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ORIGINAL: VampX

Regarding my previous post "A Suprise..." I feel the need to clarify few things.
First of all, I am not any sort of drama-queen and, if my posts to strob seemed dramatic...well, it was simply my quick reaction to his post, I just wasn't thinking.
And also, I agree it was not a proper place to introduce any of my pets to the community but, it just happened and it was completely unintentional.

Now, after that post, I get messages from "subs" & "slaves" and a few "male dominants" that sound like this: 'so, what's next you're going to do to him, ha?'

I think getting questions like those is enough of a price to pay for being reckless with what I post or not.
But never mind, it's just few more clicks on my mouse to block likeminded community members.

greetings to all

(I know I sound angry but I am not...maybe a bit disappointed)

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

I didn't think the flub with him posting and your snapping to correct him was all that big of a deal. 

But, now that this post surfaces, as does his today, we've now seen what is next that you're going to do to him: he's been told to remove himself from all interaction with other likeminded individuals and has publicly announced it.  That's certainly your perogative, but it looks awfully odd, especially when he's been a gentleman, a polite part of the community genuinely seeking friendship/advice/knowledge and has not been a trolling fellow.

I'm sorry you felt that we're not trustworthy to have your slave present here or that the "community" that he's become a part of is no longer beneficial for him.

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ORIGINAL: BossySSBBW

I am wondering if VampX will keep her profile on Collarme and keep visiting the boards since she has found her "one".
Seems as we say in the south, what is good for goose is good for the gander.
You would have to reverse the goose and gander but the point has been made.

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

I didn't think the flub with him posting and your snapping to correct him was all that big of a deal.

But, now that this post surfaces, as does his today, we've now seen what is next that you're going to do to him: he's been told to remove himself from all interaction with other likeminded individuals and has publicly announced it. That's certainly your perogative, but it looks awfully odd, especially when he's been a gentleman, a polite part of the community genuinely seeking friendship/advice/knowledge and has not been a trolling fellow.

I'm sorry you felt that we're not trustworthy to have your slave present here or that the "community" that he's become a part of is no longer beneficial for him.

This is not a dig to the OP but I think this is well written and well to be considered (for both of you).

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ORIGINAL: VampX

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ORIGINAL: BossySSBBW

I am wondering if VampX will keep her profile on Collarme and keep visiting the boards since she has found her "one".
Seems as we say in the south, what is good for goose is good for the gander.
You would have to reverse the goose and gander but the point has been made.

I am not a goose nor I am a gander but, wether I will be visiting here or not, I don't know yet...I probably will

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

So... you believe in restraining your sub but not yourself? Why?

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

So... you believe in restraining your sub but not yourself? Why?

LOL....um, perhaps because she's the dom?

I don't take issue with the domina coming back to the site.

....but to completely cut the sub off from their established "community" is suspect.  That specific behavior is a classic sign in abusive relationships (isolation/cutting them off from friends-family-social network).   That's all I'm saying. 

To each their own, I guess.  They're adults....