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sugaryslave -> X-mas (12/3/2006 12:41:18 PM)
What does one do for her Master for Christmas? I want to do something special for him, so any ideas would be appreciated (we do not live together).

Mysti -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 12:46:20 PM)
I asked my Dom what sort of gifts he would like and then went from there. I just happened to get lucky that later in a conversation we had he mentioned that he really had wanted to buy an mp3 player but had just had to replace his computer. I I did some research and found a nice one that not only plays music but also is a flash drive and voice recorder. perfect for him. So talk to him and see what he would like or needs and then make it personal and special :)

sugaryslave -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 12:48:38 PM)
He told me not to buy anything. He says a slave should do something for her Master. This is where I'm stuck with no ideas. Any other ideas?

BitaTruble -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 12:49:05 PM)
You can make him a new toy, give him a coupon book with lots of kinky things in it that he likes (or mundance things you'll do for him, like come over just to iron his clothes, wash his car, etc), give him a basket filled up with consumables (bandaids, gauze, toothpicks, duct tape, saran wrap etc.), present him with baked goods in the shape of dungeon stuff or things like handcuffs and blindfolds .. whatever you decide to do for him you can wrap a big red ribbon around yourself (don't forget the bow!) and present 'you' to him as part of his present. Celeste

DiurnalVampire -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 12:55:50 PM)
My christmas present from Angel is going to have to wait until I move, but it is going to be my first weekend out there of absolute pampering. Breakfast in bed, all the chores done without my having to tell him so, he's making lunch (and if its warm enough we are going to make it a picnic), we are going to take pictures together which I have been after him to do with me for some time, and I am getting my first massage and manicure/pedicure. I suppose one question that wil help a bit is, since you dont live together, ar you going to be able to be physically together for Christmas, or are you trying to think of something you can do from a distance? DV

sugaryslave -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 12:58:26 PM)
Thanks. We will be together for christmas.

darksdesire -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 1:05:15 PM)
Give him a luxurious bath...dim the lights, light the candles, put on lovely music, use aromatherapy soaps and bath salts, wash his hair, using a pitcher so he doesn't have to go under the water. Wash his body, with the intention of loving every inch of his skin. After, give him a long long message.

LadyHugs -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 1:29:32 PM)
Dear sugaryslave, Ladies and Gentlemen; Sounds like your Owner is like me--I don't want slaves spending money on me when they need it to save for life and or future. That said, having my slave making cookies was a surprise. Of course it was from scratch as pre-made dough wasn't available then. Another surprise was a phone call with reverse charges. Another sweet gift was hand carved cane. Another pleasure was receiving candles made from the collected wax during wax play and calling it a 'slave's candle' as his skin was mixed with the wax, and like his heart burned brightly for me. One of my slaves took some used horse shoes and made a whip rack for me. I'm sure you will come up with something most clever. The main thing is that it comes from the heart--not from China. Respectfully submitted for consideration, Lady Hugs

MmakeMme -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 4:20:56 PM)
Make Him small gifts and give to Him throughout the day (or days) when you are together. Write a love letter on pretty stationary and scent it with what will remind Him of you. Purchase a journal (or a notebook) and begin journalling now, telling Him that you will keep writing in it until it fills up, and that when it is full it will be His to keep. (That way, you have a reminder of your Christams together each time you write in it, you know you have a piece of Him throughout the rest of the year). Read Him a poem that speaks to you. Make up a board or card game to play together (and you make the pieces, the board, and the rules). Make a gingerbread man in His likeness. Burn Him a cd of songs that remind you of Him. And oh! The favorite gift I ever made someone! A Magic 8 Box! You can get these little brown boxes at a craft store for about .50. Paint it black, paint a white circle on the top and paint an 8 in the white circle. On strips of paper, write silly answers that would be appropriate for any yes / no question, like "What am I? A fortune cookie?" or "Yes Sir. Of course you're right, Sir." Fill that box UP with those little slips. It's fun to lie in bed together and play with it. Lots of laughs (and lots of cuddling and connecting).

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 4:38:19 PM)
YOu'll know better than anyone. I celebrate Hannaukah with one of my partners so I tend to get him a variety of gifts to give throughout the holiday- this year includes chocolate, a ticket to a concert, a magazine subscription, a leather hat, and a guitar crystal figurine. For my other partner, we simply celebrate "the season" since our families are christian but neither of us are. I'm getting him an ottoman, a dremel, some chocolates and a crystal game board. Getting someone for your master isn't any different than getting something for someone else, unless you've been ordered not to or need to ask permission to get something first. Go with what they are interested in, what they will use and what you want to give.

ownedgirlie -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 4:39:26 PM)
I always try to do something personal. Last year I had a graphic image made of the insignia he created and tattoo'd on me, and then found a vender who did custom engraving. I had the insignia engraved on a money clip, so he could carry me around in his pocket, lol. Once I found a winery with a vineyard that had my name (mine is a rare name). So I purchased a bottle of wine from them so he could store me in his wine cellar. I have made floggers for him to use on me, in his preferred colors. This year I am taking a graphic image that he liked, and creating a decal out of it to place on a paddle. I like personalizing gifts for him, as they make them special.

