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ORIGINAL: losttreasure

In a recent thread, it was touched upon briefly by a couple of the posters that they had, at one time or another, heard from a dom that all women are naturally bi-sexual. 

i have heard other guys say this too.

I, too, have been directly subjected to this proclamation by a dominant or two in the past, and it has been my general impression that a very large number of dominants expect their submissives to be bi-sexual.

As a straight sub, and in my experiences, i would have to agree that most doms prefer bi subs.  i have read a zillion dom profiles since i've been searching.  Most will say 'seeking bi or bi curious'.  If they don't say that, they say something like 'she should expect that another female might be brought in for play' (or something along those lines). 
 
In short, it is rare that a dom will say 'i am seeking a straight sub' because even if he isn't saying she must be bi, he is saying she must at least be open to play with another female if he so desires.  (And as i have read on here, that does not necesssarily make someone bi.....if they are doing it just for the partner's pleasure.)

It made me curious to see just how prevalent this particular belief is among doms that all women, whether they know and acknowledge it yet, are naturally bi-sexual... and perhaps find out what reason there is for holding this belief.

When i first left home, i lived with a female cousin.  We were like sisters (always had been).  We did a lot together.  We both held menial jobs and didn't have a lot of money and at the beginning, we slept in the same bed because we only had one at the time.  There was nothing even remotely sexual about that.  Even when my daughter comes to visit, she will sleep with me.  Sometimes we just lay in the bed and talk until we fall asleep.  Again, there is nothing remotely sexual about that.
 
i don't think a lot of guys can understand the intimacy females can share without thinking that something sexual is desired.  i have female friends that i hug, cry on their shoulder, kiss on the cheek....but i have no desire to have sex with them. 
 
Females can be emotional, caring and affectionate with each other...we can show our feelings that way....and again, it has nothing to do with sex.  i just don't think most guys can grasp that concept. 
 
To add.....i am not talking about all guys....and this is just my personal speculation  [&:]
 
DG

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ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave

I have met a few that thought that way.. naturally we didnt last long once that conversation came to pass..but then I have met many who didnt feel that way as well as those who preferred you NOT be bisexual. (they didnt want the competition LOL)

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ORIGINAL: losttreasure

In a recent thread, it was touched upon briefly by a couple of the posters that they had, at one time or another, heard from a dom that all women are naturally bi-sexual.  I, too, have been directly subjected to this proclamation by a dominant or two in the past, and it has been my general impression that a very large number of dominants expect their submissives to be bi-sexual.

It made me curious to see just how prevalent this particular belief is among doms that all women, whether they know and acknowledge it yet, are naturally bi-sexual... and perhaps find out what reason there is for holding this belief.

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ORIGINAL: adaddysgirl

Sometimes we just lay in the bed and talk until we fall asleep.  Again, there is nothing remotely sexual about that.
 
i don't think a lot of guys can understand the intimacy females can share without thinking that something sexual is desired.  i have female friends that i hug, cry on their shoulder, kiss on the cheek....but i have no desire to have sex with them. 
 
Females can be emotional, caring and affectionate with each other...we can show our feelings that way....and again, it has nothing to do with sex.  i just don't think most guys can grasp that concept.