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Admirers List - 12/1/2006 11:22:23 AM   
ToGiveDivine


Posts: 650
Status: offline 		Has anyone else been added to someone's Admirer List and have wondered why in the world they added you to their list?

I've had one Domme who is no longer looking add me, I've had one half a country away add me, but only wants local subs, and then there is one who only wants female subs add me.

To top it off, none of them ever even sent an email.  From their profiles, I'm not even what they are looking for, so why add me to their list?

Just doesn't make any sense ...


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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 11:29:48 AM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		they are probably using you to point out to their icky mailers what should be on a profile of proclivity?  How the fuck should we know?
LOL,
Ron

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 11:30:21 AM   
slaveMastery


Posts: 77
Joined: 11/20/2006
Status: offline 		I did not initially realize that adding someone to my favorites list would be something that they could see and have since removed all profiles I had listed there for later review and revisitation.

Maybe either 1) they did not get a chance yet to revisit your profile or 2) you are just such a hottie that they cannot refrain from looking at your pic!?

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 11:30:36 AM   
NeedToUseYou


Posts: 2297
Joined: 12/24/2005
From: None of your business
Status: offline 		I don't know, I think people use it as a bookmark then forget it's there. I have dommes on their(not a sub here), that I've never spoken to, and I remember one was from half way around the planet. Anyway, I put no value on the fact someone is in the list. It could be anything.

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 11:33:21 AM   
ToGiveDivine


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

they are probably using you to point out to their icky mailers what should be on a profile of proclivity?  How the fuck should we know?
LOL,
Ron


Great, if you don't know, then no one has the answer for me 

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 11:34:43 AM   
ToGiveDivine


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ORIGINAL: slaveMastery

I did not initially realize that adding someone to my favorites list would be something that they could see and have since removed all profiles I had listed there for later review and revisitation.

Maybe either 1) they did not get a chance yet to revisit your profile or 2) you are just such a hottie that they cannot refrain from looking at your pic!?


That's the funniest damn comment I've seen posted on this forum for months - thanks for the great laugh on that one

< Message edited by ToGiveDivine -- 12/1/2006 11:35:11 AM >

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 11:41:45 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		Cuz they want to?  Does it really matter?

They saw your profile, saw something that interested them enough to bookmark them and then moved on. 

You can look at their profile and do the same if you wish.

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 12:01:10 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


Posts: 10238
Joined: 8/21/2006
From: Reed City, Michigan
Status: offline 		maybe they saw something about you that they liked and moved on..never taking the time to remove you..who knows..

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 12:53:19 PM   
sub4hire


Posts: 6775
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Why don't you mail some of them and ask them?  That way we all have some sort of answers.  A lot of people have me on their list....never spoken to any of them.

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 2:09:05 PM   
LadyEllen


Posts: 10931
Joined: 6/30/2006
From: Stourport-England
Status: offline 		I have a long list of people showing in my list - I didnt add any of them, so I guess they are volunteering for it. Which is really odd on one hand, and on the other really annoying 'cause they're all in the US.

One name I dont notice there though, is TGD himself.

What's up with that?

E

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 2:23:20 PM   
ToGiveDivine


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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

I have a long list of people showing in my list - I didnt add any of them, so I guess they are volunteering for it. Which is really odd on one hand, and on the other really annoying 'cause they're all in the US.

One name I dont notice there though, is TGD himself.

What's up with that?

E


I don't email without permission, nor do I add to favorites without permission - not only would it seem bad form for a sub to do such things, but it's not very gentlemanly or respectful either.

From some of the posts I've seen - the W/women on this site have received more than their fair share of troll-mail to last them several lifetimes.

So don't feel bad, I have no one on my favorites list and I haven't emailed anyone that hasn't emailed me first, Domme or sub.

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 2:25:12 PM   
Lordandmaster


Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline 		I just assume they're women who want my schlong.

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 2:37:53 PM   
LadyEllen


Posts: 10931
Joined: 6/30/2006
From: Stourport-England
Status: offline 		Hey - I like it. Very good for the ego, and for the maintenance of my high arrogance factor, which has been developed from my former mere disdain, through ignoring such people.

But I wouldnt ignore you TGD. You're too intriguing.

E

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 2:43:07 PM   
jdtallfem


Posts: 180
Joined: 10/8/2006
Status: offline 		I like it, too.  I figure maybe they're too far away and know it, or for whatever reason they admire me, but it just isn't possible for a relationship.  So enjoy your admirer list!  I, for one, consider it great fun to watch it grow.

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 2:49:39 PM   
slaveMastery


Posts: 77
Joined: 11/20/2006
Status: offline 		Hmmmphhh.

So should I be depressed not to have admirers...or elated not to have stalkers?

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 2:53:53 PM   
RiotGirl


Posts: 3149
Status: offline 		the only person who wants your schlong LaM is the elephant in your pic

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 2:56:29 PM   
Lordandmaster


Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline 		I'm not one to kiss and tell, but I could name a few names and you'd swoon.

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 3:14:07 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


Posts: 144
Joined: 8/1/2006
Status: offline 		mnottertail...ya just crack me up on all your posts...i so enjoy reading the stuff all y'all write....
ive got a few admirers..but have spoken to maybe two of them..ive added only four on my list~all for various ideas they have written in their profiles..points of reference for me that i find that i want in a Dominant...if i could roll em all up in one..well, He'd be wonderful!
ive learned alot from reading and re-reading their profiles..stuff about the "lifestyle" is really new to me and well, they seem sane and more or less like the same things i do..i didnt add them for their looks but for their words..
i have NO CLUE why im on so many....

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RE: Admirers List - 12/1/2006 4:41:46 PM   
krikket


Posts: 1183
Joined: 11/17/2004
From: Washington, DC Metro Area
Status: offline 		i'm on a few lists, and have a few on mine.  i've added to my own either because we're corresponding and it's a good shortcut to their profile, or i find something inspirational, touching. educating, or just plain funny..lol..

i've tried to use the blocked feature when someone became overwhelming or just icky, but i'm nosy enough to want to know what they might be saying..lol.

cheers,
jimini

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RE: Admirers List - 12/2/2006 2:55:36 AM   
Siona


Posts: 242
Joined: 10/5/2006
Status: offline 		I'm all of a sudden feeling very left out!

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