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MagiksSlave -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 3:54:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave quote: ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs quote: ORIGINAL: Kalira Hmm submissive or tourist attraction /ponders this deeply I pick tourist attraction for myself please okay from now on I will reply to their emails to come and look you up! Are there any more volunteers out there??? chuckles Thanks for adding to the fun :) I volenteer but I charge an admition fee!! LOL Magik's slave So your saying your not easy, but can be bought? giggles OMG LOL yeah it did sound something like that didn't it!!! I have no comment at this moment LOL Magik's speachless slave

Emperor1956 -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 4:04:01 PM)
quote: LaM: You'll know you're coming up in the world when men e-mail you because they're going to be stationed at an air-force base near you. Or on a ship. Lets not forget our hardworking Navy and Coast Guard boys! E.

SamKeithsslave -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 4:44:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs *I am sorry, but I feel the need to rant and get something off my chest. (okay yes I know I have a large chest with lots of room for stuff, but that is beside the point!)* *What is it with people? They look at your picture, get hot and bothered, ( or not), don't bother to read your profile, and feel it's a good idea to email you. I just had to add again to mine.* *I keep getting emails from men who either "often am in your area on business," or are "traveling through your area in the near future," and would like to get together.* *I would like to know when the word submissive became the equilivant of tourist attraction?* Oh believe me when I tell you this is not just a subby being a tourist attraction thing - lol. I belong to a few non-BDSM BBW sites and get the same thing *all* the time!! Its infuriating to say the least. I respond the way Master suggests I do, ie ask them if they are 12 inches - lol - Master is right, it shuts them up and for the ones that reply yes I am, he suggests asking for proof! [:D] Seriously though just ignore and delete.

whisperedsighs -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 5:08:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave quote: ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave quote: ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs quote: ORIGINAL: Kalira Hmm submissive or tourist attraction /ponders this deeply I pick tourist attraction for myself please okay from now on I will reply to their emails to come and look you up! Are there any more volunteers out there??? chuckles Thanks for adding to the fun :) I volenteer but I charge an admition fee!! LOL Magik's slave So your saying your not easy, but can be bought? giggles OMG LOL yeah it did sound something like that didn't it!!! I have no comment at this moment LOL Magik's speachless slave too late you incriminated yourself!

MagiksSlave -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 5:15:44 PM)
I plead the 5th!!!!!!!!! ((LOL Iv tried that with Master and he always informs me that that doesnt work in HIS court of law LOL)) Magik's slave

briska -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 5:15:54 PM)
After I got sick and tired of random people messaging me to "train me" and asking me to "be their slut" obviously showing me they paid no attention to detail (which is not a quality I look in in a Dom btw), I put it up, in bold, twice in my profile that I have a Dom and am not here for anything more than conversation and reading the message board (i'm a huge lurker, since these threads seem to blow up faster than I can keep track of, and my opinion is usually already stated). It helped cut down a bit, but everytime someone msgs me now I just show my Sir and have him deal with it... good times for both of us, I suppose. I get to appreciate his jealousy and he gets to feel more protective over me.

whisperedsighs -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 5:40:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: briska good times for both of us, I suppose. I get to appreciate his jealousy and he gets to feel more protective over me. Bonus for both of you then! :)

Petronius -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 5:41:09 PM)
It is impossible to answer questions about "Scene" events in isolation from the larger culture. But on to the "why?" 1) They are uncultured assholes who haven't a clue about the impropriety of their behavior. 2) They are cultured assholes who have more than a clue but decide consciously to behave the way they do. (Cost efficiency, was how one ostensible Dom I know put it. "If I send out 100 two-line notes to 100 different subs I'll end up playing with 2-3 of them. That's an efficient use of my time!") 3) They have been burnt by miscommunication and dishonest communication. Doms read a sub's profile that she isn't a masochist and then see her getting flogged in the dungeon the next weekend. They read somebody saying she's just online to chat and discover her in a relationship a month later. Or they hear some person say "Oh, I didn't know I was into ... X" or "Bob just swept me off my feet about ... Y" or "Oh! Did I write ... Z? I didn't really think about it." A lot of the guys I've met who are in group 2 above know this and play on it. Personally, I like to assume that the women in whom I might be interested is honest enough to me to accurately describe who she is and what she wants and honest enough with herself to know those things. If I get burnt, and I have been, I stop seeing the person and go back to my search. I don't fit myself into categories 2 or 3. But I know people who do. And I have a pretty good idea of why they do it. I don't have to approve of why and I don't; but I know why. Petronius PS: "Submissive or Tourist Attraction" Damn great title!

