifestyle, i met Master on a vanilla group online years ago and He didn't know at the time what direction our lives would take so He doesn't know anyone either, this will be the first time i meet people locally. So far i've put on my makeup once and then washed it off and reapplied it, burnt my foot on my hair straighteners, and put on my 'story of O' ring and undies, but i have to wait for Master's final decision before i get dressed, He is going with me but He's not home right now but He just called me to run His bath so i guess He will be back soon. Sincerely, wench

bandit25 -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/19/2006 9:01:09 AM)
You're quite lovely also so I don't think you need to worry overmuch. Relax and have some fun.

medievalwench -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/19/2006 9:25:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bandit25 You're quite lovely also so I don't think you need to worry overmuch. Relax and have some fun. awww, thankyou, you're so kind :0) Master is back now so i can get dressed. i will try to chill and have fun, its weird going to pubs and not drinking - i gave up alcohol over 4 years ago but i still miss it when i'm in a social setting, but i suppose its good as it means its my own effort to relax and socialise and not the booze giving me false confidence. Thankyou again, wench

dskittyn22 -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/19/2006 11:19:24 AM)
Ooh... I hope it goes well and yall have fun! Lol, I'm nervous for you. [:)] Good luck, and hurry home with pictures, -kittyn

medievalwench -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/19/2006 5:22:44 PM)
i had a pretty good time, though Master struggled to hear the conversation over the music as He is partially deaf. the people were very friendly and it was quite relaxed. i ended up wearing my eternity collar, black leggings, a black smock blouse, and shiny pvc stiletto boots. Master didn't have time to take a pic as He was relaxing in His bath before we went out. i did feel nervous though. thanks to everyone who replied, wench

gipsydelight -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/24/2006 5:31:36 PM)
it sounds like a munch you´re going to. Don´t try too hard, just wear what you would normally wear down the pub. i think they mention goth in the dresscode because goths don´t have "normal" sort of vanilla wear in their wardrobe and would feel uncomfortable dressing in casual clothes. it just means goth is welcome.

dcnovice -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/24/2006 5:42:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuxNecronis My first BDSM meet-up, the person I was meeting couldn't believe their eyes. They had only seen what they wanted to (keep your minds out of the gutter for a moment, all she wanted was my eyes), and were unprepared for who I was. I wore black. And I mean black. Black steel-toed sneakers, socks, denim jeans, light cotton dress shirt. I also had my own set of black leather wrist and ankle cuffs, with two steel D-rings on either side of one another. I also wore a silver heavy-link choker under the collar of the shirt. I have very pale skin, so the effect, in my opinion, was rather striking... it doesn't hurt that I'm 6'2" tall and weigh 200 pounds. I also had, with me, a 6-foot ebony walking staff (we met in a public park and walked a bit). I have always worn what makes me comfortable, and what will put me in the mindset I need to be in. Not to hijack, but thanks to Lux for a description of what a guy might wear; I really appreciated it. One of my excuses (and yes, I know it's an excuse) for not going to the local leather bar is that I'm unsure of what to wear. P.S. Cute dachshunds!

AlderTheKitty -> RE: What did you wear to your first BDSM meet up? (11/27/2006 12:31:25 PM)
First off fetish gear at an ordenary bar is a no no just put on a nice blouse and jeans and or maybe a skirt just make sure that you wairing something that if someone you know who wasn't aware of your lifestyle saw you in it that you wouldn't offend them or other patron at the venue just find something you feel comfortable in

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