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pixelslave -> RE: Is it just me? (11/24/2006 2:52:42 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Quivver
I have you ask you all something about male subs.
I perfer my place as a submissive, ... although for some reason I find male switches and subs who are wanting friendships and that's ok with me.
BUT!
Never have I ran into so many questions! All those little helpful offers and all I find make me squicky!!! What's up with this? Is this common?
Sigh...............
I suggest you trust your gut. Not all of us are made from the same stuff! Some can genuinely be friends and are able to respect your boundaries. Others are as desperate and angry as some you see that regularly post here on the boards and will do whatever it takes to try and take advantage. If something is said that doesn't feel right to you, then I suggest you simply tell them so. [8D]
At the same time, I do agree with Tammy Jo that when you're naturally submissive, and you've not had an outlet for the need to serve, there's a tendency to want to give to anyone who appears to be in need. And I can certainly understand why a man would find you very attractive and want to fulfill your needs, especially if your have indeed listed yourself as as switch (or did I perhaps misunderstand the latter?)! For some men in their desperate and irrational minds, their thinking might be such that there might be the slightest of chances that they just might wind up getting more than only a "thanks" and convert you to a full fledged Domme! (sigh) [X(]
Bottom line, if what you're really here for is to meet a Dom, I strongly suggest that you don't advertise yourself as a switch (provided that was actually the case) and perhaps just ignore the rest, unless it is you that initiates the first contact by your own choice! [;)]
- pixel
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