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newbie question - 11/21/2006 5:54:14 AM

longingtobeapet

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dear Mistress,

Is it possible to actually be trained strickly on line.
I have this deep feeling inside to be a pet (sub) to a Mistress, but I only want to be trained on line.
I have been trained for about 6 months but she left me to have ababy and had no time for me, but I actually felt excited to realize I love pleasing, following orders, and making a Mistress happy. But, sometimes I feel this lifestyle will never happen for me :-(
Should I end my search for an On Line Mistress or follow my dreams?
Any help would be greatful.
Thank you!
Unowned pet

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 6:30:26 AM

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Your post is contradictory ...

No one can tell you what to do ... figure it out for yourself

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 7:13:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: longingtobeapet

dear Mistress,

Is it possible to actually be trained strickly on line.
I have this deep feeling inside to be a pet (sub) to a Mistress, but I only want to be trained on line.
I have been trained for about 6 months but she left me to have ababy and had no time for me, but I actually felt excited to realize I love pleasing, following orders, and making a Mistress happy. But, sometimes I feel this lifestyle will never happen for me :-(
Should I end my search for an On Line Mistress or follow my dreams?
Any help would be greatful.
Thank you!
Unowned pet

Frankly, I don't think one can ever get the true feeling of Ds only online. You can get a taste and you can get fantasies exchanged but if things only happen on the computer you are denying yourself and your partner all of the great things about meatlife interactions.

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 7:29:13 AM

longingtobeapet

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Thank you TammyJo

I really apprechate your input, but unfortunitly... I am forced into an online experience.
I had a mistress for 6 months on line and she was a wonderful trainer and we shared a very close bond. But now that she is gone.
I want to be able to please a special Mistress... but I do thank you so much for you words... at least I know there are folks out there that care, hich gives me the motovation to one day fine the right Mistress.
pet

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 7:53:37 AM

joyinslavery

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So, what's the question? Can you have an online Mistress?

Read a profile or two and you'll notice many ot them will state whether they do online or no. But then again, you said you were trained online for about 6 months already, right?

Hasn't this been answered for you??? Or is there another reason you posted your 'question' here?

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 7:59:13 AM

MisPandora

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quote:

ORIGINAL: longingtobeapet

...but I actually felt excited to realize I love pleasing, following orders, and making a Mistress happy.

Do you really make someone happy by typing and doing things in the privacy of your home thousands of miles away?

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 8:00:03 AM

longingtobeapet

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I guess I am searching... and desire a New Mistress

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 8:03:59 AM

longingtobeapet

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Yes Mistress Panadora,
A special bond can diffently be formed strickly on line.
The right kind of MIstress can have such a hold on an online pet... I have experienced it... and wish for more of it.

thank you fo caring to respond

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 8:09:51 AM

MisPandora

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quote:

ORIGINAL: longingtobeapet

Yes Mistress Panadora,
A special bond can diffently be formed strickly on line.
The right kind of MIstress can have such a hold on an online pet... I have experienced it... and wish for more of it.

thank you fo caring to respond

Yes, I recognize that you feel the hold -- but what does it DO for her? You're not making life easier for her. You're actually adding more chores (her having to type and come up with puppet shows for you to participate in) for her. Other than having someone from thousands of miles away following orders (and we presume they are obediently followed), how else do you make this other person happy, or is that it?

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 8:11:07 AM

BossySSBBW

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Online seems too much a persons fantasy. Perhaps if both partners are getting a "thrill" out of it, okay. For me, online is nothing but a man wanting a fantasy to play to later.
Good luck searching though.

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 8:14:36 AM

thetammyjo

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People do have strictly online relationships -- I had one for a year, many years ago. It taught me that online jus couldn't give me what I wanted. We see on this website folks who say they are in online only relationship all the time -- some of us may not quite understand the drive to be in these but they do exist.

longingtobeapet just has to find another person who only wants an online relationship like him -- for desire or for other reasons. I assume you do exactly what joyinslavery said: look at profiles here (and other places) and see which ones say they are also interested in or only interested in online stuff.

Beyond that I really don't think there is much other advice to offer.

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 8:18:33 AM

longingtobeapet

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Dear Mistress Pandora,
I can not assume the wonderful world it is to be a MIstress. I can only speak for the MIstress that owned me for 6+ months.
She enjoyed it...so she told me. she loved giving me small tasks to do everyday and then as the weeks went on... she tested me ffuther and futher... she told me that i was the best "pet" she ever had. I gave her pleasure (she said) by being obiendient and loyal and by completed ALL her tasks she gave me. She told me that she as VERY pleased with me and was very sorry to give me up... but her life got in the way. SO.. yes.. I think we both would get pleasure out of the experience
thak you Mistress

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 9:22:53 AM

BossySSBBW

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I have talked to some subs who say that they are Dommed online, when I ask about it, many times the woman is married and not in a D/s marriage, but not willing to leave husband so she lives in fanstay world also.
For me, I like the feeling of power I get from a real time in person relationship.

