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Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 6:05:16 AM

blushingflower

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If asked to rate my favorite activity in the bedroom (though it usually happens on the living room floor...), I'd probably pick fisiting. It's the one thing guarenteed to make me orgasm. I enjoy it so much that my Daddy generally uses it as a reward (though sometimes He does it just cause He wants to). This statement has seemed to generate a certain degree of surprise (pleased surprise, but surprise) among other Doms that I've chatted with, especially when they learn that I orgasm from fisting with no additional stimulation of anything, clit included.
Seeing as how I think it feels so fucking good, I'm a little curious as to whether it's unusual for other girls who enjoy fisiting to orgasm from it without clitoral stimulation, to orgasm from it at all, etc.
I don't really care if I'm "normal" or not, I like what I like and that's the way it is, I'm just curious as to how others respond to the same stimulus.

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 6:14:55 AM

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/sigh

I can't be fisted

Each time it has been tried, I have ripped

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 6:17:14 AM

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Ouch!

(staying away from this thread)

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 6:18:29 AM

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Flower,

It's not that unusual. Fisting gives strong stimulation to the G-spot (essentially, the back part of clitoral tissue.) Different women have their orgasms triggered different ways - some prefer clitoral stimulation, some vaginal, some through a good hard spanking. Sex being 90% mental, obviously the head trip of being fisted plays an important role for you.

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 6:25:33 AM

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It's not something I've ever been able to try, so I can't comment. As long as you enjoy it, and get the pleasure you need from it, then it's great.

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 6:44:10 AM

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I've never been fisted.... so i dunno about myself. Althought awhile back i was given permission to fist another girl both anally and vaginally. She squirmed in pain when it was anally and she said she came when i did it vaginally. I sorta think she was lying. But who knows.

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 7:08:13 AM

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It's not that unusual to love fisting. The women who get over their fears and have a skilled enough person to help their bodies enjoy it over time almost always love it once they try it.

The number of women who actually do that, however, are very few compared to the one's who don't.

I'd say it's still unusual even within that group to be able to orgasm without clitorial stimulation though. But who cares! Go and enjoy!

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 7:26:31 AM

Renorei

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I'd be scared to try fisting because I wouldn't want to end up being "loose". But I guess if that many people like it it must be pretty awesome. Maybe I'll try it one day. I have a question for you OP. You don't have to answer it if you don't want to, but I'm wondering if you enjoy regular sex less since you started getting fisted, or if you haven't noticed a difference?

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 7:28:10 AM

MasterLordguru

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Having fisted two lovers in the past, I can give you a perspective. The first one is that what Voltare stated is very true. It is the mental switch that usually leads a person down that slipperly slope (or in this case, the slippery sheath of a pair of lips wrapped around your fist and wrist and 2 inches of forearm)

Both woman I fisted were a bit bigger than the "average" norm. but both reacted differently. The one who has been married and been fisted for years by her husband could come when she felt a man slide in the fist in on the first try. And you could tell. She spasmed and spasmed without any clitoral stimulation and truly suprised me by how hard she contracted.

The second one was younger. and a bit smaller and she felt more pain than anything. Considering I have small hands it helped but it took more than just inserting my fist in and pulling it out and pushing it in and twisting.. it took clitoral stimulation via mouth to get her to even cum. Her words to me was that she truly found the pain to override her pleasure before she got her clit stimulated. SO in this case, What Luckyalbatross stated is probably what the norm would be.

As for anal fisting.. the most I have been able to get is 4 fingers after a long lession. The pain was more than the girl desired and I was not going to inflict any harm that would cause her to walk away from any future situation.

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 7:47:36 AM

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More on point to fisting itself, I never understood why people considered it a "get it on the first shot" type of thing. Fisting is something that can/should be built up to over a series of times. It doesn't have to be rushed through in one night/session.

Most of us went through enough pain losing our virginity with someone who didn't take the time to make it enjoyable and slow the pace so our bodies could get used to it- why do so many try and repeat the pattern with fisting and other new sex acts?

