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An introduction - 2/11/2005 1:08:15 PM

AnimalTrainer

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Hello everyone :)

I've been a user @collarme.com for a couple of weeks now, and have found it a pleasant change from several other websites of similiar theme.

I am going to introduce myself by way of explaining a bit about me, and what I'm looking for.

I'm a professional poker player, and an amateur musician (so far). My interests outside of D/s are many and varied, but include reading, chess (former chess teacher), backgammon (former backgammon circuit player), and just about any game I can get my hands on. What I don't do is work 9-5 nor will I ever again. While I was born in NYC, I have lived in L.A., Florida, Maryland, Montana, and Michigan- it is my viewpoint that one can not know a place or its culture by merely visiting, but must instead live there. Currently I live in Brooklyn NY, and it's where I'll be living for a few years (although I plan on wintering in San Diego beginning next January).

Enough about me, what about you?

What am I looking for in a girl/companion/slave/relationship? I have come to the conclusion that it's very unlikely (although not impossible) for me to be satisfied with one woman. The reason is fairly simple. I have many different wants and needs that seem at times to work against one another, and I just can not see how one person would be able to fulfill all my desires.

I am at once cruel and kind, compassionate and uncaring, loving and callous. I will have a cunt to torture mercilessly, and a girl to love and cherish.

Makes sense? I'm sure to a few of you, this makes perfect sense, and to others I will seem afflicted with MPD (multiple personality disorder).

Who knew life was so complex?

Nice to meet you all,
Philip

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RE: An introduction - 2/12/2005 12:57:04 PM

theroebabe

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Hi Philip and welcome to the forums at CM!

Ther are some that think no one person can satisfy their needs, that is not unusual. The other area where some people think they cant be kind and compassionate and loving to a sub/slave because they also like to hurt and use them, well thats a different thought altogether to me. Here on the forums we love to discuss all aspects of life and the lifestyle! Maybe it would be a good place to start a discussion? I do not understand the second school of thought if i let someone use and hurt me i would also want that person to love me for that side of me. It lets the dom and sadist be what he is and i be what i am the pain puppy (or sorts) that wants to take it for them.

So jump on in, the water is fine!