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hardboy -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 5:46:39 AM)

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hardboy -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 5:54:19 AM)

Nipple play very important




meatcleaver -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 5:54:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Mgdartist - you remind me of my neighbour Adrian. He's an artist too, and could have spoken every word of your post.

Except he'd have been drunk.

Can I ask you, is heavy drinking and whatever prevalent in artists? I've discussed with Adrian this question and he reels off lists of artists who were alcoholics, drug users, violent and so on, which I put down to the temperament required to produce art being one of pain, anguish and rage.



I'm an artist/designer and earn a very decent living from it, though I'm not sure that it is any different from being a car mechanic, it takes all sorts. I know many artists and I can't say I have noticed a particular character trait and there is a lot of competition between artists as to whose work is more relevent. For me, to create decent work you have to cut out all the shite veneer of political correctness and other political and social follies and sensibilities and get down to your essence and that is rarely nice to look at, it is difficult to expose to the world and it is difficult for many to accept because on the whole you are holding up a mirror. But hey, that is just my point of view.

I drink good whiskey, smoke Cuban cigars and waste far too much time smoking dope in the local coffee shop and I know several women that model for me from time to time and yes we fuck and yes, they have nice tits.(just to remain on topic)




RUpainsmith -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 6:28:28 AM)

Truth:  a woman's breasts are not as important as her personality and how hard I can bite her.  Just seeing a naked woman with nice breasts does not make me want to jump her.   Biting those breasts may, depending how hard she can take the bite and how long the mark lasts.




TahoeSadist -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 7:26:17 AM)

How important to me? Zilch, zero, none, nada.......






LaTigresse -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 8:07:11 AM)

Okay, I am going to answer this even though it was addressed to men. I do have a certain affinity to the topic[:D]!

I am also an artist and I just love the female form, it is one of the most beautiful sights on this planet. Like someone else said, I cannot do much in the way of breast torture because it simply is not visually appealing to me. I don't get excited by grotesque.

As for how important they are to me to become arroused, not at all. I am weird in that I do not want any sex or play unless I care for the person. One part of her physical being does not create that emotional attachment I need.

This may sound contradictory but I will say that beautiful breasts attached to a woman I care for excite the hell out of me. The best way to describe it is the scene in the movie "Big" where Tom Hanks character first touchs the womans bra clad breast.

As far as breast type, I do not care for large at all. If a woman has implants, please please don't do the cheap pornstar variety. Myself, I would prefer anything over that look. If I was in a relationship with someone that felt they were too small I would do everything to convince them otherwise. It would depend on her needs and reasons as to wether I would allow implant surgery, I am a hard sell on that one.




mnottertail -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 8:09:53 AM)

I also wanna say that there are situations where it can be too much of a good thing, if you got 5 or 7 or something, you might wanna mention that.

Ron 




gretchenS -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 9:39:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Mgdartist - you remind me of my neighbour Adrian. He's an artist too, and could have spoken every word of your post.

Except he'd have been drunk.

Can I ask you, is heavy drinking and whatever prevalent in artists? I've discussed with Adrian this question and he reels off lists of artists who were alcoholics, drug users, violent and so on, which I put down to the temperament required to produce art being one of pain, anguish and rage.



I'm an artist/designer and earn a very decent living from it, though I'm not sure that it is any different from being a car mechanic, it takes all sorts. I know many artists and I can't say I have noticed a particular character trait and there is a lot of competition between artists as to whose work is more relevent. For me, to create decent work you have to cut out all the shite veneer of political correctness and other political and social follies and sensibilities and get down to your essence and that is rarely nice to look at, it is difficult to expose to the world and it is difficult for many to accept because on the whole you are holding up a mirror. But hey, that is just my point of view.



Before going to college and study design, I had (all my life) a constant flow of incredible inspiration to create all sorts of pieces (paintings, drawings, theatrical plays, written stories, short movies... you name it). When I passed my second year in college I realized this inspiration was gone. Most of my childhood and teenage years I was a very strange, not very social and very apathic girl, so to me life sucked in many ways. Art was a way for me to express my discontent, specially discontent towards society and the educational system. I had my inspiration taken and put on canvas from my anger. Now that life seems to not suck at all, I have low inspiration and no need to make art.

