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How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 1:25:28 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		I sometimes sit and watch these talk shows and when the boyfriend/ girlfriend cheats on them with their best friend they will break up with them but STILL remain friends with their buddy...I don't understand...if your best friend slept with your boyfriend/ girlfriend could you just forgive them and continue being their friend? I don't think I could, the trust would be gone and that is the ultimate in betrayal.
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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 1:30:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		if your best friend slept with your boyfriend/ girlfriend could you just forgive them and continue being their friend?
 
Yes and i have done. Its not easy but we managed it and touch wood thi ngs have gone smoothly.
Having said that i do think im way too forgiving at times.

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 1:30:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am not forgiving at all.  When someone says they are sorry they need to truly mean it.  That takes time for me to see.  Otherwise I pretty much remember everything for eternity.
If my dom did someone else and we were in a monogamous relationship it would be over with my dom.  I would forgive the innocent bystander.
Now my friend....well the friend would be gone as well.
Back with my first dom my roommate went and threw herself on him one night.  He pushed her away and the next day she was homeless.
So, yeah I harbor grudges now and then.  Though I did get a Christmas card in the mail from her yesterday after not speaking for 15 years....what's up with that?

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 1:30:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I used to be an overly forgiving person but over the years events have happened that have changed that. I find as I get older I become less tolerant of mistakes. Of course it depends on the mistake. Severe things such as betrayal, breech of trust I cannot forgive. Small things I seem to have no trouble forgiving.

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 1:37:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know I couldnt be their friend.  I am forgiving, but I never forget.

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 1:40:22 PM   
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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 1:45:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		I believe in keeping friends close and enemys closer...so yeah, I'd remain their friend..

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 2:01:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I try to be forgiving and not a door mat...sometimes people take a very forgiving person as a door mat....but when it comes to relationships, I couldn't forgive someone for sleeping w/ my boyfriend..maybe forgive/ forget but not continue being their friend.

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 2:05:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		i forgive anything if it's up front, a lie is a lie is a lie and that's unforgivable... and even if i forgive, i'll not forget; if that trust is broken, it's not simple to mend

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 2:11:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		My best friend slept with my girlfriend and he is to this day my one of my best friends (and no, he didn't get demoted, I have just since met somebody with whom I am much closer), and she remained my girlfriend for about 3 years after the fact...It made no difference to me, I am not so vain as to assume that I can possibly satisfy all any one person's desires/fantasies, just as i recognise that there is no one person who can fulfill all mine.
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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 5:16:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't forgive and don't forget when it comes to cheating. I may "tolerate" or "put it behind us" and "get along" but the person has dropped a few notches in my book and I'll always look at them that way.....

Cheating...imho....is THE ultimate slap in the face......

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 5:20:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm quite certain I could not remain their friend.  I would get them both out of My life as quickly as possible and never look back.
 
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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 5:24:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72
 boyfriend/ girlfriend cheats on them with their best friend

Sounds like one might ask for the other's friend to have fun with...hmmm
What is good for the goose... ;)

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 5:25:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72

I sometimes sit and watch these talk shows and when the boyfriend/ girlfriend cheats on them with their best friend they will break up with them but STILL remain friends with their buddy...I don't understand...if your best friend slept with your boyfriend/ girlfriend could you just forgive them and continue being their friend? I don't think I could, the trust would be gone and that is the ultimate in betrayal.


what kind of friend doesn't lend her man out to her best friend?

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 5:44:25 PM   
marieToo


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Status: offline 		um...it was a joke...

I cant really relate to the que tho....

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RE: How Forgiving Are You? - 12/7/2006 6:53:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Forgive?.....eventually, yes.  Would they still be my friend?  When this happened to me in my very early 20's, i beat the bitch up and almost killed him.  I have grown over the years, matured a bit.  If i had a friend that did this to me now?  i can't honestly answer if i could remain friends with them.
I have been through things in the last 6 years i never thought i would ever have to do and survived.
Forgiveness is one thing.......remaining friends....ehhh, just can't answer.

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