CreativeDominant -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 5:46:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW quote: ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs Would it be appropriate to rip someone's head off for propositioning me? Maybe it's just me but, I've always felt head removal was a smidge extreme for asking someone out. I agree with you LTR...especially when we are not sure which head she is wanting to rip off...I mean, to do either would be extreme but you have extreme and you have EXTREME!

NYMaster101 -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 5:48:53 PM)
Hey, it's worth a shot [;)]

bandit25 -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 5:49:26 PM)
Well, just my two cents, but I've gotten those emails also. Some dom telling me that he's going to be in town and would I be free to serve him. I hardly call that "asking someone out".

whisperedsighs -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 5:58:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Petronius 1) They are uncultured assholes who haven't a clue about the impropriety of their behavior. *this is my first impression of them!* 2) They are cultured assholes who have more than a clue but decide consciously to behave the way they do. (Cost efficiency, was how one ostensible Dom I know put it. "If I send out 100 two-line notes to 100 different subs I'll end up playing with 2-3 of them. That's an efficient use of my time!") *So your telling me I have 2-3 % of the subs to thank for this??? LOL I get the economics of it.* 3) They have been burnt by miscommunication and dishonest communication. Doms read a sub's profile that she isn't a masochist and then see her getting flogged in the dungeon the next weekend. They read somebody saying she's just online to chat and discover her in a relationship a month later. Or they hear some person say "Oh, I didn't know I was into ... X" or "Bob just swept me off my feet about ... Y" or "Oh! Did I write ... Z? I didn't really think about it." A lot of the guys I've met who are in group 2 above know this and play on it. *My profile now makes it very clear, let's see if I get any more....* Personally, I like to assume that the women in whom I might be interested is honest enough to me to accurately describe who she is and what she wants and honest enough with herself to know those things. *Thank goodness there is hope for others of your species to exist!* Petronius PS: "Submissive or Tourist Attraction" Damn great title! *yeah I liked it too! Had to have a sense of humor!*

petdave -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 6:02:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs I have no idea what emails men get from females, so will not in the least argue that point with you. Usually painfully-worded notifications of overseas windfalls, discount deals on misspelled pharmaceuticals, and the occasional bit of lackluster porn. The "Hey, how 'bout some NSA sexin'" folder is usually empty. Perhaps i need more pharmaceuticals? Perhaps you need to have a word with your local Chamber of Commerce. ...dave

neeeds -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 6:06:39 PM)
hi i need a master who will take tootal contorl of me

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 6:18:25 PM)
Whisper, I'll be happy to send you the two who wanted to cut my hair. [sm=hair.gif] Here I was seeking a Dominant and ended up propositioned by a couple of hair stylists! [sm=hewah.gif]

bandit25 -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 6:20:51 PM)
OMG! I got that one too!!!!!!!!!!!

whisperedsighs -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 6:22:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel Whisper, I'll be happy to send you the two who wanted to cut my hair. [sm=hair.gif] Here I was seeking a Dominant and ended up propositioned by a couple of hair stylists! [sm=hewah.gif] Yeah I got propositioned by one of them already. Kept him on file in case I ever go to the "boondocks" and find myself in need of a hairdressor I don't have to pay!

whisperedsighs -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 6:25:25 PM)
*Bit of a side note here, my first email opened on this site was 4 word question..... "do you do k9?" haven't researched it yet, but wouldn't that be a TOS offense?*

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 6:30:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs *Bit of a side note here, my first email opened on this site was 4 word question..... "do you do k9?" haven't researched it yet, but wouldn't that be a TOS offense?* I got that one too and freaked..... when I didn't respond, he sent another one that said, that he meant doggie style, and included a pic of his naughty bits.[sm=rolleyes.gif]

LadySeraphina -> RE: Submissive or Tourist Attraction? (11/21/2006 6:33:48 PM)
Beastiality IS illegal in most places, so... Yup. I can't believe how many people (including one lesbian, so not All of them are men) who tell me they can turn Me into Their 'slut', 'slave', etc. lol Sometimes we need to be bigger people and just delete, and sometimes we indulge ourselves with a scathing reply. I consider the latter a treat to myself. :)

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