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rules when going out..... - 12/11/2006 7:31:15 PM   
andreaC


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Status: offline 		In three weeks, Master and I will be going to a New Year's eve party.  What i would like to know is how to get ready for this.  I know the basic rules, but i just want to make sure i have covered everything.  I want him to be very proud of me, not that he isnt, but just to make it extra special for him. 

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RE: rules when going out..... - 12/11/2006 7:40:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Your desire to serve, and serve well, is wonderful! However, you're asking us to tell you what's important to your Master. We can't do that...you'll have to ask him.

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RE: rules when going out..... - 12/11/2006 7:57:24 PM   
andreaC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Your desire to serve, and serve well, is wonderful! However, you're asking us to tell you what's important to your Master. We can't do that...you'll have to ask him.

Master Fire



Thank you Ma'am  , i guess my question was not asked properly.  I was just curious as to what the other sub/slave do to prepare themselves, do they have a ritual etc.....  I will be well behaved for sure cause i want this evening to be perfect.

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RE: rules when going out..... - 12/11/2006 8:36:56 PM   
syreena


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Status: offline 		Before being with Master full time, i would make sure that if W/we were going out my safe calls were set, also my safe call would call back two hours after the time would end and the next day - if you need to know why feel free to ask me. Then i would make sure that i discussed His expectations.  i would take notes and try to anticipate needs, things such as bringing flowers, thank you notes and a pen (this way He could sign and leave it carefully) or arrange reservations in His name, etc.  Before i actually saw Him, i would bath and dress (have back up hosiery items) and spend about 15 mintues just focusing in on why i was there.  Upon meeting Him i would kneel for Him (as He liked) and ask permission to serve Him that night as this would  set the tone for my mentality.  i would have also brushed up on interesting conversation topics, reviewed etiquette for social engagements and made sure that i was ready for the evening.  The basic thing is be respectful, have fun and be safe.

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RE: rules when going out..... - 12/11/2006 9:02:28 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Except for any specific rules your dom may give you, just act like you would at any vanilla party.

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RE: rules when going out..... - 12/12/2006 4:14:33 AM   
kisshou


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Status: offline 		Hiya andrea,

it is your use of the word rules that is throwing everyone off.  I think we all have rituals or things we do before a night out with Master.  Shower, shave, special scent , make sure you check yourself in the mirror from all angles. It can take alot of time picking out the right outfit, I would definately have that picked out 2 weeks ahead of time and make sure you have a back up outfit. Shoes can be tricky if you have to do alot of walking, there are some great boots out now that are really sexy but easier to walk lots in.

How much if any jewelry are you going to wear? If you have a collar are you going to show it off? If he is going to order you to strip will it take 3 hours because of buttons?

I have also noticed if I wear a soft material I get touched alot more.  (no wool suits :P )

Mentally I spend time thinking about him and focusing on what about the upcoming event will bring him pleasure. I try not to worry or think about my expectations or what I want to happen, that way can lead to disppointment.

I also brush up on current events or things I think his friends and colleagues will be discussing.

I hope you come back and post and let us know how the evening transpired. :)

gosh duh! I had to edit to add the most important part, during the party quietly stay attuned to his needs, drink glass full , napkins, cocktail plates disposed of etc.  Not hovering but in a pleasantly discrete way and sometimes that means backing off and giving him space to mingle. 

< Message edited by kisshou -- 12/12/2006 4:16:22 AM >

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RE: rules when going out..... - 12/12/2006 4:24:49 AM   
andreaC


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Status: offline 		thank you A/all for the advice.....sorry for the english wording coming from a french girl . 

I will let you know how it went kisshou

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