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perverseangelic -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/8/2004 9:03:00 PM)
depends, how often do you use the line "hey baby, wanna cyber?" :)

Estring -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/9/2004 2:11:54 AM)
One way to weed out the HNGs is, anyone with Master in their nick or something like submittome or anything with dark in it should be avoided.

~lisa~ -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/9/2004 3:55:17 AM)
Not sure about using that criteria, i am friends with a really great Dom who had a "Masterly" name, it's just a name. And to answer the original question ... i'm not sure it's possible to weed out some hng's until a meet, and in some cases they talk the talk pretty good then too ... If they ask me about my darkest fantasies on initial contact, or want masturbatory emails i blow them out.

iwillserveu -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/9/2004 7:29:54 AM)
quote: depends, how often do you use the line "hey baby, wanna cyber?" :) - perverseangelic Well, do you?[:)]

sweetobsession -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/9/2004 2:13:03 PM)
laughs summore yanno it's nice to laugh off and on i think dont ya'll?

January -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/9/2004 4:57:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Estring One way to weed out the HNGs is, anyone with Master in their nick <snip> That reminds me of a personal I read on collarme awhile ago. This man had "Master" in his nic. Anyhow, this master was complaining in his journal how he wasn't getting much messaging action, especially compared to his friend who was a domme. I felt sorry for him (probably not the emotion a "true master" should be after from a stranger), and wrote him a message telling him he might have better results if he wasn't listed as a switch (unless, of course, he WAS a swtich). His response to me was another complaint about how he couldn't get his classification changed by collarme. Yeah, whatever. January

ringmaster76120 -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/10/2004 9:38:57 AM)
Th square root of 69 is ate something. ringmaster76120

ZenMaster -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/10/2004 9:39:10 AM)
Like the old guy on the commercials used to say, "you earn it the old fashioned way" and in this case, friendship. Why jump right in looking for a relationship without building a foundation first? That way if anything happens, such as discovering they're not who they claim to be, you won't be so upset. ZM

ZenMaster -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/10/2004 9:40:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Estring One way to weed out the HNGs is, anyone with Master in their nick or something like submittome or anything with dark in it should be avoided. Should I change my name then? :-) Randy

Estring -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/10/2004 3:12:49 PM)
Actually Randy, you are one of the exceptions to this rule. Too bad more don't follow your example.

iwillserveu -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/10/2004 5:18:47 PM)
lol

MasterTheron -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/11/2004 5:39:51 PM)
that one is hard t do,incyber space we can be anything we want to be.from a gorean Master to the most extreme possible,i am an rl Master with the experience of alot of slaves and lots of contact withbdsm community in rl worl,my advise is to always ask questions,lie what toys do you own,do you interact with the local bdsm community and things like that good luck

DarkQuin -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/27/2004 9:00:40 AM)
quote: One way to weed out the HNGs is, anyone with Master in their nick or something like submittome or anything with dark in it should be avoided. Damn, I wondered why I keep being avoided on here. chuckles Should I change my name now or what? Just kidding Quin

Thanatosian -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/27/2004 11:43:01 AM)
Quin - I wouldn't worry about it too much - I did change my nick here as an experiment to see if that would have any impact on responses - and to date have not noticed any change. Unfortunately Estring is correct in that the majority of doms with 'master, lord, sir, dark' etc. as part of their nick are HNGs or wannabes or (insert label of choice here) who dont really have a clue what the lifestyle is all about - and that does make it harder for those of us that do, and are sincere about the lifestyle. We simply have to 'soldier on' as it were[;)]

Sinergy -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (5/27/2004 2:28:50 PM)
My first nick in the lifestyle had Master in the title, and I got to thinking a) Do I really know what being a "master" entails (having been involved for a whole 6 months) and b) do I really want to label myself. So I got rid of that particular me. Somebody wants to know about me, all they have to do is ask. I am not sure how to weed out the Horny Net Geeks to be honest. I would simply recommend you follow your instincts. Good luck, Sinergy

DarkQuin -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (6/5/2004 12:36:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Thanatosian Quin - I wouldn't worry about it too much - I did change my nick here as an experiment to see if that would have any impact on responses - and to date have not noticed any change. Unfortunately Estring is correct in that the majority of doms with 'master, lord, sir, dark' etc. as part of their nick are HNGs or wannabes or (insert label of choice here) who dont really have a clue what the lifestyle is all about - and that does make it harder for those of us that do, and are sincere about the lifestyle. We simply have to 'soldier on' as it were[;)] I'm not going to, too many other things to worry about right now such as real life and finding a new place to live. Fun fun fun fun, please can I have some more? Anyways, I've actually made quite a few friends here, just haven't met anybody local yet, si la vi I guess. Quin

DomRaymond -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (6/18/2004 9:18:52 AM)
Never give you ss# to anyone.

Voltare -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (6/18/2004 9:31:07 AM)
Hmmmm My personal advice to weed out HNG's (male and female alike) is wrapped into one line of questioning: Are you looking for a relationship? If so, are you looking for it online? If so, why? HNG's obviously run into these questions, and have smooth answers - but inevitably the chinks in the armor show. "I had an accident so I can't work..." "It's a distraction from my stressful job..." "because I want to know the inner person..." all are perfectly acceptable answers, but when asked about munches, real time encounters, etc, inevitably the HNG - because they never leave their house - either has wild and unplausible stories, or simply states they don't like it (shyness, etc etc.) Anyone can read castlerealm.com - but unless you live the practices behind the philosophy, the cracks are sure to show. Oh, and HNG's invariably want cyber right off the bat (grins.) Stephan

Sinergy -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (6/18/2004 10:41:18 PM)
quote: Th square root of 69 is ate something. \ How fast can you go in sex? 68, because if you go 69 you end up eating it.

sadistic -> RE: Being able to tell HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) from True Masters (6/19/2004 5:02:07 AM)
My honest answer would be avoid basing anything on the things you read, and more on what you feel when you meet the person. I know that due to distance, and a concern for safety people dont jump into seeing others in the flesh immediately, but I do think this is the way to know what the other is like. In the past I've been burnt by subissives who say the right thing online, and aren't really honest with me or themselves. I think that it's just hard to get to know somebody wholly online, even with phone calls. So I tend to stick with only playing with people who are local. Now this might mean I'm missing out on a lot, as some people seem lovely albeit far away, but I think it's safer for lots of reasons. Sadistic.

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