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cjenny -> RE: "I need..." (12/7/2006 3:06:25 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Arpig
cjenny...my remark was in response to a question as to why some people will open a totally blank profile...and expect any results..and no rather than specifying what you need somebody to provide, you specified what you are unable to provide..this is equally valid, you will only (or at least in theory...assuming the wankers actually get past the fetching picture) get responses from those who's expectations match your ability. I am going out on a limb here, but will be willing to hazard a guess that your desires probably outstrip your physical ability to fulfill them, therefore there is nothing wrong with your approach...it is a variation on what I said before..."I need a people who will accept me within my physical limitations....perfectly fair & good.
thanks Arpig, heh you are the first person to actually respond to a post of mine! It was hard for me to put that in my profile but yes, i need to be accepted within my limitations. I had partially thought that it would weed out some folks, but my inbox is full of 'oh you can travel to Me, it would be worth your while' etc's heh. Thankyou for the validation that it was okay to begin my profile with that. It isn't always easy being upfront about ones inabilities on a site that is primarily focused on physical activity. (And yes, my needs and desires far outstrip my abilities. Physical limitations aren't often brought up as 'limits' on here that I have been able to find.)
jenny
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