mutilatedflower -> RE: Get over yourself! (11/20/2006 5:47:16 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SamKeithsslave I'm a little lost too as to what has motivated such a post. Is it to try and make those who have Dommes jealous, cos he has the "best" one? Is that why it is here and not in the Mistress forums? Or is it an inordinately huge pride in his Pro-Dommes abilities than has caused him to want to share with other subs and slaves? I think not. I would imagine most male subs believe their Pro-Domme is the "best", as many female (and male) subs/slaves believe they have the best Master/Mistress. Whatever his motivation I have to question his choice to come to a forum and with his second post try and alienate the Domme population with his arrogance and assumptions. I akin it to walking into an Irish Bar and announcing that my proddie God is better than yours. Got to love the Irish [:)] my grandfather returned to his 'motherland' again recently, he is 92 and kissed the stone! He swears 2 pints of guiness a day is what has kept him alive for so long [:D] what is one doing with their play partners, if they do not believe that they are 'the best'? you can't just submit to someone who doesn't earn their way. and you will not have an interest in owning someone if they don't seem worthy of it. the original poster, i believe, means mostly to discourage amateurish bluster, the kind of dumb bravado and manipulations that many superficial and/or inexperienced players often engage in, quite unknowingly. perhaps he means to show (or rather, ram down the throats of) the dommes who behave so unthinkingly, as if brawn is all it takes to have power, that it is something of an art form, dominating someone. that it requires skill, patience, and affection -- not just a desire to be on top, all the time. however, i find it interesting-- this sort of argument can (and does) easily apply in reverse. the number of dominant MEN who tend to message me, telling me off because i have my own mind (thank you very much), and attempting to seduce me from the word go, without even considering my personality (as i am a person, and i do deserve respect), is simply INSANE. i had not visited collarme in over a year, until this evening, and still, i was getting those constant messages. it's all very well and good to be keen on someone, but to just be belligerent and rude? silly, and not worth a look, frankly.
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