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i need a line to get the message across - 2/14/2005 9:37:50 PM

scarletribbon

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ok simple question, any ideas appreciated......how do i say to a guy who really thinks his c*ck is the best thing going and that all women want him, simply because he has shown it a few times on the net lol, how do i say to him that he really isnt all that, that he has been showing off etc etc , in a mistress to sub way?? does this make sense? tell me if it doesnt please, im tired. cheers for your help

x scarlet

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/14/2005 9:43:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: scarletribbon
..how do i say to a guy who really thinks his c*ck is the best thing going and that all women want him, simply because he has shown it a few times on the net lol, how do i say to him that he really isnt all that
x scarlet

I met a guy like that recently, VERY immature, and very proud of his appendage, which was okay... I dropped my guy because he wasn't of much use to me if he wasn't mature enough to have much conversation outside of macho (as in is this the best), since I'm not looking for that specifically; Yours, maybe suggest he tone down the macho act or beat him when he shows that lack of tact/class?
That's all i've got, LOL... M

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/14/2005 10:15:58 PM

MsSilvie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: scarletribbon

ok simple question, any ideas appreciated......how do i say to a guy who really thinks his c*ck is the best thing going and that all women want him, simply because he has shown it a few times on the net lol, how do i say to him that he really isnt all that, that he has been showing off etc etc , in a mistress to sub way?? does this make sense? tell me if it doesnt please, im tired. cheers for your help

x scarlet

Maybe you could clarify a little, are you interested in staying in contact with him? Is this someone you know in rl or just online? If it's just online, I've found that constantly telling them to "wait a sec, I need to talk to someone here..." seems to get the point across.

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/15/2005 2:33:41 AM

scarletribbon

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hi to clarify, the guy is in RL. he was my first sub, hes also a friend. now hes off on this crusade of showing off and thinking no other man is as good as his. not appropriate for a sub need i say.

we used to have play sessions, him as sub until late summer last year. things just got hectic with work and life so i had to put it on hold, only now much to his surprise i want to ressurect mistress from the ashes and see what his reaction will be.

not necessarily to go back to what we had, but at least to make him e feel that he is sub again and mistress doesnt take kindly to him being such a show off lol. i want to gain a bit of power back, i feel like he's got on this plateau of LOOK AT THIS LADIES, and yeah ok, not bad to look it but i've seen better, and id like to scare the crap out of him by droppping him an email from the hybernating mistress.

does that help. hope so, so i kinda need all the help i can get

cheers x scarlet

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/15/2005 8:16:13 AM

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"I had thought that, now that I have a bit more time to devote to BDSM, I might like to re-establish that kind of relationship with you. However, in seeing your current predisposition with your appendage, I find myself wondering if it would be worth the trouble.

I used to enjoy our time together. I don't know what's happened to you, but now you're just a cock. What happened to you and what did you do with my friend (and the wonderful submissive he used to be)?"

Would that help?

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/15/2005 3:22:10 PM

happypervert

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So he thinks he is endowed with a magnificent staff of manhood and you'd like to deflate him a bit?

Tell him it is cute . . . and maybe even tie a ribbon on it
or that he is hung like a . . . (let him expect horse and then say) . . . boy

or perhaps treat him like a sissy, make him wear panties. The more he acts like a big dick, treat him even more like a girl

Hey, just tossing out ideas here. I do not claim they are good ideas.

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/15/2005 5:05:13 PM

sub4hire

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Well if it is all that, how come he is still alone and searching?

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/15/2005 6:03:45 PM

MizSuz

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make him wear panties. The more he acts like a big dick, treat him even more like a girl

I used to see a guy that could never come right out and say "Mistress, may we please play with me wearing lingerie" or the like. He just kept bringing it up in round about ways. "You know, I have some lingerie I got from...." "Mistress, if you ever want to, I could bring my own lingerie" "Mistress, I look pretty good in lingerie." BLECK. The more he brought it up the more I ignored it.

Perhaps six months after he started seeing me (he was a once a weeker) I got sick of the not so subtle subtlties and said "bring your lingerie next week." When he brought them I was only interested in the panties. I made him wear them on his head for the entire session and teased him for looking a fool and thinking he was smart about trying to manipulate a domina.

He told me many months later that he REALLY HATED me that day.

He even said when he left he wasn't sure he'd ever come back (riiiiiight).

He did stop trying to maneuver me, though. Mission accomplished.

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/15/2005 6:57:27 PM

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HA!

Beautiful Suz... just Beautiful.

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/15/2005 7:13:16 PM

onceburned

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ORIGINAL: MizSuz

He did stop trying to maneuver me, though. Mission accomplished.

Hmmm... that's a lesson I will have to remember. Don't try to manipulate the domme.

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/15/2005 7:45:57 PM

MaitresseEden

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Boy do I know the type.. I pop in a video tape on how to be a better lover and make them watch it. I say just be direct. I tell them, I care more about the length of your tongue and the ability to breath through your ears then your cock. Not that it doesn't have its purpose. Or better yet, I say afterwards. "that needs improvement" or I've seen better. Often time those who Brag the most are the most insecure, and are doing so to mask the pain they feel so be careful what you say. However, I find the line that works best is simply to ask. "Who told you that you were all that?" or What happened to give you the impression that woman are impressed by this behavior? That usually shuts them up real quick.

Ms. Eden

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/15/2005 8:14:07 PM

sterlingsweet

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Convince him to play exclusively with you for
a month and then lock him in a chastity belt.
Don't let him out, until he understands how
immature he is acting.

