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slavejali -> RE: tribute (11/19/2006 12:28:17 PM)
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What's a fake anything? Something or someone who is not in your own ideals about how it should be?
I think all this fake and real stuff could be cleared up just by simply saying a a dominant type person is any person whose natural inclincation is to dominate. How they do that could be wide and varied. It could embrace from an abuser type personality to someone who uses their dominant personality in beneficial ways towards others and situations.
Put that into a D/s BDSM perspective and you have a bunch of people who like kink who apply their dominant personality towards other people who agree to be submissive. Each and everyone one of them and how they do it, is going to be different, how do we weed out fakes? There are none really. Just perhaps there are people who are doing it in a way that isn't compatible with us.
Maybe what you're saying is that some people are not as altrusitic as you would like them to be from your perspective...but given the world we live in, how many people are? Certainly no one is perfect (cept me on a good day lol).
In regards to Femme Dommes and the whole tribute thing. Females like to be looked after. Even in the bird kingdom, a female bird will choose a mate by which boy bird can feed her the most. Maybe its a natural instinct thing. I dunno, I'm playing with thoughts. Doing this, doesn't mean anyone is fake ...they are just displaying what it is they need for them to agree to a relationship. If this isn't compatible with you, thats cool, find a non tribute Domme.
It's about personal needs and compatible desires when it call comes down to it hey?
In regards to not hearing from people, who knows why, we could make up reasons till the cows come home.
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