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Driving Sir nuts - 2/14/2005 1:00:48 PM   
CuteNSassy


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From: Barrie
Status: offline 		Where should I start. Sir and I have been together for about 9 months, we have a great relationship for the most part... I am a sassy sub, but he likes that... Someday I just feel like crap and I don't want to do anything... I just want to be left alone... He trys to cuddle me make me feel better... Then there's other day where, I am just a plan old brat.... Now what I am getting to is, should I be disciplined for this, and if so HOW... I love spanking so that wont work... What kind of idea do you have for me and him.... Any idea's will do....

Thanks Cute
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RE: Driving Sir nuts - 2/14/2005 1:28:12 PM   
ruffnecksbabygir


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Status: offline 		hmmm, why don't you let him pick and choose your punishments...after all, who is the top and who is the bottom in your relationship? There are times i feel like crap, ie: this weekend, i have a cold, was with Master, just because i was feeling really bad did't give me any right to be bratty with Him or anything like that....maybe a bit whinny, i'll admit, but hey i am really sick! lol....anyhow, i know all relationships are different, Master and i have a Master/slave relationship, from your post i gather you are sub and dom? which ever the case may be, try giving up some of the control you are hanging on to, and allow yourself to be guided by him...if i misunderstood you post, forgive me. best of luck!

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RE: Driving Sir nuts - 2/14/2005 1:33:38 PM   
mistoferin


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Status: offline 		I have to agree with ruffnecksbabygirl. The Dominant should be the one to decide what types of punishments or discipline are required and when they are fitting.

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RE: Driving Sir nuts - 2/14/2005 2:07:26 PM   
RealityFix


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Status: offline 		Let him decide, it is not your place.


Were I him, I would make the punishment fit the crime. And it would always force you to recall, and avoid repeating your misdeeds,when you were tempted to misbehave once more.


< Message edited by RealityFix -- 2/14/2005 2:08:37 PM >

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RE: Driving Sir nuts - 2/14/2005 3:18:45 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		He should know you well enough to know your likes and dislikes. Punishment doesn't have to come in the form of play. You can clean the house from top to bottom with a toothbrush.
There are many idea's that come to my mind.
The only one to know what will and will not work though is he.

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RE: Driving Sir nuts - 2/14/2005 3:47:12 PM   
liltxsubby


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Status: offline 		I agree with what's already been said. Let him decide your punishment. I get a little on the bratty side myself from time to time, but my Dom likes it to an extent and at the right time. I'm learning to read him pretty well and know the signs of enough is enough. If i keep pushing beyond that, it's my own fault and i can be sure i will not like the consequences. Usually he starts counting and whatever number he gets to i get that many switches and hits with the belt, and they are not nice swats with warm-up either. Not to mention i beat myself up for not pleasing him which is worse thatn the pain but that a whole nother thread.

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RE: Driving Sir nuts - 2/14/2005 4:43:23 PM   
CuteNSassy


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Status: offline 		Thanks I think I really need to here that... I am a brat but I know he likes it... I think it's a game we play, how far I can push before punishment... But we need to find new ideas and that's why I posted here...

But I get it, I leave that too him...

Cute

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RE: Driving Sir nuts - 2/14/2005 6:22:46 PM   
Darthbetta


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Status: offline 		What is your "Sirs" screen name ? I'll mail him some EVIL suggestions.

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RE: Driving Sir nuts - 2/15/2005 8:25:51 AM   
Mercnbeth


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quote:

I think it's a game we play, how far I can push before punishment...


never understood punishment as a game, but whatever floats yer boat. obviously, u know Him better than we do, just do everything u know he doesn't like--how hard is that?

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RE: Driving Sir nuts - 2/15/2005 12:40:35 PM   
liltxsubby


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darthbetta

What is your "Sirs" screen name ? I'll mail him some EVIL suggestions.


ACK! i can only imagine what he might suggest. EVIL would be worse than plain ol evil? YIKES! mental note don't let Darthbetta know who my Dom is.

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