TPEOwner -> RE: attracting a Master.... (12/3/2006 7:20:07 PM)
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ORIGINAL: atendersoul I have only been under One until His death in 2000.....if we had private get togethers or within a club..He would permit me to being used by anOther.... what could anyone suggest that is the main attraction on online searching for a Master? I can only answer for what attracts me... Be open and honest. Don't bestow respect on me that I haven't earned from you. Unearned respect means nothing. Speak English. Talikng in third person, gorish, or W/writing L/like T/this, tells me that the writer and I have little in common. Don't demean yourself. I know very few dominants, and none who I consider worthy of the term, who seek worthless women. Humiliation and degredation can be a very powerful form of play, but are not something I would base a relationship on. I want the best, not the worst. Don't be overly defensive. It's a lesson I had to learn myself. We've all had to deal with idiots, but being too cautious is only going to keep potentially good partners away, and won't deter the idiots. Have perspective. Being kept chained and naked 24/7 isn't realistic for very many. We live in, and must interact with the vanilla world on a regular basis, and speaking for myself, that's not an undesirable thing. I enjoy my vanilla life just as much as my bdsm life, and seek a partner who will fit into both worlds. Good luck in your search.
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