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RE: Mastering you - 11/29/2006 1:52:31 PM   
slavejali


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At what point did you realize He/She was indeed mastering you?


When I realised he had the ability to effect my emotional and mental state.
When I realised I cared what he thought of me.
When I realsied I couldn't picture my world without him.



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RE: Mastering you - 11/29/2006 3:11:40 PM   
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At what point did you realize He/She was indeed mastering you?


The telephone hangup.  I should probably give some history.  We were talking about a difficult situation I was going through and he hung up on me!  We'd not yet met, but were planning to.  I called him back and asked "Did you hang up on me??".  He replied something like "Yes, you needed to calm down and I couldn't deal with you acting like that."  It worked, I calm down and fast.

I told him later:  "You had me at the hang up."

I wonder if he expects this answer.


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RE: Mastering you - 11/29/2006 3:39:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		When I didn't want to do something he told me to do and I told him I wouldn't do it, and he hung up on me before I could explain why.  I sent him an email explaining my feelings and he responded that he would continually push me and test his control.  I was to do what he told me to do, send him an email explaining how I did it and how I felt doing it....... and if not, it had been fun.  That was his ultimatum.  I did it. 

That was Monday.  Today I came home marked by him in various places on my body, for the first time. 

I'm his and I have never been happier about having to sit on a pillow.

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RE: Mastering you - 11/29/2006 4:31:15 PM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		When He flew me up to Wisconsin, had a longgggggg talk..........He pointed to the floor and i was powerless.   I knew that no matter what life threw at us from then on would never matter as much as that moment did.  I knew then that the decision i made was the right one all along.  I needed Him.....I needed to serve Him....I knew i could never walk out that door.  He took the power back and put me where i always needed  to be.......at His feet.  We weathered the storm and are stronger than ever.............together.

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RE: Mastering you - 11/29/2006 5:19:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ahhhhh! So nice of You to ask. It was when, imho, He stepped up to the plate, full force, no excuses, no requests just orders and i felt an internal switch go on. i'll never forget that time and it's stayed on ever since.

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RE: Mastering you - 11/29/2006 11:28:24 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		These are powerful and beautiful moments.... thank you everyone for sharing. i know others are enjoying reading them too. Let's hope there are more to post....

Humbly~*
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RE: Mastering you - 11/30/2006 3:16:48 AM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		There wasn't a particular point.....

The closest would be...... When there was no reason not to follow his direction. He made sense, his directions made sense and if I didn't respond to that alone, he could force me to follow them.

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RE: Mastering you - 11/30/2006 6:42:18 AM   
WillowRain


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Status: offline 		I am unsure about labels, but I will answer anyway. When did I know that Sir was indeed Mastering me? There are two answers. When I knew he  maybe could. And when he was. We met through a friend who thought we might suit. It was aranged for me to bottom to him and a lady friend of his. The connection between the two tops at that time was very sparkly, and in that first scene, he and I did not have a hard core click, but there were moments where we crossed into spaces and then back out. At the time, the dominant who introduced us was also around and my trust in him is profound. So I was able to go farther in the scene than I might have in other situations because I had my dear friend close and my trust in him is complete and without hesitation. But there was one particular moment when I begged for water, and Sir opened a cold bottle brought it to his lips and then put his mouth to mine and had me drink. Very intimate, shockingly so, and something in the energy of it was... just... I don't know how to put it. I was sliding down the hill and knew it.

But when I KNEW he was mastering me? It was the first time we were at the club together without other people around or with us. He was standing behind me and the intensity of his spirit was so much that it was making me dizzy, and I kept getting distracted by the pattern of his breath, or the sound of my own heart beat. Low and gentle his voice was pooling into my ear and down into my body, and even though I was managing to keep my head together on some levels, my body moved without hesitation into his hand. It was simple, words, standing together at a horse, close and touching. Him turning my body, moving my hand. It was like my wrist had utterly no volition, his fingers touched and I rolled my palm toward him, fingers unfurling. It was a little like watching myself from a distance. I was telling him that I didn't want to scene that night, and I didn't, I wanted to get to know him, to explore more subtle things, but my body, my body was completely willing to follow even his slightest gesture. We didn't scene that night, we did however discover that our mutual friend was right, we suited.



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RE: Mastering you - 11/30/2006 8:02:19 AM   
amuzingtoyou


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Status: offline 		Oh this is a difficult question to answer. It hasn't been easy, i have been going through alot of questions over the last few months over my submission. But the moment came recently, when i began to care more about his needs then my own. When i could leave my selfishness behind and begin to concentrate on him. That was the moment i truly became his. I don't even know if he realizes it.

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RE: Mastering you - 11/30/2006 8:45:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Greetings..~smiles~

Think a couple of months after talking online when he said to make no misunderstandings about it ..that he would use me. Never had someone bluntly do that before especially at a distance with knowing risk of saying something like that might very well cause me to just disappear. That hooked me.

As far as being Mastered..probably the first time realized that was about 8 months after meeting, and 5 months of us being physically together, and he stripped the collar from my neck, and stated that if wasn't going to serve then he'd make arrangements for me to return back to where came from. Spent that whole day just lost beyond comprehension at the thought of not being in his presence anymore. When realized what my thought process was and only saw internal death without him instead of the past and normal "well fine dude..blow it out your pipe hole..i'm out of here mentality"..it was then.

Well Wishes

starshine
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RE: Mastering you - 11/30/2006 9:12:39 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejali

quote:

At what point did you realize He/She was indeed mastering you?


When I realised he had the ability to effect my emotional and mental state.
When I realised I cared what he thought of me.
When I realsied I couldn't picture my world without him.

I have to say that there are other people in my life that can do all of those things.

To *master* me he had to come up with something more than that ....lol

agirl



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RE: Mastering you - 11/30/2006 3:25:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		The 1st time we met if im honest.

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RE: Mastering you - 11/30/2006 3:27:54 PM   
fleshslave


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Status: offline 		the second meeting. the first was coffee, the second was more. that was when i knew he was mastering me

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RE: Mastering you - 12/1/2006 5:10:00 AM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		i knew He had the ability to master me the moment i looked up into His eyes. i did not realize it at the time, but He had begun mastering me with His second email to me. i caught on later, during that first meeting.
Eighteen months later i can honestly say not a day goes by that i am not aware of His mastery.

Greatful to Be His~*
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RE: Mastering you - 12/1/2006 5:19:44 AM   
NakedGirlScout


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Status: offline 		Nobody has truly ever been able to master me! I've got an indomitable spirit.

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RE: Mastering you - 12/1/2006 5:23:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am really glad that someone has asked this and to read all the replies because as I am trying to get to grips with the rug pulling sensation of this myself and being a sub virgin it is so reassuring to read about everyone's experiences.
I met a guy at a work party, and he looked at me so intensely with an i'm going to have to you and make you mine look that I was almost breathless. We have been in touch by email and he is already 'training' me....if I don't respond with the right reply he doesn't come back until I do...it is a sweet psychological game which I am loving. It is what I want and what I need.
He said he could see it in me immediately...has anyone else had that?

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RE: Mastering you - 12/3/2006 4:50:40 AM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		The One who owns me has told me He saw my ability to surrender from the beginning. His approch was different, but each Master has their own way of weaving their mastery into us.

Glad you enjoyed the thread~*
Master's dorei

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