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about cbt - 11/20/2006 6:07:22 PM   
BESTBDSM


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Status: offline 		does it cause a permamant damage when  the balls and the cock is tied very tightly ( purple color appears ) for an hour and does it cause a damage when the cock and the balls are tied very lightly for 3 weeks or more
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RE: about cbt - 11/20/2006 6:18:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		For an hour? Most likely not. For three weeks? Most definately...in fact, that's one way farmers castrate their animals...they use a very tight band on the balls that cuts off the circulation so that they die and, well, fall off. http://www.omafra.gov.on.ca/english/livestock/beef/facts/info_castration.htm

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RE: about cbt - 11/20/2006 6:24:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh myyyy!!! What MasterFire said!

Being a farmer I can say this without reserve.......After even less than three weeks you will be without your precious parts!

I am certainly not a medical professional but if you prize your parts at all I would suggest talking to one before doing this for any length of time. I know that it is done in CBT play but I am quite certain that it should only be done for short periods of time......as in less than days, certainly less than weeks. Probably only a few hours at most.

If in doubt I will be happy to let you visit my steers...that used to be little bulls.


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RE: about cbt - 11/21/2006 8:30:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Also, the reason the color change is so prominent is because blood is getting in but not getting out.  This can cause burst vessels making future erections a thing of the past.  Ask your doctor, or post to ask web md.
By the way, a man does need to have an erection to still be able to ejaculate.  The form may have failed the function doesn't always....lol.

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RE: about cbt - 11/21/2006 11:07:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		A good general rule when doing this in the course of an evening is to unrestrict the blood flow at least once every 20 minutes or so.  NEVER keep blood flow restricted for three weeks!

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RE: about cbt - 11/21/2006 11:10:32 AM   
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Sheeshhhhhhhhhhh... and think of all the handling one gets to do with all that wrapping and unwrapping and re-wrapping!  Where's the fun of just leavin' 'em alone???  

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RE: about cbt - 11/21/2006 4:03:42 PM   
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does it cause a permamant damage when  the balls and the cock is tied very tightly ( purple color appears ) for an hour and does it cause a damage when the cock and the balls are tied very lightly for 3 weeks or more


Let me just add, as a person who has some of these dangly parts that...a clear indicator of potential problems would certainly be when there is a color change that is not correspondant to/with other more familiar parts of your body.

I think a fairly safe measure in the future for you to consider as a very adequate guideline would be as follows:

If it starts to look at all dissimilar to other prominent and (to you) important parts of your body....say the following:

"Mistress, I feel in imminent peril of losing my (name the current body part you're most concerned with) and I would be oh so happy if you discontinued causing it immeasurable harm...please begin the process of making it look like all the other parts of me that aren't screaming out in pain...thank you very much".

If this doesn't work...bring out the Smith & Wesson.

(I hope I've helped).

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RE: about cbt - 11/21/2006 5:06:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		The balls and cock should be untied when they become cold.  This is usually in 20-30 minutes.  A minimum break of 5 minutes is ESSENTIAL.  They can then be re-tied, but no more than twice more (for those who can take it--one more time is enough for most).  When the blood begins to flow freely again, it causes exquisite pain (exquisite, anyway, for those who like it).  The same restrictions apply to using tight cock rings.  Never, never, never inhibit blood flow for longer than half an hour! 

DomFey, who loves to inflict CBT, and is a nut about safety 

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RE: about cbt - 4/21/2010 1:09:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks so much for your help .. really helped me a lot ..

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RE: about cbt - 4/21/2010 1:12:35 PM   
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RE: about cbt - 4/21/2010 1:16:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hope nothing happened in the intervening time that makes that a scarcastic (pun intended) "thank you"  

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RE: about cbt - 4/21/2010 1:18:26 PM   
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RE: about cbt - 4/21/2010 1:38:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		Those have GOT to be very dark blue balls to say the least!

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RE: about cbt - 4/21/2010 2:27:23 PM   
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RE: about cbt - 4/21/2010 3:54:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Castration.  The gift you can only give ONCE.

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RE: about cbt - 5/19/2011 10:33:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh yes, castration the word what makes a man fluttering and happy.
The max. time of banding with elastrator was about 10min. so not that dangerous...


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RE: about cbt - 5/19/2011 10:36:25 AM   
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Oh yes, castration the word what makes a man fluttering and happy.
The max. time of banding with elastrator was about 10min. so not that dangerous...




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RE: about cbt - 5/19/2011 2:42:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I believe it can over time, and wouldn't do it... But that's because I like a nice set of working cock and balls, and wouldn't want to lose some of my work privilleges, for having seriously hurt/damaged a person, on purpose. There is also the matter of my not having a sex, to have had experience with this. So take my words with that in mind.

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RE: about cbt - 5/19/2011 2:44:18 PM   
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You waited three and a half years to say 'thank you' ?!


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RE: about cbt - 5/19/2011 7:47:42 PM   
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