AquaticSub -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 4:58:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sugaryslave He told me not to buy anything. He says a slave should do something for her Master. This is where I'm stuck with no ideas. Any other ideas? Tie yourself up with Christmas ribbon?

ownedgirlie -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 5:17:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sugaryslave He says a slave should do something for her Master. Things that are not bought: Massage, foot rub, cat bath, cook a gourmet dinner, take erotic photos of yourself, write a love letter, make a compilation CD of his favorite songs, bake him a pie....

LaMspeach -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 8:22:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sugaryslave What does one do for her Master for Christmas? I want to do something special for him, so any ideas would be appreciated (we do not live together). I can't tell you what i am doing this Holiday season cause it is a secret shhhhhh. Last Year, i cooked him dinner, baked him a cake, a gave him a few presents that covered different aspects of our relationship. i gave him a toy for our toy bag/BDSM side, dominoes for our playful side, a poem for the serious - M/s side. It just seemed right since most relationship cover many aspects to try to cover them all. I also think it is the thought the counts more then actual gift. I rather be given something small and meaningful that took some thought ....so i try to do the same.

BitaTruble -> RE: X-mas (12/3/2006 10:44:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MmakeMme You can get these little brown boxes at a craft store for about .50. Paint it black, paint a white circle on the top and paint an 8 in the white circle. On strips of paper, write silly answers that would be appropriate for any yes / no question, like "What am I? A fortune cookie?" or "Yes Sir. Of course you're right, Sir." Fill that box UP with those little slips. It's fun to lie in bed together and play with it. Lots of laughs (and lots of cuddling and connecting). I love this idea!! Thanks for sharing it, MmakeMme! Celeste

andreaC -> RE: X-mas (12/4/2006 3:54:48 AM)
I had the same issue......what to buy for Master. He said keep your money, do good at school, watch your health (im diabetic), work hard at work..... that is very important for him. We will be together in 23 days and i do intend to pamper him like there is no tomorrow........that he loves [:)]

sub4hire -> RE: X-mas (12/4/2006 6:59:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sugaryslave He told me not to buy anything. He says a slave should do something for her Master. This is where I'm stuck with no ideas. Any other ideas? In order to give someone the perfect gift you have to know something about them. What they would like and dislike. Work on that sort of budget. No matter how much money you have in the world if he has given you a budget of no money, then that is the budget. So, work on handmade crafts. Give him a day to relax, or a day of pampering with his favorite activities. Though, you are the one who needs to know what those are and what he would enjoy.

onestandingstill -> RE: X-mas (12/4/2006 7:42:58 AM)
I would set my alarm for an hour earlier than he gets up, I'd go take a shower, put on his favorite sexy outfit, go make his breakfast and coffee. I'd then wake him up kneeling next to him in the bed with my ass up, nose to the mattress and my hands extended over my head. I would greet him with a warm Good Morning Sir. Once he was awake I'd tell him I had his breakfast ready and was ready for any instruction he'd share with me. LOL hopefully breakfast would get cold and he'd want to do other things first (wink wink). After breakfast I'd offer to bate him, a massage, a manicure or pedicure, or any other thing you know he enjoys to pamper him as much as he'd let me. After that I'd ask him how he wanted to spend the day and if there was any other special thing I could do to make his day more enjoyable. LOL Maybe after dinner you could excuse yourself and go wrap yourself in saran wrap with a big red bow. You could come back in the room and say something like I'm ready for you to open your gift now............. Last but not least if he has some way you guys usually don't play as it's too much or too hard for you but you know he likes it, maybe let him do that. For example extreme pinching after about 5 minutes makes me sick to my stomach. I also HATE being paddled on my pussy. One of my good play friends avoids these two things most of the time or does this lightly as he knows it makes me very anxious even though he gets great pleasure out of this type of play. For his birthday I told him he could do all the pinching and pussy slapping in our session he wanted as I know he likes it so much. He said it was his favorite present he got for his birthday as he knew how hard it was to give it to him. Anything overall that shows you put him first above your needs would be good. Good luck, suzanne

Lashra -> RE: X-mas (12/4/2006 10:00:28 AM)
My sub asked me what he could get Me for christmas. I thought about it and I know he doesn't have alot of money. So I had an idea. I told him what I would like is for him to donate either some of his time or make a donation of a small amount of cash and items to the SPCA in both our names. We both love animals and I donate to the SPCA on a regular basis. I know they are in need of peoples time and money. It is a gift that I will always remember and treasure as its close to my heart. Perhaps your Master has a charity that he would like you to donate time too? ~Lashra

theRose4U -> RE: X-mas (12/4/2006 12:34:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sugaryslave He told me not to buy anything. He says a slave should do something for her Master. This is where I'm stuck with no ideas. Any other ideas? There are tons of things. Learning a new skill (massage, exotic cooking, home improvement) something that's useful. Making his favorite meal on a grand scale, crafting a new toy or something to store them that's more convenient. Listening to "I wish x" as he's pretty likely to drop hints after a discussion on don't buy gifts.

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