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BD123 -> Sub Frenzy (12/7/2006 9:38:11 PM)

 I have been told by a sub that she is experiencing “sub frenzy” and it is not the same as sub space. I have tried to find the definition of this term and so far have been unsuccessful. Can anyone help with a definition?



MasterNdorei -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/7/2006 10:11:05 PM)

What "symptoms" (for lack of a better word) is she associating with "sub frenzy"?

Master's dorei



charlotte12 -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/7/2006 10:21:33 PM)

hmmm...is that like when someone starts talking about handcuffs and all of a sudden you remember what they feel like and you feel like you would do anything...anything...to feel them around your wrists?....

uh....not that i feel like that ever [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m11.gif[/image]...no seriously.....never....

anyway, sorry to be silly. i would be interested to see what other, more informed people say..
~"charlotte"



NaiveTempest -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/7/2006 11:18:03 PM)

I read an article (wish I had the link, sorry!) about sub frenzy. It basically stated that sub frenzy was a way of saying "I'm horny and I want some NOW and ANY man will do!" Maybe that friend hasn't had a Dom to dominant her in a while and she's feeling the itch to be dominanted REAL bad. She's more likely to accept a sub par situation/Dom because she wants to feel that feeling again. It's like being out of the dating scene for a while then entering it again; you may jump into a relationship with the wrong person because of your eagerness to have that "loving feeling" again.
Does that help at all?



NaiveTempest -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/7/2006 11:38:33 PM)

HA! I found the link. I can't take credit, thank LotusSong for the link for you can find it under their post in the "Ask a Submissive/Slave" forum.

http://www.leathernroses.com/submission/steelefrenzies.htm




LotusSong -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/8/2006 3:20:29 AM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_714189/mpage_1/key_submissive%252Cfrenzies/tm.htm#714449

The link is here on this thread I have on Ask a Submissive.

And here is that link:
http://www.leathernroses.com/submission/steelefrenzies.htm



aleshaDreams -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/8/2006 3:32:56 AM)

http://www.steel-door.com/Frenzies.html

Same article as above, just another link to it



MisPandora -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/8/2006 7:34:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BD123

I have been told by a sub that she is experiencing “sub frenzy” and it is not the same as sub space. I have tried to find the definition of this term and so far have been unsuccessful. Can anyone help with a definition?

Sub frenzy, where I'm from, means that the submissive is out of control and obsessing about their position -- their new addiction.  I googled it and it came right up for me --

Defined on http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdglossary.html
SUB FRENZY: Colloquial A very strong, sometimes overwhelming, desire to find a dominant partner or to become immersed in BDSM-related activities, sometimes seen in people who identify strongly as submissive, particularly peope who have either just newly discovered their submissive side or who have not partaken in BDSM-related activities for a long time. People in the grip of sub frenzy may sometimes make unwise or unsafe choices.
 
http://www.steel-door.com/Frenzies.html
http://lauragoodwin.org/interview.htm (referenced in interview)



LotusSong -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/8/2006 7:38:01 AM)

This is the site where I pulled the link. She has a plethera of article she has written for both sides, D and s.  You can get lost for days.

http://www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html



Morrigel -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/8/2006 7:44:53 AM)

Innaresting.  I had never heard a word for this, although I've seen it countless times.

--M



DreamWizardNJoy -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/8/2006 4:53:12 PM)

[8|] Just a gentle reminder: Though it is not spoken of as frequently, Dom-types can experience the "frenzies" too, with many of the same symptoms. Also, the frenzies are often associated with newcomers to the lifestyle; generally true, but they can affect someone at nearly any stage of their journey.

Warm regards all on their path,
David Dream Wizard and his dreamgirl, joy



stacee -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/10/2007 8:11:52 PM)

Oh....now I know what it's called..:).  Serious note, I can attest to that, but I didn't make any unwise choices...not yet anyway.



Driver1961 -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/11/2007 5:37:47 AM)

He dips;

Oh, I get it..... an all encompassing word for pain slut, whip slut, fist slut, cock slut, mind fuck slut, arse slut, face fuck slut, fuck slut, rope slut, needle slut,   I could go on but then we might have a Dom Frenzy thread. 

I learn the most useless and funny terms online- what ever happened to saying 'Explain what you mean please.?'



SirJohnMandevill -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/11/2007 10:07:39 AM)

Gee...I wish I would inspire frenzy in someone....[sm=hello.gif]

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)



mnottertail -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/11/2007 10:09:20 AM)

ask someone to loan you a 20 when you didnt pay the last one back, that should get it done for you

Ron



Jeffff -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/11/2007 11:12:16 AM)

"Barnekie!!!!...He owes me  money!!



Pvt, John Winger



ClubMix -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/11/2007 11:21:45 AM)

Now I`m idly wondering how many subs went into their first "frenzy" when they first discovered the lifestyle?
Looking back, I`m fairly positive that breaking up with a guy I`d been with for about eight months, and eating the novel drivel told to me by a "wel-educatid aristrocatis dominate" from "the uS capitol" for at least a month while allowing a good friend of mine to tie me to the pipe of my parents' basement and take a couple random thwacks at me with a power cord counts, right? [&:] Anybody with similiar experiences, or is it just me?



Leatherist -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/11/2007 11:32:12 AM)

FR

Sub frenzies can be fun. You can use the sexual energy to get them to do some truly insane things. As far as dealing with it? That would be up to the Op's Dom.



cindybee -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/17/2007 6:31:30 PM)

I think I'm in the midst of sub frenzy right now. I've had sub feelings since I was 11 (I'm 45) but I never really acted on them, but the past few days it is all I can think about. I just found this site today and I can't stop coming here (Of course, I'm procrastinating work as well). I was hoping that I would final have the guts to go to a fetish night this weekend. Maybe it's a good thing.  It's very frustrating. [:(]



LittleWench -> RE: Sub Frenzy (12/17/2007 6:52:18 PM)

I would define it as a frenzy when the need to scene causes an impairment in judgement.  Just like an addict trying to score their next fix.  Often the longer the withdrawal, the greater the desperation.

Cindybee, I think the greatest thing to watch out for in your situation is not forming a deep emotional attachment to the first person that explores your submission.  Just because they are the first to experience your desires that doesnt mean they are right for you in a relationship sense.  That would be like every one marrying the person they surrendered their virginity too.... however I think it happens a lot during frenzy.



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