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LordODiscipline -> RE: What's in a name,,,, (11/19/2006 4:53:18 AM)
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OK -
Between your capitalization of words that are not intended to be capitalized, your self adulation about longevity and self congratualtory platitudes to assure the reader that you are 'real' and as an apparent means of presenting insupportable bone-fides not in evidence or required for those who do not know you personally, and the quasi-third person speech, I had quite a difficult time gettting through the entire thing...
But, it appears that you are looking for approval of a communication sent to someone asking them to consider that their kink and means of communicating that kink (through the nom-de-guerre they chose and their posting) to be poor - and, that you inform her that anyone who WOULD contact her would be a poseur and not "real"... and, that she is basically humiliating herself (in a bad way) as anyone who was "true" and/or 'real' would never admit to being associated with her because of her lowly behavior
Now - stop reading this posting to you and look at it again -
My writing is condescending and insulting... it does *indeed* convey my opinion of your posting - but, it has no finesse of content or intent - it does not seek to communicate - only to chasatise and to fdemonstrate a superioroty of morality and behavior...
And, I am sure that you feel I am an intolerant (of your kink - as it is apparently self agrandizement and self adulation) no mind, know-it-all asshole who has nothing good to say about another person -
And, therefore has nothing worthwhile and positive to communicate to another person -
And, therefore is not worthy of considering seriously.
So- bascially, I am trying to tell you (in my 'asshole' way) is that you are way the freak off base in both the means and way you communicated, and the content you are imparting, and that you miss the one thing we are allegedly supposed to be tolerant about - that is a person's kink.
You behaved like a dick and I am willing to bet that IF you did get a response, it was something to the affect of "screw you" (and, well deserved)
You asked - and, 'thus spaketh Tharathustra!'
Not a "real dom"<---but, then you being a "Grand Master" already know that!
~J
PS - What are the organizations that "bestowed" the listed titles on you??
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ORIGINAL: CJsHere2
Okay, I figured I'd toss this comment out and see where it goes. I'm curious to see what other Dom's think about something. Yes, We're all unique and We have our own ideas, thoughts and ways of doing something. Right or wrong, they are our ideas. If we think they're right then so be it. Anyway, I digress. Let Me get to the point. A personal pet peeve of Mine. To Me, owning a girl is something wonderful, something special. Ownership of a girl has generally been something that I find others envious of Me for. Over the last 3 decades I've had the opportunity of owning some very wonderful girls, each of which I have always felt that others have envied or even admired Me in My choice and selection as well as their abilities to please Me. At times I have enjoyed things such as humiliation or role play with a girl. Now My question, what on earth would posses a girl right from square one to degrade or humilate herself in such a manner even before she has found a Dom.. In short, I sent a girl the following message... Your opinion, was I right, or wrong in doing so,, and, why? I'll look forward to your answers and opinions, but please, present your answer constructively.. remember, others, including Myself may learn from your response.
CJshere2
(her name isn't important, but understand it was one that was self degrading in a physical and sexual content, you know the type, something along the lines of "ugly slut whore" (no, not that name lol)
********* actual message sent follows *************
Only a suggestion, and I hope you will take this with the intent that it is given, it is meant constructively.... The name the girl has chosen for herself will do nothing but attract game players and idiots that seeking nothing more than a chance at some cyber sex while the wife isn't looking.
A true Dom, while he may enjoy humiliation, humbling or degradation of a girl would never admit to owning a slave that thought so little of herself as to claim a name such as yours. A true Dom, while he may spend time tending to the needs of His girl, would always want to know that He has an object that is valuable, that the idea of Ownership of "that particular girl" will always be something that other Dominants would envy Him for. For a Dominant not to think of a girl as something special, delightful to own goes against the principals of what this lifestyle is all about. Remember, the purpose of a girl is to please her Master, to make Him proud, not to remind Him of a poor choice or to bring ridicule to Him. As an analogy, look at it this way. If the girl wrote a check and it bounced, doesn't that ridicule and bring shame to Him? I know, not quite the same, but perhaps it will help the girl to understand where I'm coming from.
So, for what it is worth, I have shared these thoughts with you. The decision of whether you keep the self demeaning name or conduct yourself in a demeaning manner is yours to make. Please, it is not My intent to tell you what to do, I don't own or control this girl, but as a Dominant with over 3 decades of experience in this lifestyle, I offer this to you as nothing more than an opinion and a bit of advice. Listen to it, ignore it, adhere to it or discard it, that is your choice, your decision, but it is offered with the best of intentions.
Good luck to you with your seach, I wish you all the best and eventual happiness.
as always, I remain,
CJ
http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com
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