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slavemaia -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/25/2006 12:50:08 AM)
i obey because that's what i agreed to do when i became His slave. i feel at peace, i love His smile, it makes Him happy, i get that incredible feeling deep inside when He says "you please me so much." Displeasing Him makes me miserable.

SamKeithsslave -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/25/2006 12:55:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: reofbl For most, I'd like to ask what started this obidience, or where did it begin? The contributing factors that caused the factors which contribute to your obidience into being? I guess the obedience starts in childhood for most people. Having to do as our elders told us etc, though I suspect you are more interested in where/how the obedience within a sexual relationship began? For me the answer is the same - in childhood. I have found that by being obedient through *choice* rather than by force actually gives me the freedoms I had taken from me as a child. I obey in order to please and I guess to a degree its because I like giving myself up to someone and not having to be the one to make decisions.

BitaTruble -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/25/2006 2:05:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: reofbl Why do you obey (or would obey) your Master/Dom(me)? I am compelled by the character of my nature and his ability to manipulate that nature for his own purposes. Celeste

shedreamz -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/25/2006 3:13:19 AM)
quote: What a lovely, elegant response; I understand completely! Thank you... Thank you Bearlee. How sweet of you to comment.

Celeste43 -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/25/2006 8:11:45 AM)
Because he's trustworthy. Because I know he isn't issuing orders that have no basis in reality. Because he thinks things through ahead of time. Because I love him.

kishasub -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/25/2006 8:34:08 AM)
I obey because i love to please Her and i'd rather see the look of approval in Her eye and be called Her good girl than the look of disappointment when i disobey and let her down.

nikaa -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/25/2006 9:25:36 AM)
Why do I obey? I obey because of the bond of trust that was built and is maintained. I obey because of a consuming need to serve and please him. I obey because to do otherwise at times would be the easy road, submitting to his will is hard. I obey because he is my ying, I am his yang. We bring balance to each other's worlds.

Kalira -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/25/2006 4:44:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: reofbl Wonderful and heartfelt responses! I appreciate them. Several have said that they obey because it's their choice. I'd just like to ask these to be more specific, as to why they chose to do it? For most, I'd like to ask what started this obidience, or where did it begin? The contributing factors that caused the factors which contribute to your obidience into being? (For instance, for those who are obidient because they'd be in trouble if they weren't, why get in this position in the first place? Random chance, decision, some path led to it? If it's pleasure to obey, what do you believe causes this to be? Is it a base level response, or is there some other reason obeying causes you to feel pleasure?) I'm very interested in the developmental qualities of this mind frame, so any insight that could be afforded would also be appreciated. :) Truthfully, I obey Master because it is so ingrained within me that to not do so, would be denying myself happiness. I would rather be happy, so, I willingly and consciously choose to obey.

Luciden -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/25/2006 5:20:29 PM)
I obey because I want to please my Master, and because he always knows what's best for me, he always knows what I need-even if what I need isn't what I want. ^_^ I have such a great Master

MmakeMme -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/26/2006 6:17:09 AM)
I obey because, like writing, it is a burning need (although I am compelled to add that I can only obey someone strong enough to make me feel that burn).

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/26/2006 6:21:42 AM)
I obey because I feel it is part of my service as a slave. I chose this lifestyle and enjoy obeying. I trust Master with his choices and obey him. When I obey and do my part I know the rewards will be great. [:)]

subsa -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/26/2006 10:36:45 AM)
i think what you're really asking is why do you give your own personal power over to your Dom; am i right? i make this choice because its what starts the energy wheel flow in our relationship. through my obedience to His will i allow the energy to flow from me to Him. but the energy doesn't just stop there; it's continually passed back and forth. its that feel of the energy flow that i crave. and that's why i give my obedience. or were you asking why you obey that certain person. i obey Him because i trust Him; i respect Him, i love Him. He's my guide and guardian. i think for all us who've found their One its something specifically different but in a more general sense it's the same indescribable something...a need that you know only your One can fullfull.

daddysprop247 -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/26/2006 11:14:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: reofbl Why do you obey (or would obey) your Master/Dom(me)? (More specifically.. is it because you chose a lifestyle, and you enjoy living it? Is it because you feel obligated? Is being pleasing simply enough in and of itself? Do you obey, doing as told without even thinking? Does it turn you on? Make you feel wanted/needed/appreciated? Just examples of some ideas.) i obey because i must. it's an instinct, not about want, like, arousal, happiness, or choice. just instinct.

andreaC -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/26/2006 9:11:43 PM)
I obey to Master because its the lifestyle i want. I do it cause it pleases him, it makes me feel complete and happy to do so, but mind you that at times i disobeyed and like he said, there's always consequences. Oh man i hate those, very painful ;)

RiotGirl -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/27/2006 7:43:21 AM)
quote: (More specifically.. is it because you chose a lifestyle, and you enjoy living it? Is it because you feel obligated? Is being pleasing simply enough in and of itself? Do you obey, doing as told without even thinking? Does it turn you on? Make you feel wanted/needed/appreciated? Just examples of some ideas.) Currently i'm not - for the most part atleast. When i do - its because it just fills something inside of me.

littleone35 -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/27/2006 7:51:53 AM)
i obay Master because i know not only must i i want to. It pleases him when i obey and i want to please him and make him happy and see his smile. For me it is as easy as that. Matt's littleone

andreaC -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/27/2006 2:41:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 i obay Master because i know not only must i i want to. It pleases him when i obey and i want to please him and make him happy and see his smile. For me it is as easy as that. Matt's littleone To see their smiles, they are worth so much when we pleased ..........sighhh i miss those

peterK50 -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/28/2006 7:00:03 AM)
Because it's who I am, it would feel very odd not to obey.

gypsygrl -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/28/2006 7:46:04 AM)
As a kid, I was very compliant out of fear and insecurity. I grew up in a chaotic household and while my brother and sister were both far more rebellious, I rarely could find the moxy to openly disobey my parents or even argue with them. If there was yelling or even loud voices I would instantly submit (I'm pretty sure this is a biological thing. I'm just wired this way.) Because I was so compliant I was favored by my parents in a lot of ways even though that meant being ignored. My compliance wasn't a choice so I never felt I deserved the position of favored child and I knew in my heart that I wasn't any better than my siblings. If I could of been rebellious, I would have been. Growing up, there was plenty to rebel against. That was then. Now, I'm all grown up and even though I'm mostly compliant because it comes so easy to me, I can choose whether or not to obey. So, I do it because I want to. Because it feels good. Because I respect the person I'm deferring to and want to show that through my actions. I obey mostly for the same reasons as everyone else.

pinkkeith -> RE: Why do you obey? (11/28/2006 5:56:11 PM)
To me it is a choice as well. I don't blindly obey everyone that orders me around. To me it is a sign of love and trust that I offer up to my partner.

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