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MasterNdorei -> Mastering you (11/27/2006 10:27:11 PM)

With all due respect to all the wonderful people who post in this forum... i would like to pose this question to slaves only. To avoid a debate, i ask that there be no responses to others' posts. i just want the knee jerk reaction from those who identify only as slaves, who are willing to answer my question...

At what point did you realize He/She was indeed mastering you?




SamKeithsslave -> RE: Mastering you (11/27/2006 10:41:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei
At what point did you realize He/She was indeed mastering you?


Its different each time, of course, but generally its when I find myself doing as I am told without question or when I hear myself answer "Yes sir!" [:D]




BitaTruble -> RE: Mastering you (11/27/2006 11:03:19 PM)

When I realized I had neither the will power nor desire to leave.

Celeste




briska -> RE: Mastering you (11/27/2006 11:23:10 PM)

When i was able to submit to things on his command i never thought i'd be able to accept. 




ownedgirlie -> RE: Mastering you (11/27/2006 11:51:27 PM)

It wasn't like one day I realized it.  It was a slow growing process, beginning from about our 2nd conversation.  I was more and more compelled to obey him regardless of how I felt about it.  But it's probably safe to say it all came together the very first night we met in person, and I served him beyond what I thought I was capable of.  He has said that was when he knew he had ownership of me.




MasterNdorei -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 6:20:52 AM)

Thank you for your answers.... i will keep checking this thread...




Kalira -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 6:33:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei

With all due respect to all the wonderful people who post in this forum... i would like to pose this question to slaves only. To avoid a debate, i ask that there be no responses to others' posts. i just want the knee jerk reaction from those who identify only as slaves, who are willing to answer my question...

At what point did you realize He/She was indeed mastering you?

Knee jerk reaction? With my first Master, I could not really answer that. With Master now; from the second phone call ....seriously :)




daddysprop247 -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 8:43:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei

With all due respect to all the wonderful people who post in this forum... i would like to pose this question to slaves only. To avoid a debate, i ask that there be no responses to others' posts. i just want the knee jerk reaction from those who identify only as slaves, who are willing to answer my question...

At what point did you realize He/She was indeed mastering you?


the very first time we met in person...we were just friends, and Mentor/student...nothing romantic, nothing sexual. just having dinner at a crappy TGIF/applebee's type restaurant...still, because of my naturally overanxious, paranoid, painfully shy nature, i was nervous and would go from insane babbling to deathly silence and back again. all of a sudden in the midst of my babbling he looks me directly in the eyes and says, "calm yourself." just 2 little words...but the way he said it, so quietly yet so forcefully...it pushed a button inside of me and i knew then that this Man was going to be trouble. :)




gretchenS -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 8:55:15 AM)

Since we met and all the time.




fyreredsub -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 9:01:50 AM)

Greetings All,

This girl knew who her Master was long before He was aware of this girl as He is very active in the Gorean Community  and since day 1 He got to Her and she ignored it*well as long as she could*.

She never dreamed one day she would get the chance to speak to Him and learn.

After a few weeks she could not take it anymore so she gathered her courage and what was left of her heart

and said," Master you make her belly burn"

and she has been His ever since
[:)]




safesaneplay2 -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 9:09:17 AM)

when i made a haircut appt., drove there determined to get the hair out of my face, and then couldn't go in because he had told me how he would love to see my hair longer. ~sighs~  i hate growing out my hair but he loves it.




Daddysredhead -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 10:54:16 AM)

It became evident to me that He was mastering me when I was able to look Him in the eyes and trust Him as He made me do things that I was never willing to try.  This was brought out even further during one scene where He was more intense than usual and at some point I began to cry - though not from distress - and the only thing I could say to Him was, "I love You, Daddy... please don't stop."




RibbonsAndCurls -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 11:03:12 AM)

My first owner was quite sneaky about it.. I had been a Domme and he a Dom but we liked eachother and agreed to start a vanilla relationship.. everything went well and about a year and a half into the relationship I realized he'd been slowly training me and completely owned my ass (as well as the rest of my body[;)]) ...I realized it one night when he said "I'm hungry" and I got up to cook something for him to eat... but I've been happy with my life ever since.




MasterNdorei -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 11:54:16 AM)

These are wonderful stories.... thank you everyone for sharing... i hope this thread has more responses...

Master's dorei




Wildfleurs -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 12:13:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei

With all due respect to all the wonderful people who post in this forum... i would like to pose this question to slaves only. To avoid a debate, i ask that there be no responses to others' posts. i just want the knee jerk reaction from those who identify only as slaves, who are willing to answer my question...

At what point did you realize He/She was indeed mastering you?


I don't really remember a precise lightbulb moment.  There was just a point where I was just doing what he wanted, in some instances regardless of what I wanted.  And I also realized that leaving him of my own violition (on my own autonomous decision) just wasn't going to happen.

C~




bluelace001 -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 12:28:44 PM)

For the most part, about 5 minutes after i said hello to Him. Been with him now for over 8 years, must of done something right!




Celeste43 -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 8:26:44 PM)

It wasn't about him mastering me, it was about me discovering that I could trust him through and through.




darksdesire -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 9:05:21 PM)

When i one day found myself begging for it.  i knew i was hooked at that moment.




patina -> RE: Mastering you (11/28/2006 9:59:43 PM)

It is knowing that he is the only person who will be able to control me with just a look or one word.  The rest of my family could scream till they are hoarse or even get in my face and I still would not listen to them. 

Knowing that he is displeased with me makes me want to change and do his will instead of mine.  A thing I have never cared about before.

Patina




His1minx -> RE: Mastering you (11/29/2006 12:06:47 PM)

i have been with my Master for over a year now. For me i realized He was "mastering" me when i began to subconsciously and consciously do those things that He orders me to do without any bidding from Him. However, being a feisty one i do have my moments where i do fall out of my place but i realize that this is my failure. i am most troubled and disappointed with myself more than He is at these times. i believe being "mastered" is an ongoing process especially for those who are strong of will or defiant, which i do happen to be.

peace and respect,
His1minx




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