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 7:52:41 AM

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i personally love being fisted my Daddy also uses it as a reward but the best of the best is that he is able to slide his cock into his fist while inside me....it sends ud both into orbit everytime he does it....enjoy and be proud.

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 10:20:26 AM

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:) i'm right there with ya blushingflower - after having tried several times, i was recently able to be fisted by a Dom Who was patient and lovingly kind and WOW fisting is AWESOME and although i love anal as the best best best, **melts and puddles** fisting is right up there ,,,, although i don't know if i could cum without clitioral stimulation as i haven' tried yet ~~

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 10:48:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: blushingflower

If asked to rate my favorite activity in the bedroom (though it usually happens on the living room floor...), I'd probably pick fisiting. It's the one thing guarenteed to make me orgasm. I enjoy it so much that my Daddy generally uses it as a reward (though sometimes He does it just cause He wants to). This statement has seemed to generate a certain degree of surprise (pleased surprise, but surprise) among other Doms that I've chatted with, especially when they learn that I orgasm from fisting with no additional stimulation of anything, clit included.
Seeing as how I think it feels so fucking good, I'm a little curious as to whether it's unusual for other girls who enjoy fisiting to orgasm from it without clitoral stimulation, to orgasm from it at all, etc.
I don't really care if I'm "normal" or not, I like what I like and that's the way it is, I'm just curious as to how others respond to the same stimulus.

I can't take a fist, however I can and do regularly orgasm from penetration without clitoral stimulation (anal and vaginal). With the vaginal its usually an orgasm from my g-spot (which I absolutely love having stimulated). Anally (and its only from anal sex, not manual/finger stimulation), I'm not really sure what or why I orgasm from it, but I'm able to and just enjoy it!

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 10:53:23 AM

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My first and only experience fisting a women was incredible!! Of course I have small hands and wore latex gloves used a lot of lube and it took a while to get the four fingers in before the fist was inserted. But seeing her cum over and over again, as my hand rocked her back and forth was awesome. On the sub side, having never been fisted completely but we kept trying and I wasn't able to get relaxed enough.

My former sister sub enjoyed fisting so much, she later started to enjoy anal fisting as well and had multiple orgasms from the anal end as well.

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 10:54:40 AM

BitaTruble

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

I've never been fisted.... so i dunno about myself. Althought awhile back i was given permission to fist another girl both anally and vaginally. She squirmed in pain when it was anally and she said she came when i did it vaginally. I sorta think she was lying. But who knows.

Riot, if she came while you were fisting her, there would be no doubt. The first time I brought a woman to orgasm during a fisting, I thought my hand was going to break when she came and I have tiny little hands. I can't imagine someone with large hands and how that must feel! Hmm.. maybe I need to go ask Himself that question. ;)

Oh, and I do like fisting, (giving and receiving) but, like most things, it's best when done in moderation. :)

Celeste

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 11:15:53 AM

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I've not been successful in this area...yet!
My biggest fear is...the fist getting stuck behind the pubic bone.

Anyone have that happen?

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 12:48:23 PM

Hisgirlforever

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Daddy hasn't been able to get his whole fist in yet, but pretty close and I love it!!! I totally can orgasm without any clitoral stimulation at all. I can orgasm from nipple stimulation only as well, (with the right mood) so I do agree that a major part of orgasming is the mental part. Before I was with my Daddy I never had an orgasm in the 7 years I was sexually active, even with masturbation and direct clitoral stimulation. Daddy can make me cum almost with no contact :)

Enjoy your fisting and your orgasms, besides who wants to be normal :)

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 4:11:17 PM

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i love fisting.. but im curious.. ive never had any problem with Master gettign is hand in there.. and there is no lose of "tightness"..the thing im curious about.. the girls that have no problems with insertion..do you have kids.. ie..does having had giving birth make it easier...

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 5:02:28 PM

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I love fisting and love every second it takes to get er dun and yes I can get off just by that alone.

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RE: Am I really that unusual? - 11/29/2006 5:10:02 PM

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Don't let others tell you what is normal or usual. If you and your partner enjoy an activity, go for it.

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