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/16/2005 3:08:58 PM

sting516

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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden

Or better yet, I say afterwards. "that needs improvement" or I've seen better.

well....ouch

Often time those who Brag the most are the most insecure, and are doing so to mask the pain they feel so be careful what you say.

while i don't think of myself as a braggart (spelling?), i can be thought of as insecure sometimes...so i do really agree...know who You're saying this to, because it can cause a bit of psych damage.

Ms. Eden

as always, your mileage may vary

sting

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/16/2005 7:58:31 PM

scarletribbon

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all very fabulous, i sit here with a smirk across my face, i think you're fab. would adore to see him in panties, that would make my day, not sure about the insults id get after the line ' and if you think im wearing those', hes a very on the egde sub, he knows what he wants and try to manipulate me into giving it, hes been very clever. just thought it was time to show him who is dom in all this.

so yes im picking up some great stuff here from all of you , cheers for that and if i get anywhere bringing down the beast i will let you know. be good now ...xxxx scarlet ( off to buff the boots up)

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 2/17/2005 6:51:04 PM

BeachMystress

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*smiles* First off, remind him that people on the net are there for fantasy.. They like the fantasy that his cock is adequate. It doesn't mean it is. At the moment, they just don't have another cock to look at. Also, in the fantasy vein, a lot of the "women" who watch cams online.. are MALE. They find that men will not let other men watch, so they make up fake IDs. Any "woman" who jumps on a cam is probably a man. Ask him how he feels that so many men have enjoyed playing with themselves watching him jack off.

Also, perhaps mention that some women (waves to Jules) like men with smaller cocks. A cruel way to drive the point home a bit further is to ask him if he was in the small cock appreciation room. *evil grin*

If this man has a substandard penis and isn't overly submissive, why do you want him? As a Domme, even a newbie, you're worth more than some jerk who doesn't respect you. How about trying a few munches and getting into the local scene. You'll probably find a lot better is to be had!
http://www.newcastlemunch.co.uk/
http://www.munchinfo.co.uk/places.html

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 3/1/2005 2:28:39 AM

scarletribbon

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"If this man has a substandard penis and isn't overly submissive, why do you want him? As a Domme, even a newbie, you're worth more than some jerk who doesn't respect you. How about trying a few munches and getting into the local scene. You'll probably find a lot better is to be had! "

well you just made me smile, what a great way of putting it. I've begun to feel that this guy just aint playing the sub anymore, and he has done it finally now, after letting me down yet again, even if it wasnt for play but for just a friend visit. ive had it with him, i dont even see that hes worth of my services anymore. his loss. and infact i have befriended a so far fabulous new sub friend, who is looking very promising and isnt so up on his own penis size that he thinks more of me than of himself, unlike mr donkey dick, the ex subby!!

reading all this just gets my mind in perspective that this has to be about the right thing and not a sub manipulating me into giving whathe wants and when he wants it. which is what it turned out to be. i give up on that and i strut about feeling that i can still be scarlet and dismiss such petulant behaviour. grins to oneself as i remember the converstaion i had lastnight with my new contact....whooooohoooooo......<smirk>..cheers everyone, appreciate it all.

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 3/1/2005 6:00:58 AM

GddssBella

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*chuckles.... hands scarlet her "Ms. Bitch" pin.....*

Welcome to the club ducky! I caught this thread at the end. The progression was amusing & inspiring. Glad to see you pulled those boot straps up & got your wings back. More power to you lil sister.

If the little boy annoys you again, I have a saucy little rejoinder you can ~shoot~ his way... Look @ the aforementioned tiny tool & smirk, saying: "I don't do miniatures or charity." Should deflate that ego a notch... Although, I like Beach's suggestion too, lol.

Stay safe all, play nice, & share your toys w/ others.....

Bella

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 3/1/2005 8:00:52 AM

SecretDomme

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MizSuz

"I had thought that, now that I have a bit more time to devote to BDSM, I might like to re-establish that kind of relationship with you. However, in seeing your current predisposition with your appendage, I find myself wondering if it would be worth the trouble.

I used to enjoy our time together. I don't know what's happened to you, but now you're just a cock. What happened to you and what did you do with my friend (and the wonderful submissive he used to be)?"

Would that help?

Bravo :-) I've always been annoyed with online profiles featuring "cock shots". Makes me wonder what their self-worth is if they feel that their cock is the only thing they have to offer me.

Be well,
Julie

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 3/1/2005 1:36:28 PM

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Mistress, i don't know who you are writting to but the only way a man is useful to a Mistress is if he has her chain locked around his balls. then he has to do what she says and do what she says. if by any chance you live in north central texas or southern okla. i would love ot here from you and maybe serve you
imurs2use at hotmail.com or imurs2use at yahoo.com
sorry for butting in Mistress

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RE: i need a line to get the message across - 3/1/2005 3:56:08 PM

SecretDomme

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ORIGINAL: IMURS2USE

Mistress, i don't know who you are writting to but the only way a man is useful to a Mistress is if he has her chain locked around his balls. then he has to do what she says and do what she says. if by any chance you live in north central texas or southern okla. i would love ot here from you and maybe serve you
imurs2use at hotmail.com or imurs2use at yahoo.com
sorry for butting in Mistress

Please keep in mind, IMURS2USE, that what you state here is your idea of "the only way a man is useful to a Mistress".

Be well,
Julie

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