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 9:32:24 AM

longingtobeapet

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thank you Mistress Bossy for your words and understanding.

I am hoping there is a Mistress out there for me that is willing to train a lonely pet that is VERY loyal and will do any task or order... al I want is to be trained and give happinesssto a Mistress.... I do not thkn that is alot to ask

pet

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 10:02:58 AM

MasterFireMaam

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It's going to depend on what you mean by "relationship" and "service". If you're interested in offering what amounts to cam entertainment and email/chat time, then certainly, online is an option. If you're looking to give service, such as landscaping or domestic, obviously online doesn't work.

For every relationship you can imagine, there is one that exists. It may take you time to find someone who wants online only. Most Female Dominant I know have laundry that needs to be done....but, having a pet online for entertainment could make life interesting for a lot of people.

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 10:12:40 AM

AAkasha

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quote:

ORIGINAL: longingtobeapet

thank you Mistress Bossy for your words and understanding.

I am hoping there is a Mistress out there for me that is willing to train a lonely pet that is VERY loyal and will do any task or order... al I want is to be trained and give happinesssto a Mistress.... I do not thkn that is alot to ask

pet

I have a need for an online slave who is willing to do any task to please me. You did say you would do ANY task or order, so I am sure you will be an obedient and hardworking slave to please this demanding online Mistress.

Your first task is to compile a 75-page summary of the Carolina Hurricane's Stanley Cup run last year. Since you live in that area, this is a perfect task for you. I want you to compile news clips and do first hand interviews with the local community about their thoughts on the team. I want you to go through all the newspaper articles (which you must also send to me) and summarize the quotes from all the hockey players, put them in a grid alphabetically and make this a cover sheet. Once you complete this task, I will allow you to start attending Hurricane's practices and taking pictures of the players for me.

I am looking forward to having you as my slave. I can assure you, these tasks WILL please me!!

Akasha

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 11:55:44 AM

longingtobeapet

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dear Mistress Akasha,

Thank you so much for the honor, but it does not look like a good fit.
But I do want to thank you fo even thinking of me.
pet

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 12:12:30 PM

missjada

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Online training fails in comparison to the face to face feel of domination. There is nothing like a leather color being wrapped around or neck by your mistress or the feel of her flogger against your hind leg. Or so I have been told. I would recommend you going out and finding yourself an owner who can train you to be the perfect little puppy you can be

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 12:17:06 PM

longingtobeapet

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dear Missjada,

Thak you so much for responding and taking the time out of your day.
but, I have to continue my search STRICTLY on line.
But I do thak you so much for writting me

pet

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RE: newbie question - 11/21/2006 12:22:21 PM

thetammyjo

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

quote:

ORIGINAL: longingtobeapet

thank you Mistress Bossy for your words and understanding.

I am hoping there is a Mistress out there for me that is willing to train a lonely pet that is VERY loyal and will do any task or order... al I want is to be trained and give happinesssto a Mistress.... I do not thkn that is alot to ask

pet

I have a need for an online slave who is willing to do any task to please me. You did say you would do ANY task or order, so I am sure you will be an obedient and hardworking slave to please this demanding online Mistress.

Your first task is to compile a 75-page summary of the Carolina Hurricane's Stanley Cup run last year. Since you live in that area, this is a perfect task for you. I want you to compile news clips and do first hand interviews with the local community about their thoughts on the team. I want you to go through all the newspaper articles (which you must also send to me) and summarize the quotes from all the hockey players, put them in a grid alphabetically and make this a cover sheet. Once you complete this task, I will allow you to start attending Hurricane's practices and taking pictures of the players for me.

I am looking forward to having you as my slave. I can assure you, these tasks WILL please me!!

Akasha

Akasha does this really fall under the category of "Training"?

Seems more like it falls under the category of an online slave or servant to me.

To the OP again: What do you mean when you use the word "training"? If you can spell that out clearly in your profile and when coorespond with women who are also looking for online that might increase your success rate. Just popped into my head right now.

Let me give you an example. When I train someone I include training in behavior, service, experience in various SM play, and a lot of reading and writing assignments. You can see that most of that just wouldn't work online at all because being unable to see and hear means being unable to correct and guide appropriately.

So what do you mean by "training"?

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