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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 8:19:29 AM

LotusSong

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I suggest that your master either get a close buddy or dildo and demonstrate the proper technique to avoid further damage. (joking done)

Really though, sounds like a technique problem somewhere.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 8:23:53 AM

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Babies get them from too much sucking too :-)
http://www.babytips.co.uk/searchtips/baby_health_12.htm etc

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 8:41:26 AM

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What Owned said. Although the way my mouth is shaped, there's really no way to prevent teeth scraping if they want a tight/ddep force fucking. Since very few people tend to enjoy it, it doesn't happen so often.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 8:50:59 AM

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I think its HOT. I dont bruise easily at all, so I have never noticed bruises, but sometimes I am tender and swollen.

For me...My soft palate gets sore from trying to get Masters thick cock into my throat. My gag reflex is 95% gone but the back of my mouth/throat is quite narrow and He is quite large...so sometimes after a practice session the soft palate is tender.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 10:35:46 AM

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LOL with all this talk here I think Im missing out LOL

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 10:36:32 AM

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LOL with all this talk here I think Im missing out LOL

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 10:50:06 AM

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I rather enjoy having my mouth swollen and slightly bruised or tender from being well used.....
I think Mr Logic probably hit the nail on the head (so to speak) in regards to the cause.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 3:10:41 PM

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*fast reply*
Master likes me to use my fingers as well as my mouth, so sometimes when He gets carried away

my fingers will get bumped up hard against my top lip which squashes it against my teeth. It can get quite sore but I can't help rubbing my tongue up against the sore spots, and remembering.....

I haven't noticed any bruising from this, just a little swelling if you look closely!

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 3:14:25 PM

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I was just wondering if anyone else has ever had this happen from giving Bj's before?

Yes, sometimes I get a small bruise right above my lip, it looks like a hickie. I figure it's from my teeth rubbing on my lip when I try to keep them from rubbing on Him. I always wonder if people who see it know what causes it LOL.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 5:45:50 PM

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I rather enjoy having my mouth swollen and slightly bruised or tender from being well used.....

Me too. I wouldn't dream of changing technique, as the "technique" used is exactly what he enjoys.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 6:06:28 PM

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Same here. I like the swelling and the soreness that comes lol. Master said that was the first time he had ever noticed bruising though, so I was pretty curious. I must say, it's nice to know that it DOES happen with others though lol.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 6:10:00 PM

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i've had swelling but no bruising. Not that i have noticed. But i do really enjoy the swelling and the soreness after a good BJ session.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 6:12:31 PM

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When I saw Master last time, he made mention of the fact that my mouth ( lips ) was bruising from umm, using it so much lol. He was a bit concerned, though I never even noticed anything wrong till he made mention of it.

I was just wondering if anyone else has ever had this happen from giving Bj's before?

( And by bruising I mean a slight swelling of the mouth and actual bruising of the lips. )

(Uhmmm...no, but I'd be more than willing to assist you in your research).

(I'm a giver...sue me).

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/20/2006 8:13:18 PM

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Unfortunately yes it happens darn near every time i lock on there i haent been ableot avoid it...although it may be an allergic reaction inmy case...I use condoms with spermacide and well that may or may not have anything to do with the price of tea in china...although the lucky fella i had been involved with used to tell me i was too good at it and well he used ot be quite aggressive withhis thrusting

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/21/2006 2:58:58 AM

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greetings
ok what is going on there i never even heard of this unless you just do this for him and that is all no sexual intercourse not other thing becase it has to be a very hard thrusting and shove to bruise you mouth, then it could be your losing oxygen but i doubt if it is blowing him that is making you mouth bruise sound so very strange if you were a star i would maybe see it but something else is going on. go to the doctor oh check your fingers and toes if they are buriseed go fast to the doctor

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/21/2006 3:30:17 AM

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i have certainly noticed a plumping of my lips after long periods of giving head. i suppose that is a form of bruising but certainly not at all unpleasant.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/22/2006 2:05:16 AM

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greetings passion

now i never thought he may be just to big but i wonder if she is in pain . but he must be really getting her head hard i never heard of this i still say go to the doctors any type of discoloring on the lips is a sign of something else u do hope you go dear it so important how is you eye i was knock in the head i see double no joke ok take care

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/22/2006 2:52:37 AM

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Alright, as a confessed lover of oral, i could not rest without reading this thread and just wow.

Tenderness of the mouth, perhaps a touch of pain where the lips bump against the front of the teeth repeatedly, even a soreness on the sides of the tongue from unusual activity and hitting the back molars with particularly deep thrusts.

Yes these are a few of my favorite things....*stops humming*

Though i would have to agree that if the discoloration was becoming noticable, then you may wish to examine your breathing. Lack of oxygen from gagging or deep throating is one thing but take note if your breathing becomes more shallow the more pleasure you take from giving oral. i've actually had to make a conscious effort to breathe more deeply after a case of closed-mouth yawning and sucking in too forcefully.

...it was bad, trust me.

Now this is far different than giving oral until your lips went numb. *starts humming again and has to re-focus* However again, that is just an idea dear.

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/24/2006 3:01:24 AM

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greetings girl

you get blister that is very very not ok you must be so sore do you stop and let them heal or just go on until it just to sore and i know any tpye of blister hurt like hell what in the wrold has a blow job come to

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RE: Blow jobs and bruising of the mouth - 11/24/2006 3:10:53 AM

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greeting to all

i am a lover of oral and i am one of the best but i never had my mouth swollen the only time i do remember being sore was ( and please no take harm to this ) but it was when i was raped by a so called boyfriend by oral and intercousre i was swollen and it was the worst pain i can ever thing of i had to ran to ca to get away from him and he was large and it was just plain raped and when your with someone who is really into and you love him it is different i know all of you enjoy this and i am happy you do but mine was a nightmare but, with the blue lips your lacking air please do check it and go back to taking good care of the loves of your life and enjoy

mons oh happy thanksgiving