For many artists, the use of alcohol and drugs gives them a light sensation of creativity (I know this by experience) for 5 seconds. And being violent gives them a reason to be discontent towards whatever and have a little of inspiration, specially if they are in the art market and make art under pressure.




NobleOne -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 9:47:39 AM)

I would have to say. In my opinion breasts don't matter. I am a leg and ass man my self. Hope that helps.




LaTigresse -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 9:55:31 AM)

I totally missed the whole thing about artists. In my personal experience I don't see artists as being more prone to alchohol, drug abuse or a mental disorder.

I am an amateur artist and don't believe I have issues of that sort. I rarely get drunk, only drink several times a month even. I have never abused drugs, unless you count the occasional smokage of the herbage. I have never been treated for any mental illness OR had it suggested to me that I do so.

I know several people that are fortunate enough to make a living wage from their art and do not see any of the above in their behaviour either. I do think that artists of all sorts tend to be more sensitive sometimes. It is knowing how to deal with it and channel it, that is important.




meatcleaver -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 10:09:05 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gretchenS

For many artists, the use of alcohol and drugs gives them a light sensation of creativity (I know this by experience) for 5 seconds. And being violent gives them a reason to be discontent towards whatever and have a little of inspiration, specially if they are in the art market and make art under pressure.



Being angry with the world, being passionate about a woman or whatever does helps the creative juices to deliver under pressure. If you fail to deliver saleable items to your dealer, on time, you are dropped quicker than a hot iron and there is no fall back position. If you don't create a customer base (against contract and independant of a dealer) and have to rely on a dealer, you are literally as good as your last exhibition which is a very weak position to be in, the dealer literally has you by the short and curlies. Hell, that pisses me off without getting angry at the world.

To remain on thread, a nice couple of pair of tits is no compensation but they help.




pinkkeith -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 10:40:40 AM)

The size of a woman's breasts are not a very big deal to me. I am more attracted to a person's personality more so then their physical appearance.




meatcleaver -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 11:17:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pinkkeith

The size of a woman's breasts are not a very big deal to me. I am more attracted to a person's personality more so then their physical appearance.


That's what the majority say. Meanwhile psychologists insist we are interpreting all sorts of visual information about people, discriminating and making instant decisions on visual cues such as body shape, body language, looks and indeed other physical cues such as smell.

Perhaps we should tell all the universities that run these research programmes that they are wasting their time and money.




Bearlee -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 11:57:16 AM)

Well, I recently had a 'first' ...   I thought I'd met a really interesting man who I thought I'd gotten to know over the course of a couple months (phone calls, etc.)    When he asked me about breast size, I told him 38D. 
I'm 5' 8" and need to loose about 30# (which he had said was not a problem), but when he discovered my breast size he announced that, when I loose the weight...he'd be getting me a breast reduction.

I'm pretty edgy in my play...and rather thought mine were better for bondage, needles, whipping etc.  <shrugs>  Anyway...THAT guy apparently was quite serious.  When I discovered he likes Limbaugh, thinks Bush is a god and heard him make the comment "Every man needs a good woman, a good dog, and a Mexican"... I think my reaction made it clear we'd never work, anyway... 

Still, I've never been offered breast reduction surgery by someone I'd not even yet met!  It doesn't bother me...I won't date guys with kids at home, either.  We all have our squicks, huh?  LOL

bevelry




mgdartist -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 12:12:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Mgdartist - you remind me of my neighbour Adrian. He's an artist too, and could have spoken every word of your post.

Except he'd have been drunk.

Can I ask you, is heavy drinking and whatever prevalent in artists? I've discussed with Adrian this question and he reels off lists of artists who were alcoholics, drug users, violent and so on, which I put down to the temperament required to produce art being one of pain, anguish and rage.

Thanks
E

sorry for the hijack people. Well, I'm not really sorry, but one has to say so I guess.


