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FLsubmalecd -> RE: profile (11/23/2006 10:29:05 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Hellhole789
how can i and any other subs/slaves imporve our profiles to make them better for attracting Mistress/Dommes/Maters/Dom
I would suggest that you write a profile that expresses exactly what you are looking for. That is...if you are looking for a long term committed relationship, a bond of love and submission, say so. If you are looking for just a play partner, say so. The point is, be 100% honest about yourself, your desire to serve and submit to a Domme and how you view your place in her life.
Perhaps describe in broad terms exactly what kind of relationship you seek. Describe the Domme that you are willing to serve. What qualities you seek in her role as a Domme. But I do not mean to describe anything sexual in nature. That is the single biggest mistake I see most males make.
If you heard it once, you heard it a thousand times. Dommes, are first and foremost Women and Ladies. Treat them as such in your profile information. Be respectful.
Stay away from your fantasies, kinks, wants and needs in the sexual or scene arena. They already know you want and desire some sort of BDSM desires fore filled. No need to get into them before you give them a chance to know you as a male first. Yo me it is no different then the way you would approach a Woman in real time. You surely would not approach her and start telling her of all your kinks, sexual interests etc. it is no different here in cyberland.
Take time to tell anyone viewing your profile what other interests you have, be it golf, fishing, singing, gardening etc. Give them a clear picture of your personality.
I tends to wear my feelings on my sleeve. That can be a bad thing at times. But in my case it worked when I wrote my profile. I laid it all out there for anyone to read. it was from the heart and 100% open and honest.
It must have shown, since I am one of the lucky ones that has found the ONE and ONLY that I want to love and serve for the rest of my life. I feel very lucky and blessed that my profile attracted Her attention and that She has me under consideration as not only Her submissive, but as Her life partner too.
I wish you luck in finding what it is you are looking for.
So on this sentimental day of Thanksgiving, I am especially thankful to Collarme.com and the Great Goddess above for bringing us together.
I wish you... and all that read this a very Happy Thanksgiving.
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