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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 1:44:28 PM   
darchChylde


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and why go looking for other ports of call when there is already a perfectly servicable dock right around the corner?

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 1:53:40 PM   
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Also, as previously posted, if the opportunity arises to have a clitoral, vaginal and anal orgasm all in the same night.....Happy Birthday!

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 1:55:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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There might actually be women out there who LIKE anal sex, but where are the sweet little chicadees that PREFER butt lovin' to the alternative?



Why does one have to better than the other ?  Maybe its a 'mood' thing. 

This reminds me almost of asking a guy if he likes a blow job better than fucking an ass or cunt. 



And most men could give you a concrete answer, pertinent to their preferred manner of "getting off." 

I didn't say that anyone "had" to have a specific preference.  I just want to find the ones that have "TreSwank friendly" preferences, which are far and in-between.


I really can't tell if you're serious or not.  But Im going to share one statement that is serious,  and you can do whatever you want with it. heh.

You may want to consider looking exclusively for someone whose desire is to be submissive. 
For me (and I speak only for myself), having someone 'take' me anally is a highly submissive act of 'surrender'.  Don't ask me to explain that.  I'm just saying that your may find a greater number of 'kinky' (submissive types) that share your enthusiasm than you will regular girls.

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 2:04:28 PM   
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Sooooooooo... to continue with the fact finding mission; for you ladies like myself who DO enjoy such activities...at what age did you discover this?  I'm wondering if this isn't why Tre, because he's both young and single, doesn't find so many women who are interested?

I was 19 and happily married...and didn't try it again (after my divorce at 21) for several many years.  Again...it's just not something I'm much interested in for casual play.  Yanno?

beverly

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 2:07:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I tried being on the receiving end once, didn't like it. I do enjoy giving it though. I find my boys feel so much more vulnerable when we do anal play.

Edited to add: I have a friend who just turned 20, and she loves anal. Prefers anal sex to anything else - well, maybe it's a tie with giving head. She's an interesting girl that way, and her boytoy is very appreciative.

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 2:09:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Bearlee


Sooooooooo... to continue with the fact finding mission; for you ladies like myself who DO enjoy such activities...at what age did you discover this?  I'm wondering if this isn't why Tre, because he's both young and single, doesn't find so many women who are interested?

I was 19 and happily married...and didn't try it again (after my divorce at 21) for several many years.  Again...it's just not something I'm much interested in for casual play.  Yanno?

beverly



You do have a point.  Women over the age of 28 seem to be more open to butt-lovin' than, say, than younger, less world-weary girls.

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 2:33:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was in my late thirties and it was in a vanilla situation with my ex husband...and even then, it felt submissive.  I cant wait to have it stolen from me in some forceful situation when someone has me by the hair and calls me a filthy nasty whore whilst they pound the living shit out of me. (no pun intented)

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 2:35:37 PM   
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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 3:02:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TreSwank


You do have a point.  Women over the age of 28 seem to be more open to butt-lovin' than, say, than younger, less world-weary girls.


It could be confidence as well.  I felt some trepidation about bringing it up even though I was in a long-term relationship.  I was pretty sure he would at least listen to my suggestion, but I had also heard/seen men who have an "Oh, hell no!" attitude about anal sex.

I could be in the minority here because I became more aware and confident sexually in my 30s.  It was not from being "world weary," though.  More about just for the sheer fun of it...something exciting and stimulating which resulted from more confidence in myself and the other person involved.  I do agree that I feel very submissive and experience increased mental arousal from that ~ even within the vanilla relationship I intially tried it in.

I would note that anal sex is not always fun unless the importance of lube is truly appreciated.  I almost choked on my drink when I read Aileen's "dry, dry, dry....ram!" post. LOL

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 3:09:09 PM   
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Good point feylin...about confidence.   And I'm with you about it being FUN; why would a younger woman be world-weary, anyway?  I don't get that part...

bear

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 3:36:51 PM   
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I cant wait to have it stolen from me in some forceful situation when someone has me by the hair and calls me a filthy nasty whore whilst they pound the living shit out of me. (no pun intented)


Well there you are Nureyev, there are several would perform the fudgepacker suite with you but they are all Joisey girls, and they have a hard limit of left-hand turns, and there don't seem to be any way out of that.

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 3:39:09 PM   
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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 3:43:54 PM   
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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 4:39:52 PM   
marieToo


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I know how to make a friggin left!


Me too!  You give them the finger, then cut them off the road while they're reaching for the gun. 

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 4:40:56 PM   
marieToo


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

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I cant wait to have it stolen from me in some forceful situation when someone has me by the hair and calls me a filthy nasty whore whilst they pound the living shit out of me. (no pun intented)


Well there you are Nureyev, there are several would perform the fudgepacker suite with you but they are all Joisey girls, and they have a hard limit of left-hand turns, and there don't seem to be any way out of that.

Ron



This kills me..."the fudgepacker suite". lmaooooooooo

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 4:53:39 PM   
marieToo


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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

Oh!!!  The things I want to say, but wont...hehehe


Aww come on...where is that 'badgirl' side of you that dissed Santa?

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 5:13:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm kinda late in the thread.  Just wanted to say i'm someone who actually prefers anal to vaginal sex.   I like the fact that it initially scares the hell out of me every single time.  I can't give you a 'how often answer' as it varies depending on my guys mood.  But if it were up to me....at least a couple times a week!  I'll  admit ...I worry about what I refer to as 'porno star ass", you know those women in the movies who you can immediately tell they take it in the ass.  So, for this reason, I'm thankful I don't get fucked there too too often.
As for size, my Master is well endowed and after being taken that way by him - I prefer it.  I just don't think it would be as pleasurable if it just glided in easily.  I want to be clutching the bed and thinking "oh my god, oh my god."  But that's just me.

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 5:39:47 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68


Definitely the most intense blowjobs I've ever given have included my finger up his (not Tre..his as in generic his)  ass. 


I am SO never going to put my finger up someone's ass.  Unless of course he says "do it, bitch"


So you like a little old-style romancin' first.

Sinergy

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 5:44:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68


Definitely the most intense blowjobs I've ever given have included my finger up his (not Tre..his as in generic his)  ass. 


I am SO never going to put my finger up someone's ass.  Unless of course he says "do it, bitch"


So you like a little old-style romancin' first.

Sinergy

Yeah Marie is soooo romantic.  That's just the feeling that you get from her posts.

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RE: An Eloquent, Thought-Provoking Question for the Lad... - 12/5/2006 6:25:23 PM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		I have to confess to some disappointment

This is nowhere near as freaky and off the wall as Tre's usual posts.

Usually, he manages to excel himself time and again with squick factor, but this time, its (reasonably) normal stuff.

E

PS - no I dont, haven't and wouldnt. But then, I'm just no fun anymore.

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