|
Voltare -> RE: curious (12/13/2006 5:42:20 PM)
|
I love objectification. DISCLAIMER: Don't use these techniques. They aren't suited for anyone.
First, have a chitty chat with your sub, preferably the day or two before you plan to do this (so as not to spoil the actual event.) Make sure you both know what you can or can't do, what you want and don't want. I highly encourage the use of a safe word here, as you're both venturing as newbies into unfamiliar territory. I personally don't like bizzare words like "BananaReflux" so on the occasions I've used them, I tell the girl just to say my real name (since during scenes, my actual name is probably the last thing to fall out of her mouth accidentally.)
For me, it starts like this: "Girl! Come here!" Terrified, gretchen comes, almost like a scared cat (she will look like a scared kitty probably through the whole scene.) "On your knees!" She complies. I start correcting her pose. "Head up! Back Straight! Eyes Forward!" I encourage her to use good posture with the business end of my belt. "Hands crossed, behind your back!" I walk around her, and start peppering her with questions, usually related to small mistakes she's made recently - this is one reason to have small rules around the house, to give fuel for these fires. " So, what happened to the coffee this morning?" "Um..." "No milk??" "We didn't have...." (I darn well knew we were out of milk) "WE didn't have... WHAT??" "We, uh, were out of..." "OUT OF MILK???" A fistful of hair later, she's sprawled out against the wall - *CRACK* belt lands on her ass....you get the picture.
Sounds elaborate, but it only takes about 120 seconds or so. The key here is to keep her off balance, and one step ahead. A little planning ensures that there's some rope, belt, flogger, etc handy. Cutting a girl off halfway through her sentences works great for frazzling her nerves.
Objectification in a scene essentially is 'dehumanizing' the sub. Tearing away their belief that they have 'rights' because they are not human. They are mere property to be used and abused at your pleasure. Usually, there's a heavy sexual element here "You're not a lady, you're just three holes to be used" for example.
You might want to browse some BDSM story collections for specific scene ideas. I don't recommend using it as a basis for relationships, obviously.
Oh, and do be careful. You're not playing with matches here, you're playing with a blowtorch.
|
|
|
|
