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Humiliation - 11/18/2006 10:28:00 AM

minnette

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I read a previous thread regarding female humiliation asking for some ideas. But the thread was started a year ago, so I thought I would bring it up again to see if anyone has any more ideas. I have a couple but would love to hear more.

Make her wear a diaper and don't let her go to the bathroom.

Make her pee like a dog in the yard.

Milk her like an animal.

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RE: Humiliation - 11/18/2006 10:40:15 AM

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A lot of people translate 'humiliation' specifically as 'public humiliation.' Your examples, however, suggest that you're looking for private humiliation suggestions. Almost any silly ritual or arbitrary restriction can add to an overall humiliation effect. Many are common practices already, that people don't think of specifically as humiliation play. Here's a few off the top of my (pointy little) head.

Require her to ask permission before leaving the room.
Deny her permission to sit on the furniture.
Call her strictly by a name suitable only for an infant or pet.
Call her strictly by a downright insulting name.
Require strict protocol and use of honorifics.
If she normally wears makeup, forbid her to. If she does not, make her wear a lot.
Require her to wear embarrassing clothing -- whorish, or foolish-looking, depending on the sub.

Keep in mind that humiliation really takes place strictly in the mind of the sub, so the real trick to it is learning where one's sub's personal psychological buttons are.

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RE: Humiliation - 11/18/2006 10:59:17 AM

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I think I would be embarassed if Master desided that I had to ask him to do things like go to the bathroom and such... though Im sure it would be interesting and I know he'd enjpy watching me squerm while asking!!

Then again im really shy so it isnt hard to embaress me (I dont like the word humiliation just a personal preferance in semantics)

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RE: Humiliation - 11/18/2006 11:07:07 AM

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I'm referring to any kind of humiliation. My examples were private because I do not yet have experience with public. Sorry for the confusion and thank you for the great ideas.

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RE: Humiliation - 11/18/2006 2:18:59 PM

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I enjoy embarassment, for the way it makes my head squirm. Its rarely something id struggle with.
Humiliation however, id class as something else entirely. Its not something i enjoy, but its a tool he'll use to take me deep into sub space. Its a huge struggle to take it, occasionally, when im premenstrual and precious, it goes wrong, its a fine line to walk. And requires knowing someone well.
eg. Its embarrassing, having to pee into a pyrex bowl when you really need to go! Its humiliating, to have its colour, smell, quantity, noise when passing described to me. Its humiliating that this sort of play gets me wet.
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RE: Humiliation - 11/18/2006 2:35:47 PM

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It really depends on YOU and what causes you embarassment. Asking to be excused from the room for any reason is second nature to me; it's how I was raised. Yet, being told to use the mens room at a restaurant or public place is extremely embarassing to me

Being called names like whore, bitch, cunt, slut; to me it is exciting; yet for others it may be degrading and insulting. Yet being made to act like a whore in public is embarrassing to me.

It all depends on you and your partner and how far the two of you are willing to take it.

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