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evemae -> I need to know (11/26/2006 11:01:22 AM)

I am new at this. I have alway been dominate person and tried to hide it. Now I am ready to explore that side of me. What I need to know is how I would go about interviewing possible subject. In my past they alway find me. I am looking for a Mistress that don't mind beening a Mentor to me.I have the upmost respect for the women that know that she is in control



mnottertail -> RE: I need to know (11/26/2006 11:12:54 AM)

Well Eve,

The look is awesome by god, after that I am not qualified to mentor you, don't have the right equipment in terms of your search and destroy criteria.  But, do you belong to the groups down in MSP? and do you go to the clubs?  There should be some help there.  Additionally, when it comes to emails. it will kinda all layer itself and you will easily get the gimmick of those you don't wanna be dealing with. 

Good luck,
Ron



LadyAlexa -> RE: I need to know (11/26/2006 11:43:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: evemae

I am new at this. I have alway been dominate person and tried to hide it. Now I am ready to explore that side of me. What I need to know is how I would go about interviewing possible subject. In my past they alway find me. I am looking for a Mistress that don't mind beening a Mentor to me.I have the upmost respect for the women that know that she is in control


Sit yourself down and think of your wants and desires.  Make lists of these and your limits.  Talk to local folks; get socially involved with a group.  Talk to Doms, asking for their opinion and help.  Some folks are better at mentoring then others.  Decide for yourself what your top 10 criteria for a submissive would be.  Don't worry about being too specific, or not specific enough.  It's all a learning experience.  There are many online areas that have great info about the lifestyle.  Are you more interested in D/s or bdsm? Do a google search for the various knowledgable web sites and take your time. 



Quiatete -> RE: I need to know (11/26/2006 12:25:04 PM)

I've found that the Fetish Alliance and Albany Power Exchange have some good articles for starting Dom/mes, if you can't find a mentor.



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