Gotta love this forum and it's arrogant, presumptive, labeling, condescending core membership. As an artist I know our ideal role in society is that of the visionary who seeks to speak in the conversation which has been going on for centuries which is in its essence, the avant-garde. All my career I've had to nonetheless deal with the stigma's and stereotypes that very society seeks to impose on visial artists, nor do I villify you for doing so madame, as you are by far not the first. Granted, historically, many artists were known to be self-indulgent, compulsive and self-destructive, and I've learned that their personal predilictions and percieved character flaws were less than irrelevant to the legacy of their genius, which society usually vindictively refuses to recognize till they've passed. So it's always been, and their "pain, anguish and rage" simply called angst, can invariably be traced back to others like yourself, who see them as a threat or pariah, or who perhaps find their vision distasteful, or them personally, and justify judging them by identifying their character flaws and imperfections, and then reach their goal of being superior to them. It's an easy rationale.
But this is all academic, being a time honored tradition, so thanks for playing.
I have no need to defend myself, nor admit my personal imperfections here, knowing it would not make a dent in your preconceptions either way, of me or those like me, in the slightest.
You said my words reminded you of someone I doubt you fully approve of, and if not, you've shown your true colors, since it isnt your place to approve of him or me. And what any of this has to do with men's confessions on breasts, I have failed miserably to see.





MasterKalif -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 12:13:40 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gretchenS
Before going to college and study design, I had (all my life) a constant flow of incredible inspiration to create all sorts of pieces (paintings, drawings, theatrical plays, written stories, short movies... you name it). When I passed my second year in college I realized this inspiration was gone. Most of my childhood and teenage years I was a very strange, not very social and very apathic girl, so to me life sucked in many ways. Art was a way for me to express my discontent, specially discontent towards society and the educational system. I had my inspiration taken and put on canvas from my anger. Now that life seems to not suck at all, I have low inspiration and no need to make art.

For many artists, the use of alcohol and drugs gives them a light sensation of creativity (I know this by experience) for 5 seconds. And being violent gives them a reason to be discontent towards whatever and have a little of inspiration, specially if they are in the art market and make art under pressure.



gretchenS, I suspect that perhaps your inspiration could have been fuelled again recently by the "pinguin" protests? [;)] lol




slaveMastery -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 12:28:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mgdartist

Gotta love this forum and it's arrogant, presumptive, labeling, condescending core membership. As an artist I know our ideal role in society is that of the visionary who seeks to speak in the conversation which has been going on for centuries which is in its essence, the avant-garde. All my career I've had to nonetheless deal with the stigma's and stereotypes that very society seeks to impose on visial artists, nor do I villify you for doing so madame, as you are by far not the first. Granted, historically, many artists were known to be self-indulgent, compulsive and self-destructive, and I've learned that their personal predilictions and percieved character flaws were less than irrelevant to the legacy of their genius, which society usually vindictively refuses to recognize till they've passed. So it's always been, and their "pain, anguish and rage" simply called angst, can invariably be traced back to others like yourself, who see them as a threat or pariah, or who perhaps find their vision distasteful, or them personally, and justify judging them by identifying their character flaws and imperfections, and then reach their goal of being superior to them. It's an easy rationale.
But this is all academic, being a time honored tradition, so thanks for playing.
I have no need to defend myself, nor admit my personal imperfections here, knowing it would not make a dent in your preconceptions either way, of me or those like me, in the slightest.
You said my words reminded you of someone I doubt you fully approve of, and if not, you've shown your true colors, since it isnt your place to approve of him or me. And what any of this has to do with men's confessions on breasts, I have failed miserably to see.



Sorry, I just get back from trashing my studio and am too stoned and drunk to read your post...can you repost it with bigger letters and smaller words?

[grin]




mgdartist -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 12:35:46 PM)

LOL




RiotGirl -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 12:37:30 PM)

Well i like breasts too.......  and honestly i dont really care what they look like so long as they're breasts.  




pinkkeith -> RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! (11/30/2006 12:54:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

quote:

ORIGINAL: pinkkeith

The size of a woman's breasts are not a very big deal to me. I am more attracted to a person's personality more so then their physical appearance.


That's what the majority say. Meanwhile psychologists insist we are interpreting all sorts of visual information about people, discriminating and making instant decisions on visual cues such as body shape, body language, looks and indeed other physical cues such as smell.

Perhaps we should tell all the universities that run these research programmes that they are wasting their time and money.


Yes, you are right, we do make judgements on people based on visual and olfactory observations. I'm not saying that I'm outside of this norm, just that I put more emphasis on one's personality then on what they look like. I usually find that a positive personality produces a positive comliness. 




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