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maybemaybenot -> RE: The first time (12/4/2006 7:35:09 PM)
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ORIGINAL: theRose4U
OK you do realize this goes against everything sane? You're damned lucky you walked out of there in one piece, many with this exact same scenario haven't. What would you have done if he walked up behind you blindfolded & hog tied you then took something perminant to your neck?
I agree, Rose. A few years ago, after months of chatting online, phone conversations so on and so forth, The opportunity arose for me to meet a Dominant I was very smitten with. He lived a distane away from me, but was coming here on a business trip, so we made arrangements to meet at his hotel for dinner. In the resturant, not his room. All went very well, his conversation captivated me, his look was very appealling to me, his sense of humor made me belly laugh at times and we had a lot on common.
After dinner we went out for a nice walk and returned to thehotel lounge for a drink. At that point he told me he would like me to go up to his room < handed me the key>, get undressed and be kneeling at the door waiting for his arrival. There had been no discussion of this and I politely declined.
I had this image running thru my head that I would be there kneeling and he would come thru the door with a gun or knife, not for play either.
I explained my reasons for declining and he was a perfect gentleman about it. But I still didn't do it.
To the OP: while the incidence of something catastrophic happening on a first meet is probably low, I just don't think it wise to take that chance. I can tell you that I would never have a first meet at my home or his home, always public. I am glad nothing bad happened to you. Just a few words from one who wants to see you stay safe.
mbmbn
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