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Ignorance - 12/3/2006 12:24:20 PM   
servussemper


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Status: offline 		Is it just me or are a lot of trolls/men Masters/Doms fakes just not reading the whole profile, today I got into it with a Dominant who entered with a very rude and disrespectful I thought phrase that just kinda ruined my afternoon.
 
quote:

"Are you alone now? Are you playing with that wet hot cunt of yours?"

 
Which I asked my Master if I had permission to reply to and he answered yes due to the fact that my profile is very specific in what I am looking for and what my Master has allowed me to look for. I was polite in my reply explaining that not only was I owned, but asking him if he had read my entire profile. He once more replied with something rude.
 
quote:

Yes I did read it and I think you should reread it. What a dumb ----

 
I then replied with:
 
quote:

One my profile says, I am owned. Two my profile says that POSSIBLY Cyber or Phone in the Far future. It does not say today or upon meeting. Three Those things are only done with my Master's permission and I'm sorry you do not have it. Four It's a wonder you haven't found a submissive or slave to serve your needs if you are as rude and disrespectful as you were in these two emails to me. You need to read people's profile's better. My Master is looking for a Online trainer, he isn't looking to Whore his slave out to any man that walks along. It's an Application process one that is going to take awhile due to the fact that I am a prized possession of his.

 
To which he came back with.
 
quote:

You really are dumber than a brick

 
I then preceded to ignore him, and he replied once more to inform me that he was going to block me which was no skin off my tush. I guess the reason I came here is to ask, does anyone else have this problem. Is there something wrong with my profile that may have stated or called upon this person to completely break down my barriers? Is there anyway that I can reformat my profile to better state what I am in need of or looking for so it doesn't make people like this assume that I am a whore? Or am I completely off my rocker?
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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 12:44:46 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		If I received an email like that I would have ignored it, as it would be irrelevant to me.  Why would a stranger ruin your afternoon?  Why are you engaging in an argument with a complete stranger?  Why is this important enough to disturb you?  When you can answer these questions for yourself, you will begin to see that this person has succeeded in completely shifting your focus away from your primary obligation - which is to serve your Master.

To answer your question overall, yes, lots of people receive mail from idiots who are trying to get attention.  Your profile did not ask anyone to break down your barriers - you let them down all on your own.

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 1:25:44 PM   
MmakeMme


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From: NC
Status: offline 		I got some communications from a particular "Dom" who were far ruder than that. I sent this person a message to say that his troll was rude. This "Dom" wrote back an even more horrid e-mail. I told my Sir and my Sir contacted this person to explain that I answer to Him, and did not wish further contact.

That started a flurry of unbelievable e-mail from this other person, and my Sir told me to ignore him. I did and the mails finally tapered off. Then, from out of the blue, he mailed me again - unBElievable, I thought, so I sent him an explicit three-word response. Yikes. I disobeyed my Sir. I don't like blocking people because it is usually sufficient to say "Thanks but no thanks" and I didn't want to appear a coward who runs from an idiot. Just my thing.

I'm with you on this. Suffice it to say your unwanted one culled himself from your herd. Good to know who the undesirables are before they become too much of a problem.

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 1:45:51 PM   
RedSavageSlave


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Personally, I like to play with dumbshits like this.. for me..its about the "amusement factor"..how far can you plumb the depths of THEIR stupidity before they realize just how stupid they really are?

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 1:52:07 PM   
GoreanGuy


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Status: offline 		 I have to say, I am happy to see that you handled that very maturely.  and am proud of you.
just so every one else is up to speed I am sort of helping her out keeping her in line when He (her owner) can't.

< Message edited by GoreanGuy -- 12/3/2006 2:07:14 PM >

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 2:09:00 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

just so every one else is up to speed I am sort of helping her out keeping her in line when He (her owner) can't.


Do you encourage her to engage in conversation with goofballs?  How proud her owner must be of you.  And her.


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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 2:09:12 PM   
mistoferin


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Status: offline 		Well I don't know if you're off you're rocker but I do know that you have now spent an entire afternoon in service to an idiot. Why you would do that I do not know. This man did not deserve even one second more of your time than the time it took you to read his initial e-mail and delete it. But you decided that he was important enough to actually compose a response to him, read at least two more emails from him, toss him around in your head for a good part of the afternoon and create an entire thread in his honor. I guess the question I would be asking myself is why.

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 2:11:20 PM   
GoreanGuy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Do you encourage her to engage in conversation with goofballs?  How proud her owner must be of you.  And her.


uh NO I do not, I had no idea it was happening until it was done     

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 2:16:10 PM   
blkqueen48


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Status: offline 		it could go on forever

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 2:16:43 PM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoreanGuy

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Do you encourage her to engage in conversation with goofballs?  How proud her owner must be of you.  And her.


uh NO I do not, I had no idea it was happening until it was done     



Well don't you think that the public patting on the head while saying "good girl" might be taken as encouragement for future behavior? Sorry, but I didn't see her response as the "mature" way to handle things or as something to be proud of. Obviously you did as you validated it....and praised her for it.

