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Yourangelic1 -> RE: Why are people confused about 24/7 TPE??? (12/8/2006 9:56:10 AM)
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This girl is in agreement with MsKathy Ma'am and thinks that this is on the same line as the point the original poster was trying to make. Sir said that all too often people go into D/s with the impression or expectations of what the relationship will be like. When in reality life does get in the way, and maybe getting in the way is not the best term, but too often we do have ideals and expectations, and when they are not met, or fail to be as we thought, we get disappointed. Life being, bills, children, housekeeping, animals, for us it is taking care of livestock, whatever it may be, and it is a struggle.
When this girl was collared and was in a 24/7 TPE with her Mistress, we looked for another sub/slave to join us, and overwhelmingly the response was the same as MsKathy saw. How often do you play? Do you orgasm often? The whole gammet of bedroom or sexual related questions, when truly my service to my Mistress was quite often just basic domestic service, which i love! Most we talked to were turned off by this, and exactly what slaveseeker was getting at this girl believes. That the "glamour" of play, and cuffs and 24/7 BDSM is not always the extravagant scenes or play, its the little things, that make it work.
The everyday undertones of D/s always being there, whether in front of children or in vanilla situations, its always knowing ones place, that the glance from a Dominant can still send the same shivers of subspace as a complicated scene. That knowing the simple tone of voice can change a behavior.. that the simple gesture of seeing the sparkle in ones Dominant's eye is enough to charge you for the rest of the day.
There is a place and time for scenes and basic D/s elements, maybe its just realizing that when life throws all of its curve balls, that sometimes we cannot be as spontaneous as we may like.
i hope i at least made some sense here, i know what i was trying to say.. but hmmm i sometimes get rambling.
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