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littleone35 -> Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 2:12:53 PM)

I am just wondering what does it for you?  The way a person looks or their personallity?  I know looks help sure but if they are not  great looking but they have a great personallity can that offset it for you?

My Master said after talking to me by phone he would have wanted me even if  i was 800 lbs and looked like a troll i am not and do not. but he loves my personallity, and thinks i am pretty.  I liked his personallity too and would have wanted him anyway  he just happened to be very handsome also.

So what does it for you?

Matt's littleone



GaiaMordany -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 2:16:01 PM)

Looks are important no denying that, but I have discovered that personality can overcome any physical attraction.



medievalwench -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 2:50:28 PM)

i didn't feel physically attracted to Master at first, but there was a definite emotional or chemical attraction as soon as W/we met.
He isn't the sort of guy i thought i found attractive, and similar looking guys still don't do it for me. He's definitely not the skinny Goth boy i though was my kind of guy, more of an Aragorn than  Legolas <lol>
now i think He's gorgeous though,

wench




slavejali -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 3:03:27 PM)

Up till this Master, I would have said I go for older men. I don't know if its their looks, or just because of life experience, or what it actually was. maybe it was just the generational air of authority and the confidence and sense of self that comes with age I percieved (I do however love silver in a mans hair, seems to make them a man to me somehow). However, Master is only 5 years older than me...so there goes that theory out the window [:)]

Looks in themselves aren't important to me.



cuddleheart50 -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 3:05:07 PM)

Like I have said before, ...attraction gets me there, personality keeps me there.



KatyLied -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 3:13:00 PM)

800lbs and troll-like would never work for me.  I don't consider myself shallow, but there has to be a physical attraction there.  Beyond that, I like a guy who is intelligent, who can outdo me in a conversation and teach me things.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 3:24:09 PM)

When it comes to long term relationships, personality can vastly expand the variety of ways that make someone "gorgeous" in my eyes- but not infinitely.



Kalira -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 5:22:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I am just wondering what does it for you?  The way a person looks or their personallity?  I know looks help sure but if they are not  great looking but they have a great personallity can that offset it for you?

My Master said after talking to me by phone he would have wanted me even if  i was 800 lbs and looked like a troll i am not and do not. but he loves my personallity, and thinks i am pretty.  I liked his personallity too and would have wanted him anyway  he just happened to be very handsome also.

So what does it for you?

Matt's littleone

to be even remotly attracted to someone, I first have to like their personality. So, for me, it would be personality over looks.



AquaticSub -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 6:16:23 PM)

My dominant and I were attracted to each other to start with but not hardly as much as we are now. Personality is more important but there I still need to be attracted to the person.



MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 6:23:40 PM)

While there is without question a particular type I am most physically attracted to, personality is more important to Me in the long run. 
 
Lady Topaz



BORAT -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 6:25:44 PM)

I like woman with healthy vagin, she must be good with plow, not have hair on the chest, and no history of mental retardation in her family.



Aileen68 -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 6:42:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BORAT

I like woman with healthy vagin, she must be good with plow, not have hair on the chest, and no history of mental retardation in her family.

Damn...three out of four.



MagiksSlave -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 6:45:35 PM)

LOL Do I have to choose???
no but really Everyone is beautifull in someones eyes we all have differnet tastes and what is gorgouse to me is not to you (lol this happens with me and my sisters its kinda funny) and really you could be the most gorgouse man ever but if your dumb as a brick a jerk nasty inconsiderate sorry Ill show you the door!!!

Magik's slave



nikaa -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 6:50:39 PM)

My grams used to say, " You can buy boobs, get a face lift, and suck all that fat from your thighs but you can't purchase a personality." I strongly beleive this is true.
 
I can over look  physical flaws or short comings  much easier than I can a crappy personality.



MagiksSlave -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 6:53:16 PM)

HEHE i like that nikka

I also like "I may be fat but I can diet you'll be a stupid inconsiderate jerk forever"

Magik's slave



ownedgirlie -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 7:11:22 PM)

I was incredibly attracted to my Master before I even knew what he looked like.



Aileen68 -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 7:15:03 PM)

I like a healthy serving of both aspects.
I think they compliment each other.



MagiksSlave -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 7:36:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

I was incredibly attracted to my Master before I even knew what he looked like.


((smiles)) thats awsome and I know exactly what your talking about!!

Magik's slave



andreaC -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 7:37:01 PM)

It was his personality, his mind......we connected right at the beginning and now that connection is taking us in our dream life of living together as 24/7 in the summer of 2007. [:)]



Emperor1956 -> RE: Looks or personallity? (11/17/2006 7:41:16 PM)

quote:


quote:

ORIGINAL: BORAT

I like woman with healthy vagin, she must be good with plow, not have hair on the chest, and no history of mental retardation in her family.


Aileen:  Damn...three out of four.



Well, you could shave, darling.

E.



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