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BewildereDsub -> advice needed (11/25/2006 2:29:26 PM)

greetings Aall
There is a normal* love for a Master  by a slave
at what stage does this change?  I am in  situation that has become one of His doing,gosh...He actually loves me and i Him.Does this now make Uus less........i am finding myself floundering



mnottertail -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 2:34:22 PM)

drowning, in a sea of love, in which everyone would love to drown.  (FM)

Have him tap you briskly in the face with a tiling spade, that oughta  ameliorate the situation.

Jesus, just try to be happy with the deal and go with if for fuck's sake.

Take a don't analyze this pill, for once.

Ron





TemptingNviceSub -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 2:40:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

drowning, in a sea of love, in which everyone would love to drown.  (FM)

Have him tap you briskly in the face with a tiling spade, that oughta  ameliorate the situation.

Jesus, just try to be happy with the deal and go with if for fuck's sake.

Take a don't analyze this pill, for once.

Ron



Wow...I absolutely,emphatically agree with Ron here..(now where is the phone number for the closest neuro surgeon,something is now terribly wrong!)...[8D]....Tempting



crouchingtigress -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 2:44:36 PM)

hehehe....i have to laugh...not at you but with you....no matter how old we are love blind sides us and makes us into silly insecure children...
 
i am glad your in love...love rocks...science is just beginning to understand the chemicals and what not...but no one trully understands it...thats what so great about it...its all about trust and going with the flow.
 
enjoy the ride....[:)]
 
 



BewildereDsub -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 2:54:51 PM)

well thankies Rod for that info.ummm (snikers)    umm tiling .....tried that.....



MmakeMme -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 2:54:55 PM)

Perhaps instead of "How does this make us less?" you can now ponder "How does this make us more?" (Love's great. Congrats. ~jealously~)



mnottertail -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 2:57:00 PM)

Good God,

Now I am Rod? I feel so Qguage like right now, I feel his pain.

Riddick



KatyLied -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 2:58:23 PM)

Two comments, completely off topic:

quote:

drowning, in a sea of love, in which everyone would love to drown.  (FM)


I now have that song an endless loop running through my brain.

quote:


Take a don't analyze this pill, for once.


Can I use this line?



mnottertail -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 3:00:46 PM)

After your 10 hour califlower ear training phonecon you may.

Sure.

Training Day



MmakeMme -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 3:02:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Good God,

Now I am Rod? I feel so Qguage like right now, I feel his pain.

Riddick


Dear Son,

Yes. You are. And yes, you shall.

~~ God



Rayne58 -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 3:14:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BewildereDsub

greetings Aall
There is a normal* love for a Master by a slave
at what stage does this change? I am in situation that has become one of His doing,gosh...He actually loves me and i Him.Does this now make Uus less........i am finding myself floundering


*smiles* Why would it make you less........I've found it makes us more. [:)] I went through a stage of somehow thinking that we weren't a "true" Master/sub couple - I mean He actually cuddles me[sm=whoa.gif] Since then, I've realised that we don't have to justify ourselves to anyone but us, and if we're happy with the way things are, then more power to us![:D]



Focus50 -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 3:43:06 PM)

Makes you less????  Damn girl, forget the "floundering" bullshit and *enjoy* because it sounds like you're finding yourself in what I'd consider the *IDEAL* M/s relationship! 
 
Your only problem seems to be that you're not comfortable with the situation you find yourselves - are you actually trying to measure up to someone else's M/s relationship??  If so, stop that crap NOW!!!!!!
 
Focus.



BewildereDsub -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 4:00:43 PM)

Thank You Focus... Your words  Have hit home,,,,



adaddysgirl -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 4:46:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BewildereDsub

greetings Aall
There is a normal* love for a Master  by a slave
at what stage does this change?  I am in  situation that has become one of His doing,gosh...He actually loves me and i Him.Does this now make Uus less........i am finding myself floundering


i think you are lucky to have found each other  [:)]
 
Best wishes to you both  [&:]
 
Daddysgirl



Celeste43 -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 4:51:07 PM)

Love is rare and valuable. Who cares if he calls you honey instead of it, if he wants you curled up in his arms and not by his feet. You know what you are to each other and that's all that matters.



Quivver -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 4:51:52 PM)

And the problem is?  I'm sure you'll work through it.  Congrats...........



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 7:05:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MmakeMme

Perhaps instead of "How does this make us less?" you can now ponder "How does this make us more?" (Love's great. Congrats. ~jealously~)
I second the jealous emotion..~g~.....Tempting



Daddysredhead -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 7:23:38 PM)

Dear Bewildered,

What you have is a beautiful thing!  I know because my Master and I are in love and have been in a committed relationship for three and a half years.  I am the happiest girl because of it and do not feel any shame that He treats me as His lover, His friend, and talks of marriage with me.  That does not take away from His position of authority over me and it sure doesn't make me any less His slave because sometimes I tell Him I want to make love instead of being tied up, gagged, and used as His slut.

Embrace what you have.  I have found that there are few D/s or M/s relationships that have this special ingredient of truly being in love with each other, hopelessly and magically in love...  It has made all the difference in the world to me and my Master.  [:)]



MsOpal -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 7:41:55 PM)

As everyone here has said ... go with this one, relax and forget all the stuff where soneone says you "cannot" love your sub/slave/Master/Mistress because love makes it no longer a D/s M/s whatever/s ... for me, if I did not love myDaddy I would not have the trust in him that I do.  Simple.
Opal



DiurnalVampire -> RE: advice needed (11/25/2006 7:47:10 PM)

If love makes you less, then I guess I suffer the same problem. Angel and I defaintely love one another, and we wouldnt be in the relationship we are in if we didnt. When you get that close to someone, it is perfectly normal to fal for them. AS long as it is reciprocated, its a beautiful thing. Enjoy it, and dont let yourselves take it for granted.  It doesnt have to impact your D/s dynamic at all.

DV



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