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RE: Weight - 12/1/2006 7:32:33 PM

Celeste43

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With the first pregnancy I couldn't deal with how much to gain per trimester. I asked the doctor each month how much I should be gaining.

With the second I was so bloated that if I made the mistake of crossing my legs it would take hours for the creases to disappear. A friend who was a nurse saw me during this part and demanded to know when my doctor had last checked my blood pressure, it had been that day and was 110 over 70, lower than before or after pregnancy.

There is no rhyme nor reason to the body's response. Nor to your emotional response. Ask your doctor and settle back for the rest of the roller coaster of pregnancy.

Good luck.

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RE: Weight - 12/1/2006 8:02:13 PM

lighthearted

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in addition to the really loving and concerned posts you have gotten, I'd like to add this: that having children means you lose a weensy bit of the control you have in your life...and this is just the beginning! seriously, pregnancy hormones are like an atomic cocktail, and you've already gotten the best advice you could possibly get. listen to your body, it knows what it needs for you to have a healthy baby. rest when you are tired, eat when you are hungry, cry when you feel like it. and the second you see your new baby's face, you will forget all about how awful you felt in the past 9 months.

good luck.

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RE: Weight - 12/1/2006 8:12:29 PM

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I tried to peek at your profile thinking there may be a photo there and that would allow me to see if it were probably you actually have a true weight issue, but it said profile not found? Maybe I'll try my luck later.

In any event, you are pregnant, and I think I recall other posts saying you have a lil one already, so did this happen in your other pregnancy/ies as well? Or this one is coming as a surprise?

If your lil one isn't a small child, maybe it's just that you're older now than you were the other time/s and so your body is reacting accordingly, much to your disappointment.

I've always been very on top of my weight, and I workout religiously and eat well, etc., etc., so I definitely understand the feelings you're having. The hormones can't be helping either, I know I gained 8lbs when i first went on the BCP and although everyone said it was only water weight and I would go back to normal once my body adjusted, it broke my heart and I felt too like I was getting fat, clothes fit differently, water weight or baby weight or whatefer it makes no difference, it's still weight, and still can make you feel badly.

I still remember feeling horrible about myself, and like you, I have nothing against overweight people, but for *ME* personally, I don't accept being overweight as an option if I can control it at all. So don't feel like a bad person!

My best guess is it's the hormones making you somewhat body dysmorphic and you're seeing yourself much differently than others are, in hindsight I can see now that I definitely did this myself.

Tisktisk for your dom though, on the other hand in his defense, men just don't seem to understand this, must be a woman thing lol So i'm sure he didn't mean to make you feel badly, and talking it out sounds like a good idea, but try not to take his "jokes" to heart, it's almost guaranteed he really is just joking and you're as stunning to him now as you ever were.

Congrats on the lil one on the way

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RE: Weight - 12/1/2006 8:19:46 PM

SlaveAkasha

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I must admit, I have had a huge fight with weight my whole life. I have had all the wonderful eating disorders that exist. Right now though, I would give all the money I have to be able to gain the weight you are, for the reason you are. The test was negative.

I know it's hard, but try to just remember why you are gaining it and what a blessing that reason is to you.

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RE: Weight - 12/1/2006 8:23:18 PM

Quivver

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Awe Riot, You'll be Ok.... like some have said, your a weee with no place to hide it. Collecting water happens, just make sure your eating right and keep a good watch on the blood pressure!

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RE: Weight - 12/2/2006 7:46:53 AM

RiotGirl

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Thank you thank you thank you!! I appreciate you all lifting me up yesterda. Got to the doctor today and everything is perfect. Everything is right on course - and my wieght. I've actually gained alot LESS then what i thought.. only 7 lbs... so i am definetly not going to stress about it and just enjoy.....

eating... lol

Thank you!

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RE: Weight - 12/2/2006 7:48:52 AM

RiotGirl

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awwwwwwwwww i'm sorry Akasha = ( i know how that feels.

You can try this.. i was actually starting to think i "didnt" want to worry about getting pregnant anymore. So after intercourse, i went into the bathroom and douched. First time i've ever done that. Thinking i'd "clean out"

what i forgot to take into notice was that douching actually shoves everything in your vagina up into your uterus. So.. lol.. you might want to try that?

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RE: Weight - 12/13/2006 5:11:08 AM

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**soft smile** hugs... your expecting a baby? how wonderful is that.. your emotions will be bouncing off the wall, up and down and sometimes sideways... i do understand your appearance means alot to you... please keep expressing your feelings to your Dom, He will understand... personally, i would start out my conversation, with... i am really upset about... and say i need Your help... after the baby is born, you will have your sexy body back... i can't say for sure, but a lot of Doms would find this time, a new experience to enjoy what belongs to Him...

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