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AGORANTE -> RE: ass play (11/30/2006 6:15:49 PM)
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Caning
Spanking is nearly universally appreciated by women. Vanilla women when first spanked are usually thrilled. Then they find that some guy whom they expected to just spank them, has taken off his belt or gotten a hair brush or a wood spoon and is wailing away on their twat. They are now in kinky land. You are on a kinky site. That means that you will be consorting with men like me. That in turn means that sometime sooner or later someone will be using a cane on you.
Its virtually inevitable that you will be caned for a couple reasons. Good quality floggers cost well over a hundred dollars. A cane might cost five dollars. This means every guy has one. Also canes are easy to modulate. Little light fast taps have one effect and full hard strokes have another. Whips (bull whips, single tailed, dressage, etc..) are also expensive and require real skill that you can only get through practice. Canes require little or no practice. Whips can be dangerous. Canes are much safer.
Canes are of course much sexier than floggers, paddles, or straps. Check out the BDSM porn videos. The public (male Doms) like to see girls caned.
If you keep fooling around with D/s men one will pull your pants down and cane you. Don't worry about it. If he has prepared you properly you will love it.
Of course that isn't ass play at all. Subbies also get caned on their teats and pussies. The ass is just another site.
Ass play
You seem worried about tearing and bleeding. You should be. Anal intercourse is many time more dangerous in terms of disease than is vaginal intercourse. The tissues of the vagina are thick and robust. They have evolved to receive regular penetration. The anus on the other hand has thin walls that are easily torn.
This allows several bad things to occur. Feces are filled with bacteria. Actually most of the weight of feces is bacteria. So its good not to have cuts and tears that open a path for infection in your bung hole. Even more importantly a penis with a tear on it can open a blood to blood infection path. This is how HIV is transmitted. HIV essentially can not be transmitted through the vagina. In twenty years of keeping data there are no unambiguous cases of vaginally trasmitted HIV.
Of course HIV is quite rare among heterosexuals even if they engage in anal intercourse, and with a condom it ceases to be much of a concern at all. Still, why worry? There are plenty of Doms who don't insist on anal intercourse.
A really fun and very safe kind of ass play is the use of butt plugs. They are easy to sterilize, easy to lubricate and they provide strong stimulation. I always plug my girls every single time. It adjusts their attitude and makes them more sweet.
Check off that you will accept ass play and then humbly on your knees beg him not to corn hole you, but make clear you would appreciate a nice big butt plug if he so chooses.
This is the Ask a Master forum and that's my answer.
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