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When you make a habit of playing on the tracks, you thereby forfeit the right to bitch when you get hit by a train.

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 2:42:16 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Unfortnately this being a public message board it attracts alot of rude assholes. When you run across dumbasses like this you shouldn't even have to consult anyone but YOURSELF. Stop communicationing with them from the first insult and block them, it really does block out their "noise".

Good luck,
~Lashra


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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 2:55:57 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear servussemper, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
In my personal experiences in forums, chat rooms and even face to face discussions; one must understand that each one of us has an opinion.
 
Our (in a general sense) opinion is as common as a mouth and a poop chute.  The mouth and the external chute that expells waste; can come in many sizes and shapes.  Unfortunately, some individuals have to eat their words and the flow continues with no added supliments needed such as Ex-Lax or Flack-seed.  Of course, some expelling is aided by the oil which makes it a real 'slick' effect but--it all comes in a cycle.  What goes in--must go out but, sometimes there is confusion when the out chute and contents are shoved inward and no where to go, expells out from the oral end of things.  Makes one understand why at one time there was an oral thermometer and a rectal thermometer.
 
My personal sympathy is with the four legged ass, as a spiecies to be associated with the rump end of a human.  (I think four legged rear parts are far cuter...must be the tail).
 
Respectfully submitted with a wee bit of humor,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 3:22:41 PM   
amaidiamond


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Joined: 2/6/2006
From: Watford / London
Status: offline 		Would suggest next time deleting it and moving on, rude, obnoxious attention seeking assholes are 10 a penny and responding to them only gives them the attention they crave and encorages them.

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 3:26:37 PM   
MisPandora


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From: Philadelphia, PA
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

Well I don't know if you're off you're rocker but I do know that you have now spent an entire afternoon in service to an idiot. Why you would do that I do not know. This man did not deserve even one second more of your time than the time it took you to read his initial e-mail and delete it. But you decided that he was important enough to actually compose a response to him, read at least two more emails from him, toss him around in your head for a good part of the afternoon and create an entire thread in his honor. I guess the question I would be asking myself is why.

*nods* and created to demonstrate what?  That a slave has nothing better to do than to give its time to ignorant strangers who disrespect an owner's property?  Perhaps some lessons in time management, or protecting one's personal boundaries might be in order.......

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 3:29:38 PM   
SamKeithsslave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave

(fast reply)

Personally, I like to play with dumbshits like this.. for me..its about the "amusement factor"..how far can you plumb the depths of THEIR stupidity before they realize just how stupid they really are?


Yep, it can be amusing, sometimes. If I have time to "play with the trolls" I will, its how I got my nicname on one newsgroup - trollminator - LOL. You just need to make sure when playing that you dont let your guard down and let them get to you. Also I figure all the while they are hassling me they are leaving someone else, who may not be able to let their insults flow off their backs, alone
As for the OP? I'd not worry about it, from what you have said your profile (didnt read it for myself) seems to be ok. Maybe yours is one of the emails sent out by another poster here who is complaining no-one is responding and wondering why?

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 3:35:34 PM   
AquaticSub


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Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline 		My advice? Snark it.

Maybe I'm cynical but I take all the dumb, obsence and rude messages I get here and snark them on a different online community and with my friends. It turns something that would have raised your blood pressure into something funny that lowers it!

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 4:43:27 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		She's got an owner, and another guy to help her out (who encourages her and says it's a GOOD thing to get involved in pointless cyber crap for a whole afternoon and then let everyone on the boards know about it), and she STILL can't handle deleting crap emails on her own?

However does she even manage to go out in public?

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 5:09:44 PM   
GoreanGuy


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Status: offline 		Albatross and erin,  I do not condone what she has done by feeding the troll and the conversation. her OWNER told her that she could reply to him and thats what she did, she could have gone off on him and tore his ass a new one, but she has more respect for people then that.

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 5:19:59 PM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoreanGuy

Albatross and erin,  I do not condone what she has done by feeding the troll and the conversation. her OWNER told her that she could reply to him and thats what she did, she could have gone off on him and tore his ass a new one, but she has more respect for people then that.


I'm sorry, I must be mistaken.....but I could have sworn that was you that just gave her public praise and approval for the way she handled it..........

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~erin~

There are no victims here...only volunteers.

When you make a habit of playing on the tracks, you thereby forfeit the right to bitch when you get hit by a train.

"I did it! I admit it and I'm gonna do it again!"

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RE: Ignorance - 12/3/2006 5:26:20 PM   
GoreanGuy


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Status: offline 		erin I am not going to sit here and argue with a sub about anything

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