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Missokyst -> RE: true slave/sub (12/11/2006 11:33:33 AM)
LMAO.. dang girl! I just ruined a keyboard spitting my coffee out on that line! Kyst quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub But why on earth would you even want a girl who said "Oh you are the first guy who e-mailed me, obviously you are my dom. Please impale me with your mighty sword-flesh and command me to do whatever you will."

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: true slave/sub (12/11/2006 12:20:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MmakeMme I don't think I get it. And if you girls have been hogging Antonio Banderas, I'm gonna show you what unsublike behavior is. ~rolling up sleeves~ (But really ... I don't think I get it.) Well you can have those two as they're way too short for me. They'd need a step stool to impale me with their mighty sword-flesh. [sm=lol.gif]

littleone35 -> RE: true slave/sub (12/11/2006 1:23:40 PM)
I don't get it either i never even saw a picture of my Master before i met him but i liked his personallity already so no matter what he loked like on the outside i was gonna like him cause from our convrsations i knew he was the most handsome man i knew. I am not saying it did not help that his outside matched his inside. I would have liked him anyway. What is the stuff about Tom Cruise i never thought he was all that great to begin with. He is too pretty boy for me give me Sean Connery any day. Matt's littleone

RedSavageSlave -> RE: true slave/sub (12/11/2006 4:55:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave quote: ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave quote: ORIGINAL: wanta247 why is it that in alot of slave/sub profiles, the sub atests to being ready to do anything for there Master, but if the pic is not of "Tom Crusie, Antionio Bendaries"quality,Why do suddenly subs become very picky about everything instead of keping to the ideal of ownership they were originally looking for because at heart.. we are all very superficial and only want the best for ourselves... why do doms do the same?? :( that sounds so sad and jaded!!! You need a hug!! (((HHHHUUUGGGSSSS))) Magik's slave Edited because I forgot the hug!! LOL <laffin> actually it was meant to be very tongue in cheek..but thanks for the hug anyways <grins>

MmakeMme -> RE: true slave/sub (12/11/2006 5:01:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel quote: ORIGINAL: MmakeMme I don't think I get it. And if you girls have been hogging Antonio Banderas, I'm gonna show you what unsublike behavior is. ~rolling up sleeves~ (But really ... I don't think I get it.) Well you can have those two as they're way too short for me. They'd need a step stool to impale me with their mighty sword-flesh. [sm=lol.gif] Hell, Antonio Banderas could have a ladder for all I cared. It's all about the accent, attitude, and raw sexuality. (Cesar Milan is next. I think he'd be a grrrrrrrrrreat Dom. We already ~know~ He's an alpha male.)

MmakeMme -> RE: true slave/sub (12/11/2006 5:04:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 I don't get it either i never even saw a picture of my Master before i met him but i liked his personallity already so no matter what he loked like on the outside i was gonna like him cause from our convrsations i knew he was the most handsome man i knew. I am not saying it did not help that his outside matched his inside. I would have liked him anyway. What is the stuff about Tom Cruise i never thought he was all that great to begin with. He is too pretty boy for me give me Sean Connery any day. Matt's littleone Ohhh, littleone, my sentiments EXACTLY. My Sir exudes a particular charisma and His power compliments my own so well that He could have three eyes and I'd still be crazy about Him. In fact, I am so taken with Him as a ~person~ that I bet I'd find the extra eye to be very charming and desirable.

MissyRane -> RE: true slave/sub (12/11/2006 5:17:57 PM)
ok here it is: -Look matters to me BUT if the personality doesn't keep up with the looks I lose interest. -If I talk to a person without pic and I like their personality the look doesn't affect me as much when I see their photo. -I can be very I don't know the word..some people I just can't look at without falling over laughing BECAUSE of their looks, so really I need to be able to face my dominant without having to laugh the whole time..this can also be the exact opposite that the people actually scare the shit out of me or just make me go ewnowaypleaseno. And if I ended up talking to a person and the photo would make me feel..any of those above then I would have to say sorry dude but I just can't do it. -I also want to be able to go out with the people without having to be like "ohgawd I'm not with this person..honestly!!" -How a person carries themselves also mean a great deal to me so that can also be a dealbreaker. -So sorry, ladies, gents, but I am SHALLOW!

slavegirljoy -> RE: true slave/sub (12/19/2006 7:05:03 PM)
Understood. Good point. You have some personal knowledge of this man that was not known by some of us reading his post. That makes a huge difference in how you would respond to him compared to some of us. Those of us without that kind of background information are merely responding to what he wrote in his post and it was really more of a generalized comment on having to deal with the pains associated with searching for someone on this site. It is very frustrating trying to find someone who is really sincere on here. slave joy Owned property of Master David quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: NControlofU Just keep looking. There is a "true" slave/sub out there that will see you and appreciate you for who you are and not what you look like. I found mine a year ago through CM and everything just clicked right off the bat and we're still going strong. But, there are a lot of phonies on this site, also. Beware but, don't give up. David Why is a sub a phony because she wants a man she is sexually attracted to? It wasn't said that "a sub is phony because she wants a man she is sexually attracted to". It was said that there are a lot of phonies on this site, which there are. W/we have encountered males posing as females and people who just vanish into thin air after saying how very interested they are. This was just a note of encouragement to not give up but, also to be careful. Honestly I don't think he needs encouragement. He needs a reality check. He e-mailed me a series of long, very rudely and badly typed e-mails telling me to "let him submit to you girl", because obviously my dominant isn't really a dominant if we choose each other equally. The only way to prove dominance is to hit a woman over the head and drag her back to your cave. Also, he began telling me we were too young, we clearly didn't know anything and started betting that my dominant would be cheating on me in an year. Guess he wasn't too confident. He was only willing to bet a dollar... Grins

MistressSassy66 -> RE: true slave/sub (12/19/2006 10:52:55 PM)
I realize a lot of people associate BDSM with sex...For Me thats not what it is about.So therefore looks matter not. Its sad to see in this day and age of War that people are so picky. Superficial people are a plenty you have to weed through those ones til you find the right one.It can be a long process,but dont give up.

