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BDSM is all about ...


Power
  23% (18)
Pain
  0% (0)
Energy
  6% (5)
Service
  12% (10)
Play
  7% (6)
Exploration
  23% (18)
Intensity
  3% (3)
Orgasms
  0% (0)
Pleasure
  16% (13)
Authority
  5% (4)


Total Votes : 77


(last vote on : 2/4/2008 1:37:38 AM)
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BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 3:20:48 PM   
BitaTruble


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You only get to chose the one which is most important to you.

::sister poll also posted for M/s or D/s::

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 3:22:28 PM   
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I would say it is about service...

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 3:29:49 PM   
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For me, it's all about power   ...giving it away or taking it on. 
 
Okay, know that I believe BDSM =

Bondage/discipline
Dominance/submission

Sado/masochism

So, it's not only about the play activities, for me.

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 3:29:59 PM   
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That is really hard to narrow down to just one, since there are a couple that come together.

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 5:37:40 PM   
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Hate to be a word nerd, neighbor, but i'm sad not to have the option of "control". i had to pick authority, and now i've got Cartman stuck in my head.
Ugh, too much TV

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 6:45:39 PM   
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Respec' Mah authoritah!

Can't vote, I dunno if any of the words sum it up for me...

Thanks, you've made me really think. Not used to that in the Random Stupidity section


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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 6:48:23 PM   
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and here i thought BDSM was all about those nifty t-shirts that say; "I was tied down, gagged, blindfolded, whipped  and all I got was this lousy T-Shirt"

LOL


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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 6:49:05 PM   
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I chose play because in my mind BDSM is not about the actual dynamic between the parties. It's more an action that occurs BECAUSE of the dynamic.

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 6:50:50 PM   
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BDSM is all about sitting half naked at my computer answering another fucking poll on what BDSM is all about.

Or is that just me?

Yours,


benji

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 6:52:39 PM   
iheartgagballs


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I voted for service, simply because it's my favorite. And I agree with Bearlee, it depends on which aspect you are examining.
Bondage/Domination
Domination/Submission
Sadism/Masochism

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 7:16:55 PM   
ownedgirlie


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I said pleasure, since the BDSM activity he involves me in is about his pleasure.

I'll go check your other poll...that will have a different answer. 

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 7:43:08 PM   
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I chose exploration, because that is the one underlying part of it for me no matter what is going on, exploring my feelings for him, exploring pleasure, exploring pain, exploring sensation, exploring the emotions of it all.

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 7:44:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie


I'll go check your other poll...that will have a different answer. 


That was actually the purpose for the two different polls. I wanted to see if there would be a difference in the POV's of those who answered. :)

I choose 'play' for BDSM and 'power' for M/s.

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 8:48:19 PM   
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For me,  it is about Honesty

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/22/2006 9:45:08 PM   
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I picked play, the bdsm part is the fun and games to me. It's got nothing really to do with our Master/slave relationship, well apart from being a toy within it.

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/23/2006 6:04:13 AM   
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i chose exploration since W/we are still experimenting with many things and learning not only how they feel physically, but how the physical, emotional and psychological all intertwine. It makes it difficult to "land" somewhere because things change all the time.

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/23/2006 6:36:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

BDSM is all about sitting half naked at my computer answering another fucking poll on what BDSM is all about.

Or is that just me?

Yours,


benji


Which half is naked?

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/23/2006 6:52:46 AM   
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Authority!

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/23/2006 6:55:00 AM   
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Sensation.

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RE: BDSM is all about ... - 11/23/2006 7:54:26 AM   
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Someone told me it was about four things but for the life of me I can’t remember which four things it is.

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