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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 8:11:58 AM   
Rover


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

I get the feeling that your OP is bullshit.  I think you have a different agenda and that you are trying to get a message or a point out to someone in particular, and you are shrouding that point in this supposed concern that you have for a complete stranger based soley on their nickname on a bdsm site.  Frankly the whole thing feels "off" to me....I mean way off.


Marie, is that you?  I mean... REALLY you?
 
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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 8:28:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rover

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

I get the feeling that your OP is bullshit.  I think you have a different agenda and that you are trying to get a message or a point out to someone in particular, and you are shrouding that point in this supposed concern that you have for a complete stranger based soley on their nickname on a bdsm site.  Frankly the whole thing feels "off" to me....I mean way off.


Marie, is that you?  I mean... REALLY you?
 
John


Ummm.....I dont know who you are, but you must have me confused with another Marie who must've given you the time of day, at some point.   I can assure you, Im not that Marie. :) 

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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 8:32:44 AM   
Rover


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ORIGINAL: LordODiscipline

Not a "real dom"<---but, then you being a "Grand Master" already know that!



This passage got me to thinking, and prompted me to read CJ's profile, which in turn got me to wondering.
 
CJ, how is it that in the several years since I ran into you hosting MSN chatrooms and communities that several real time groups have honored you with the title of "Master" and which groups are they?  Since you mentioned it, I might know of them.  :)
 
And imagine my surprise at your surprise that one of those groups named you a "Grand Master".  Which group was that? 
 
Seriously, you've come a long way from hosting online chatrooms.  It's a success story that invites curiosity.  Before I jump to any conclusions, I (and I'm sure a great many others) will anxiously await your reply.
 
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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 8:34:59 AM   
Rover


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

Ummm.....I dont know who you are, but you must have me confused with another Marie who must've given you the time of day, at some point.   I can assure you, Im not that Marie. :) 


Yes, that's you!!!  Wassup?
 
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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 11:02:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		Aloha CJ,
 
Humiliation is a kink,  its sexy to some to think of oneself as a doormat or a pigwhore.
 
This place and all the other BDSM places like it on line and in real life are places for folks to get their kink on.
 
KINK:
  1. A mental peculiarity; a quirk.
  2. An unusual or eccentric idea.
  3. Slang. Peculiarity or deviation in sexual behavior or taste.

Being a "true dom" is also a kink, as is "being born this way"....
 
But at the heart of it all its about kink, doing what turns you on, and what gets you off, and then hanging out with others who also feel that way so you dont feel like a dirty pervert and also so you can learn new tricks.
 
 

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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 12:16:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Rover

quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

Ummm.....I dont know who you are, but you must have me confused with another Marie who must've given you the time of day, at some point.   I can assure you, Im not that Marie. :) 


Yes, that's you!!!  Wassup?
 
John


ai yai yai!!!

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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 1:37:37 PM   
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Your opinion, was I right, or wrong in doing so,, and, why?


If her screenname empowers her, what did you do but take that away and belittle her choices with your email? You project shame on to her when it may be her delight. I feel badly for her. A complete stranger who writes to her telling her that she is a poor choice, that she conducts herself in a demeaning manner, that she will not attract anyone but a loser - I don't see how that is going to help her at all.

The flip side, if she chose the screenname she did because she feels broken or bruised, that was just confirmed by 'you' in that email. She thinks she's not good enough  - you said she's right - she is 'not' good enough to attract anyone but a loser.  

Either way, whatever her motivation was in choosing that particular name, your message to her was thoughtless and inappropriate.


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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 2:50:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ill be honsest here, I also dislike those names I dont see why girls do that to themsevls. On the other hadn i would NEVEER send them a message about it as I know that for myself all a message like that would do would make me defensive.

Sir your emial to her was lovely but Im sure was very unapreaciated by the girl. They chose the name because they liked it its what they wanted telling them their choice was bad no matter how nicely you do it is not going to get a favorable outcome.. It sucks because you where only ever showing consern but non the less your consern was not asked for or wanted.

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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 4:24:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		A high percentage of the HNG's that lurk here take on dirty-sounding female names to attract attention.  For those who complain about "fakers" and "posers".....those could be them!

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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 4:36:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		No fuckin' way.......I thought I was the only one............


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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 4:45:28 PM   
Aileen68


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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/19/2006 8:29:23 PM   
Tamerofwild1s


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Status: offline 		Dam it Ron .. I told ya not too tell anyone my other screen name . now I gotta come up with a new one .. hmmmm any suggestions here

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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/25/2006 7:58:56 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Well, a nic like 'ugly slut whore' shows right away that she's into humiliation and degradation. So it would serve to screen out any sensual doms that aren't into that.

Seen in that light, it gets her just what she's looking for which would obviously not be the op.

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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/25/2006 8:24:11 AM   
Renorei


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Status: offline 		There is no way that we can know whether or not CJ's message to this girl was a good idea or not. 

She may be the kind of girl who is depressed and hates herself and who needs someone to tell her that she can be valuable.  CJ's message might be exactly the kind of thing she needs to start her on the road to self-confidence. 

Or, she may be the kind of girl who chose the name for humorous reasons, or she may be a poser, or she may be a self-loathing person beyond any help whose only solace is when she is humiliated.  In that case, his message will not be helpful. 

I don't think it's a big issue, either way. 

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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/25/2006 8:07:31 PM   
Sabella


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Status: offline 		OR she could be just picking something out of the air that appeals to her, much like "I am a toaster" would to Renorei ;)

Sorry Renorei, you were just there with a toaster in your post so I picked on you.

I have to agree tho, the OP's e'mail was smug and rude, IMHO. Leave kinky people alone. Damnit. It's THEIR kink/twist/whatevah.

Carry on.


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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/25/2006 8:20:02 PM   
Lordandmaster


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

I get the feeling that your OP is bullshit.  I think you have a different agenda and that you are trying to get a message or a point out to someone in particular, and you are shrouding that point in this supposed concern that you have for a complete stranger based soley on their nickname on a bdsm site.  Frankly the whole thing feels "off" to me....I mean way off.

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RE: What's in a name,,,, - 11/25/2006 8:52:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

Ill be honsest here, I also dislike those names I dont see why girls do that to themsevls. On the other hadn i would NEVEER send them a message about it as I know that for myself all a message like that would do would make me defensive.

Sir your emial to her was lovely but Im sure was very unapreaciated by the girl. They chose the name because they liked it its what they wanted telling them their choice was bad no matter how nicely you do it is not going to get a favorable outcome.. It sucks because you where only ever showing consern but non the less your consern was not asked for or wanted.

Magik's slave


How is his message lovely? It was entirely condesending and from my point of view really out of line.

Were I a single woman and didn't use a variation of "Aqua" for everything, I can see making a sn along the lines of "LittleWhore". Why? Because for whatever reason, I really love it when a man (who I knows loves and respects me outside of the scene) throws me on the bed and proceeds to use me like a little fuckpost and tell what a dirty dirty bitch I am. If a man can't handle that, well then he isn't the dom for me and my SN would weed that out. Makes perfect sense to me.

Course I might always make a "pet" oriented name because I do so love to be petted and praised and fall asleep purring in a lap... Moot point of course *grins*

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 11/25/2006 9:00:27 PM >

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