SlaveSuru -> RE: true slave/sub (12/20/2006 5:17:49 AM)
I'm just the the opposite , my Mistress was a bigger woman who was still beautiful to me and when she died I tried having a vanilla relationship with a wonderful friend of mine who isn't all that attractive but a wonderful human being. I loved him but there was just that element that was missing so I told him goodbye and went solo for a while till I went to my local BDSM club's Fetish Ball. I met my Master there and I couldn't keep my eyes from him, he's taller than I am with a muscular figure long hair and a slight pooch (( but that's one of the reasons snuggling is a joy)). I thought he'd never want someone like me and so I didn't really talk with him that night. Lo and behold fate had other things in store for me and I left my corset there and had to retrieve it on a community night. I went and brought a dish and hung around talking with the others till he came up and asked if we could talk. We did and ended up going to I-hop to finish the conversation and then to his house to watch Anime (( a common love for both of us)) and I ended up falling asleep,. He didn't want to wake me so he covered me up and went to sleep himself. the rest as they say is history, and while I never would have had the courage to speak with him he did. My Master is living proof not everyone wants someone model thin and good looking. Keep searching a wonderful submissive is out there just waiting for you too! I think alot of them want someone good loooking because to them sex is strongly associated with BDSM, I nor my Master believe that. While yes it does play a role what he wants lies not between my leg but in my heart and soul, he seeks my true submission and I give it to him because he is skillful in his handling. I serve onbly those who have the skill and grace to handle me, despite what they look like. I was lucky though to find one who I adore and is pleasing to my eye, but it doesn't mean I couldn't have found someone I like just as well who is not the antonio banderas type... Sorry it got a little long winded! suru

blushingflower -> RE: true slave/sub (12/20/2006 5:40:48 AM)
There have been times that I have rejected a man based on his picture. But generally, if I reject someone, it has nothing to do with how he looks and everything to do with how he presents himself. I almost never even look at pictures, and the picture I saw of my Daddy before we met was only of the back and side of his head. What turns me off is poor spelling/grammar, a lack of indication that the writer actually read my profile. While I do like a good sized-cock, I care more about your IQ than any other number. It takes intelligence and creativity to be a good sex partner, especially a good Dom, and I'm not going to bother with someone who doesn't indicate that he possesses those qualities. I'm also not going to be thrilled with the assumption that my submission is something to be handed out willy-nilly. I'm a sub, yes, but that doesn't mean I don't want you to seduce me. And I want to know that we can be friends, because it's important. I want chemistry. Physical chemistry too, of course, but emotional chemistry and compatibility first and foremost. Subs have to be picky- you'd be picky about who you gave your freedom up to and who you trusted not to harm you too. Daddy's first note to me was a form letter, I'll admit, and I almost didn't respond to him, but when he saw that I'd looked at his profile, he sent me another note saying "I know you looked at my profile, I know you're curious, just email me back". And I did, and thank heaven for it. However, if his first email hadn't been well-written, I wouldn't have even looked at his profile. I'll tell you right now that if you emailed me with the kind of spelling, grammar (it's "their Master" not "there Master") and punctuation, you probably wouldn't hear back from me. The point is, don't assume that women are making their decisions based on pictures, but rather based on other impressions they get. And in the end, we want to sleep with people we're attracted to. Sometimes personality can outweigh physical attraction, and sometimes it can't. No one is obligated to want to have sex with any other person.

CandleInTheWind -> RE: true slave/sub (12/21/2006 9:51:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wanta247 why is it that in alot of slave/sub profiles, the sub atests to being ready to do anything for there Master, but if the pic is not of "Tom Crusie, Antionio Bendaries"quality,Why do suddenly subs become very picky about everything instead of keping to the ideal of ownership they were originally looking for just as I always say Im a submissive...but Im not YOUR submissive....inorder to create a relationship in which one would be able to get to teh slave piint...then there usually has to be some type of attraction..or percieved dominance...I can honestly say that many a man that i have dated or other wise gotten invovled with are actually ugly as sin...did it matter?? nope I see with my heart and my feelingis it isnt how he looks it is how he makes me feel about him...so give me your old, your bald, and your homely; chances are...that is the man for me! good luck to you...but they way you arent too shabby you just have to be yourself and the right person wll come along...tom cruise is a weinie little red

acctonthelook -> RE: true slave/sub (12/21/2006 10:01:52 PM)
touchee!!!!!!!!! 247 I am one of those women. D/s for me and the interaction that happens include a physical attraction as well as mental. You do not mention whether you are speaking from a ltr D/s search for another or if your just seeking play in regards to your question. No, i did not read the whole thread yet. quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Why is a sub a phony because she wants a man she is sexually attracted to?

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