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Zensee -> RE: Higher Kink Levels? (12/1/2006 1:35:48 PM)

"I'm leavin' on a jet plane" ...tomorrow.

If I can find a spankable bottom at 35,000 feet would that be considered Mile High Kink Level?



pinkkeith -> RE: Higher Kink Levels? (12/1/2006 2:23:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy
Between Collarme and Max Fisch, I find Max Fisch more in tune with who I am.


Well I am not surprised, that is a site for fem doms and those who want female dominants.. this is a more inclusive site and caters to all orientations, I would probably not be as comfortable as you are since I am not looking for anything but friendship with females... but I certainly see the attraction for you...


I personally like to be a part of a diverse group. The best munches I have been to are the ones where it caters to everyone. You really start to know more about yourself talking to others who have a different view point or tastes from your own.



marieToo -> RE: Higher Kink Levels? (12/1/2006 3:14:37 PM)

I didn't see the post in question (nor can I speak for the author of it), but while reading the OP, I immediately got the impression that 'higher kink level'  was meant as 'more extreme'.  I think the word "higher" in some people's view could be construed to suggest superiority, or better than.  However, Given the forum, I'd guess that he wanted to discuss his interest in going further than he has before.. ie.... more risky, more edgey, more intense pain level, etc.  The term didn't strike me personally as having any competition or superiority to it. 



Morrigel -> RE: Higher Kink Levels? (12/1/2006 4:17:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

OK, someone made a comment on another thread and used the term 'higher kink levels'. I asked him to explain what that meant as I've never heard this term before, but he chose to ignore my question. What, exactly, is a higher kink level? Who determines what's higher and what's lower? Did I miss another memo or something?


I think the phrase is generally used to describe kinks which are increasingly less common or break progressively greater taboos of vanilla "normalcy".  Spanking and light bondage are very low kink level activities, which most vanilla couples have tried or will try eventually.

More extreme forms of sadism, anything that could be called "edgeplay", anything that involves excrement, urine, blood or vomit, and anything that violates a serious legal/sexual taboo like ageplay begins to climb higher up the kink ladder.  24/7 power exchange, permanent body modifications or cutting, are pretty high up the kink ladder.  Simulated rape and more extreme torture is also up there.

That's how I would use the words, anyway.

--M



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Higher Kink Levels? (12/1/2006 4:25:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Zensee
"I'm leavin' on a jet plane" ...tomorrow.

If I can find a spankable bottom at 35,000 feet would that be considered Mile High Kink Level?


If nothing else, it'll probably get you put on Homeland Security's No Fly List. [sm=lol.gif]



SirLordTrainer -> RE: Higher Kink Levels? (12/1/2006 4:31:13 PM)

Just tell em dont judge My kink and I wont judge yours.. otherwise, like The Offspring song says ''Gotta keep em seperated''



PsyVamp -> RE: Higher Kink Levels? (12/1/2006 5:28:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Morrigel

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

OK, someone made a comment on another thread and used the term 'higher kink levels'. I asked him to explain what that meant as I've never heard this term before, but he chose to ignore my question. What, exactly, is a higher kink level? Who determines what's higher and what's lower? Did I miss another memo or something?


I think the phrase is generally used to describe kinks which are increasingly less common or break progressively greater taboos of vanilla "normalcy".  Spanking and light bondage are very low kink level activities, which most vanilla couples have tried or will try eventually.

More extreme forms of sadism, anything that could be called "edgeplay", anything that involves excrement, urine, blood or vomit, and anything that violates a serious legal/sexual taboo like ageplay begins to climb higher up the kink ladder.  24/7 power exchange, permanent body modifications or cutting, are pretty high up the kink ladder.  Simulated rape and more extreme torture is also up there.

That's how I would use the words, anyway.

--M


M,
I think I agree with you on this, it would be my first impression although I did not read the thread. 
However, if I were to use a term like that, it would only be to tease/scare my sub boyfriend.

Damn Vampyre  [8D]



philosophy -> RE: Higher Kink Levels? (12/1/2006 5:43:21 PM)

.....i'm just waiting for ET:QW....counterstrike is sooooo yesterday


[;)]



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